I defentally need some advise!Ok well theres this guy...i really love him and always have, ever since i knew Kimmy. She is 16 and just recentally moved from Mongolia, so obviously her and her family are oriental. The only problem is the guy im madly in love with is her dad, Sanneybobo. I mean its not like hes married or anything. Well he was. It was just a fling, i know he really digs me! Hes 57 and i am 16. Do you think its too much of an age diffrence or will the love we both share for each other shine trough? Please tell me what you think!
LoveMeDo answered Friday July 7 2006, 6:08 pm: Ok. BACK OUT OF THIS NOW! I think that age difference is ridiculously to big. It's huge...I want to throw up just thinking about this. If he is really showing intrest then most likley he is not a good man and could try to make you do something you don't want to do. If he gives any signs (flirting, touching, anything that makes you uncomfortable) then tell someone before something bad happens. If you seriously want him, get mental help! Only bad things could come from that. Also, he might not really like you, and you should not give him any reason to think you like him. Just leave it be. [ LoveMeDo's advice column | Ask LoveMeDo A Question ]
emiddlefreak answered Thursday July 6 2006, 4:49 pm: If this question is for real, then STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING RIGHT NOW! I've heard of these things happening, and it's not right. You should forget about him, and find someone your own age! [ emiddlefreak's advice column | Ask emiddlefreak A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday July 6 2006, 1:31 pm: thats like rape...its not even legal..and its weird to even like your friends dad...is this even a serious question? [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
iTS_ADViCE answered Thursday July 6 2006, 1:00 pm: okay...i dont know if this is a serious question or not but if it is then 40 years is way to big of a difference.. and hes your best friends dad? thats just crazy.. [ iTS_ADViCE's advice column | Ask iTS_ADViCE A Question ]
Elcee answered Thursday July 6 2006, 10:02 am: I agree with everyone on this - the age gap is far too big. He may seem cool and lovable now, but can you imagine in the not too-distant future he will be drawing his old age pension, have false teeth and no hair. All he will want to do is sit in front of the TV and sleep whilst you will want to be socialising and out having fun. Be friends with him and enjoy his company but as the father of your friend - nothing else. All the best. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday July 6 2006, 7:50 am: ok 41 yearts is waaaay too much of an age diff!!! once your like old enough to actually marry someone he'll be like old enough to die, so you should go out w/someone thats around your age. sryy!!
jumadel answered Thursday July 6 2006, 3:18 am: Hi, to be totally honest with you I think the age gap is far to big. There is 41 years difference! It might not be a problem for being friends but for a relationship I think it's far to big the age gap. You want to be dating people like 16-18, this guy is an adult while your still a teenager. Sorry, but Im going to have to say no on this one. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
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