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why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of the guy i likev and makes me cry so much..... why?
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WE ususally cry over guys if we get more emotionally atached then guys do. Although sometimes i wonder if maybe guys get emotionally attached too they just are scared to show there aemotions as girs usually just let it out.BUT it may be because you love him i know how that feels being in love can feel great for a moment then it all turns around then you think about how it coulda been,But eventually you will realise there are so many more people out there that u are missing on oppurtunties to be with some other guy that may care about u....
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hello,
my name is kelsey and i am 13 years old....ive been a cutter for as long as i was 11 or so. i cut for many reasons...my moms ex....was a mager alcohalic..and one night he cam into my bed room..and he was toaching me in ways i didnt like..i was only 8 years old...and lots of times he would beat my mom..and i waould hear her screams in mybed room...one day it was so bad i had to whatch i didnt no what to do....but the neighbors caled the cops..thank god..and my mom was taken to the hostbital. she was sent to a place so she could recover but she ran away...i had to stay with my grand parents for a week. when my mom left him 3 years ago i was so happy...but i still cut my self becuz i think of how how so many kids get a normal family and have a great child hood.but i dotn get to now.and now she has a new bf i will admit i love him hes very nice but some day i hate him with a pasion..please help me i dont want to cut anmore but i still love the pain....my mother knows i cutshe found out twice but doesn do anything about it...i dont think she loves me....please help me!!!!!
thxz..kelsey (link)
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dear kelsey,
Im sorry your going through such a painful child hood.If your mom cannot hear your cries for help try talking to your grandparents,or as i do try and seek a counsiler it will help let you get things out more. I understand what its like to feel so much pain to were it's at the point that you feel like you can no longer stand it. try getting a journel so you can put your most deepest thoughts in there and/or write poetry.MAybe your mom loves you sooo much and shes just scared an confused i know ur going through a hard time but put urself in your moms possition too im sure it will help.when your upset instead of cutting go to someone that you know u can let everything out too.
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