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Last Update: January 10, 2007
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okay, so me and my bf are having problems ever since we got back from winter break. well, should i say.. im having problems. lately, he's been talking to his ex lately more and more. i keep thinking in my head that he's cheating on me with her but, people that know him pretty well say he's not the TYPE of person who would do that. today, i asked him.. if he had the guts to break up with me. his answer was "no...well, if i had to, but i dont want to break up." its soo hard.. my head has been going crazy with these thoughts about having him cheating on me. i asked him if theres anything going on, and he said no&&he loves me, i gave plenty enough chances to break up with me.... but he hasnt. the thing is, he's driving me crazy......usually he says i love u or sumthing like cute or nice or at least say goodnight to me before i sleep.. but he hasnt done that. he says "i fell asleep cuz i was waiting for your text." what does this mean... seriously... my head says "he's cheating on you, break it up with him" and my heart says "dont do anything dumb, you know you love him and you trust him.", what should i do?
im desperate here. (link)
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This is a tough problem. If you truly know him well enough, you should be able to tell if he is acting different around you or if he is the kind of person to cheat on a girl. It may not be the most mature thing to do, but you could find other resources. You could ask his friends or even his ex's friends about it. Then, if you find evidence that could support the fact that he's cheating, confront him about it. Don't say "you're cheating on me because..." but "why did you do this and this, it doesn't look so good to me" or something like that. I know I'm not the best advice giver, but I hope I helped.
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2 months ago a friend that i liked the whole year screamed "(my name) i love you!" and i didnt really respond cause we were kinda far away. then later that night i was talking to him on AIM i told him that i loved him and if he really did like me. he didnt answer me, then signed off. then about 2 weeks later he signed on i IMed him again and he took like an 20 minutes to IM me back (he wasnt idle or anything and my friend was talking to him so i know he was there)he said "sorry i think we'd be better off as friends." i still really like him..alot =/ i dont see him that much anymore but i see him every now and then in the hallways. anyone have any ideas why he took so long? and what should i do? i would appreciate anything you say to me or any advicen you give me. thanks so much it means alot to me. (link)
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i think u should just hang out with him maybe once he gets comftoratable hell start feelin different, just give it some time
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okay im crying right now because i called my friend earlier today an no one picked up, so i called 3 hours later an she picks up(i was suppose to be going to her house) she picks an says,"why d you keep calling?!!??! can you please stop!!!! like please!!!! your distracting me" i say okay an then she hangs up
well she is a really great friend but gets mad easily
im really sad because i htink she hates me now
for sure
what do i do? (link)
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im in the same position, just hang out with some other friends, im ure she cant hold a grudge forever
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Okay well this going to sound werid but I have this internet boyfriend he use to live by me but he moved and like now im datting him and i really want his number but im afraid to ask him and like I don't know how to like ask him like being all nice and not tring to be like I want it so bad ya kno? and what should I say. And I'm also kinda like afriad to hear his voice so what do i do to like make this fear go away. can someone plz help me. (link)
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I think you shouldnt be so affraid if you like him, just type in randomly, so whats your phone number. and as for the call just play it cool say things like wow this is pretty cool JUST DONT WORRY TOO MUCH
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whats the best way to get someone turned on thats sitting next to you in the movie theatre. Im a guy. And not gay. so whats the best way to turn a girl on in the middle of a movie.. say funny movie. And whats the best way to approach a kiss in a movie theatre?? thanks (link)
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I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but you honestly shouldn't be kissing in the middle of a movie theater. Especially if its a funny movie and there could be smaller kids in the audience.
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I defentally need some advise!Ok well theres this guy...i really love him and always have, ever since i knew Kimmy. She is 16 and just recentally moved from Mongolia, so obviously her and her family are oriental. The only problem is the guy im madly in love with is her dad, Sanneybobo. I mean its not like hes married or anything. Well he was. It was just a fling, i know he really digs me! Hes 57 and i am 16. Do you think its too much of an age diffrence or will the love we both share for each other shine trough? Please tell me what you think! (link)
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If this question is for real, then STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING RIGHT NOW! I've heard of these things happening, and it's not right. You should forget about him, and find someone your own age!
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