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Okay so i guess my question is how can i get my fuck buddy to actually admit her likes me more then a buddy? It all started about 6 months ago we met talked most of the night after me and my roomie were out at the bars.At the time he had had a girl friend and well i never asked we just talked. Then they broke up and and him and I would hook up quite often. Well about 2 weeks ago my roomie went outta town and i didnt wanna be in my conplex by myself as we had recently had a murder happen.My roomate and I had also asked him if he wanted to be a 3rd roomate and he said yes. Well its coming up on the last couple days of 2 weeks during that time he has introduced me to his friends saying things like " ya my girlfriend knows how to cook" but when i gatherd the courage to ask him about the whole girl friend thing i asked him " we arent dating right?" and he responded back no were not. But things he says to me here and there insuaiates gf/bf status but when i ask he says no. All i wanted was someone to stay with me to feel safe and hes only been here maybe 5 nights outta the 2 weeks. Im confused and dont know what to do. Any advice would be much apprecaited. (link)
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i agree with the prefious answer since you gave yourslef to him first really what is he waiting for. since he's telling you no that you arent in a relationship then there it is my advice to you would be " DONT PURSUE A PERSON WHO ISNT TRYING TO PURSUE YOU" u can find better hun
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we already know kids / teens of all ages are having sex. but how do you know youre physically, emotionally, and mentally ready to have sex? (link)
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no one can answer that but you trust anb believe you will just know
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I've been seeing this guy for a while now. For eight months we were just friends with benefits, during these months he became my best friend, and then I realized I liked him. I admitted my feelings for him, he said he liked me too (but I already knew that because of his actions). A few weeks later I mentioned a relationship. He said no, he doesn't want one, because it might ruin our friendship, and he doesn't want one, but he still likes me and cares about me, and still wants to be exclusive.
Okay I said, I can understand that, I don't exactly agree with it, but I'll deal with it. But now my feelings for him are just steadily growing, and I want him to be an official couple with him.
I don't want to be wasting my time, and I know I'll only get hurt in the end. It hurts because my feelings are at a point where I am ready to take the next step, but I don't think he is. But its confusing because I know he cares about me. I just don't understand.
What do I do? I'm kind of at the point where I have to give him two options: I'm in his life as his girlfriend, or I'm not in his life at all.
I'm 19, he's 23. And we had this relationship conversation about two months ago, so I don't know if his feelings about that have changed, yet if they have, I would think he'd take the initiative and ask me. (link)
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just to all that u can to ensure his happiness ask him wat he likes and doesnt like but honey please dont try to make him so happy that ur not happy
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Is it wrong for a 17 year old girl to have strong feelings for a 34 year old guy? I am 17 and have a friend who is 34. I love everything about him. He's polite, sweet, considerate, and has the most amazing personality I have ever seen.
Before anyone assumes that he is some weirdo, here are the facts. He has NO IDEA I love him. He never has hinted at anything more than being friends and has never pressured me into anything.
Whenever I'm around him I feel truly happy and beautiful. I have never felt this way for anyone in my entire life. (I know this sounds like a case of teenage crush, but it's beyond lust, I love him for more than physical reasons. Just talking to him mesmerizes me.)
My problem is, I feel guilty and ashamed for the way I feel. I wish I could pull a switch and make my heart not like him, but it's too hard. My question is, is it wrong for me to love him, or should I feel ashamed about it? (link)
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well i honestly dont think your wrong the heart likes what the heart likes wait till your 18 to really do somethingabout the way you feel
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so i have a boyfriend. we're both 17. i can't figure out if he's using me for sex or not. he knows i'm a virgin and i didn't give up my virginity my ex who i was dating for like 14 months. we've done everything but actual intercourse. he always mentions it to me and i told him that i'm not going to do that with someone i've been dating for like amonth. he does text me everyday and sometimes he blows off his friends to hang out with me or he invites me to hang out with him and his friends. whenever we hang out we always end up doing sexual stuff like oral and stuff. i like him but i just don't know, i don't trust guys..
oh and we've only been dating like almost 2 months now. (link)
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i think you should ask him whats the rush lets get to know eachother first
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Can you smoke weed and still be a good singer? Someone told me that it makes your lungs stronger- because it makes you build up something or whatever- dont know how true that is.please don't lecture me about not smoking weed, thanks. (link)
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well i smoke and i am a very talented singer
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16/f.
I've always liked guys, since I was a little kid. But ever since I was quite young I've also liked the idea of sex with girls. I never really thought about it though, it was one of those things I accepted. It didn't seem weird or anything.
You might just say I'm bisexual, but I don't think I am. I mean, I've never actually had romantic feelings towards a girl, whereas I have with guys - fallen in love and everything. Y'know, I've gone crazy over guys. But I fantasize sexually probably equally over guys and girls. The idea of sex with both genders really turns me on. Although I've never been with a girl & felt like just jumping on them like I have with guys.
I know it probably doesn't need a label, & I never worried about it before. But when sexuality comes up in conversation and people ask questions, I just don't know what to say. It's kind of annoying not having a specific sexuality.
What would you say this means? Would I be classed as bisexual? (link)
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Honey i would say that your bisexual which is nothing to be ashame of im heterosexual but ive had fantisies of bein with a gurl bt if u have them more than a hanful of times you are bisexual
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There's this guy...(oh I can't believe I'm asking this)...and I really like him. And i've liked him for a looong time. And of course, we've never dated. There were serveral different rumors about him asking me out (of course, before I liked him) but that was quite a while ago. Anyways, my number one buddy has been telling me that she thinks he likes me. I don't know. But I wanna know.
How do you tell a 14 year old boy likes you?
-M:] (link)
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LOL its cute honey just tell him sometimes boys like a girl in control bt when and if you do be cute and shy about it bt make what you have to say known
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My bf broke up with me almost 5 weeks ago and i miss him like crazy. We were friends and hungout and stuff and he told me i was the first girl he's ever been in love with but he's so confused and see's me as a friend but im still the coolest girl he's ever met. We see eachother everyday and hangout a lot for being broken up. We got in a fight though and he said the friends thing isnt working because he feels bad because he feels like i want more than a friendship with him and i always bring up our relationship ,etc.I lied and said that i didn't want him back and i didn't know it bothered him that i talked about our past..I feel like i overwhelmed him with our relationship because he never had one like the one he had with me .I feel like he thinks i still like him..which i do! but i want to pretend ive moved on and break away from him and see if he comes back..does anyone have any personal stories like this? help! (link)
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in all honesty honey i think that if you talk about your feelings then it will be easier to get over him its obvious he does not want to be with you anymore and if you need closure sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and go from there
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alright, theres a dance in a couple weeks, its formal.
so girls will wear dresses and guy's nice suits or w.e.
my dress is blue, btw!(:
anyways, my hair now is about 1.5-2 inches above my shoulders.
it's light brown and i have my hair parted to the right side and side bangs. the bangs go a little past my nose.
my hair doesn't curl well. but i was thinking banana curls
with straight side bangs. but idk how that would look with my
short hair. but what else do you think i can do?
btw, i usually straighten my hair, so something new.
i want all my hair down for the dance.
and yes, i can get it professionally done.
and last, if you have any picture examples please put them
so i can show my hairdresser.
(the person in the picture preferably having short hair like me so i know what it looks like)
thanks in advance!(:
oh, btw i'm in seventh grade. (link)
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for formal events i would usually to a glam side ponytail but u should have wear it in a 1450's style go on the computer i mean Google images and type in 1550's hairstlyes and mayb tht can be some inspiration
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Ok so my dad makes my life a living hell and i dont know what to do anymore. He makes me just want to leave(die) and never come back. i just want to get away from the pain. i want to commit suicide but im afraid. Can you help me?? What should i do about these thoughts and attempts??
HelP!!! (link)
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what ever u do please dont kill yourself i mean i dnt knw you but you have to understand that killing yourself will not help try talking to your father about your problems and maybe things will be all right tell a school counselor about your problems maybe talk to a friend about your problems jus whatever you do know that there is more to being put through pain that suicide
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Hi, I've been sick with a pretty bad fever for... maybe 4 or 5 days? and I've noticed my eyes are really red and glazed. I have two questions:
1. Is that normal?
2. How do I get rid of it?
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yes its normal jus get some rest thats all u need
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i really really really want hair extensions.
i have medium length blonde hair that i get colored just about every two months (fyi) and my hair has been pretty much the same length for about a year now.
what are YOUR experiences with hair extensions?
painful? hard to manage? any problems? how long did they take to be applied? etc;.,
and i don't want clip on ones like the Jessica Simpson brand. (link)
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mines are really easy to manage they are jus like ur real hair jus keep them up
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whats the best method you have found for bikini line maittnence?? Something that will make it clean and bump free. Whenever I do mine, it always gets itchy and then bumps show up and its really annoying. Help! (link)
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waxing or something called NAIR it may smell butit gets rif of hair
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i like him [sorta]
but he REALLY likes me okay.....
well i dont know honestly,ive known him for like a year or something but like i dont know that MUCH about him, i like him thou like as a friend alot nd stuff and he told me he liked me and i told him i kinda liked him too but i jus didnt know, and he told me he'd wait, but i sed that maybe we should get to be like best friends first and then see what happens and stuff, and he agreed and hes being all nice about it and stuff, but i dont know i dont feel like this boy would be my first, cuz i havent ever been in a relationship...so i dont know! what do i do?!?!
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well i would jus say if you not ready then dont be in a relationship
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when me and my boyfriend dry hump i get an orgasm (im a girl btw) and then like my sex drive just goes down and i don't feel like doing it anymore. so like i try my hardest not to have an orgasm til later..is this normal? and what can i do to make sure i don't have one so quick? (link)
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excuse me i didnt know that dry humping could give you an orgasm an how do you actually know you are having an orgasm but maybe tell him to hump you slowly
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There's some quote that's by a guy like Ghandi or someone, and it's about trust. I can't remember what it is exactly but it's like 'I'd rather be a trusting friend and be lied to than not trust my friends' or something like that. Can anyone tell me what it is? I've already googled it =/ (link)
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do you wanna know what it means cuz if so it jus means id rather be a trusting friens thean have fake friends
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Okay, so I have two friends, A and B. They're 'best friends'. The reason i put it in quotes is because it doesn't seem like they're REAL best friends. Like there friends but are 'best' friends for the label.
Anyway, well A and me got into a fight. I have anger problems so when I get mad I get really mad, and so I tried to let some distence go between me and A so that I would get over it and we would never get to the whole me screaming and yelling stage. (Pretty much the whole fight was over this guy,C)C is A's Boyfriend. Well, B is a follower, pretty much A is the puppet master and B is the pupet. So me and A worked our fight out and we were all cool. Then, today, B is like freaking out because I wouldn't buy her a cookie at lunch(she promises to pay me back then doesn't, so i'm done) and I got one for myself and she was like freaking out that I wouldn't give her some of mine. Then, she brought up this morning. This morning me A&B were at my locker and This other girl H came and was just like talking with us. Well H and I were talking about Track (Me and A are on the team) I was telling H how our school track is a joke and like 2 people take it seriously. **back to lunch** B was telling me how I hurt A. But I wasn't talking about A.(A thinks shes good, but shes not) and so I was defending my self saying that I didn't mean it that way, and if she took it that way, then it was an accident because it wasn't ment to be taken that way.
Well B was like oh my god, w/e and like freaking out so we stopped talking.THENNN, we (B&I) were going to go to the libray to do homework but my other friends(I have other friends, so does A, but B doesn't)were staying out and just chilling. I wanted to do that to and B was like no, homeworrk and I was like do it out here or you can go to the libray yourself, it wasn't that big of a deal, but she took it as if the world was ending. So shes doing spanish I'm doing spanish and shes like hiding her answers like i'm trying to copy off her and I was like dude chill and she goes i'm not letting you copy off me, and I said okay, i'm not trying to(she was giving attitude, i wasn't and i was just like letting it go) and then I was just like, don't ask for stuff from me and B goes what? And i was like remember when you asked for the english prompt for an in class essay (so she could find quotes prior from going into class, I didn't think this was fair, first, I barly got to finish so I didn't want her to get an advantage and second thats cheating and thats a big deal and i'm not getting into trouble for something dumb like that) Anyway and she goes Yes, and I was like you were freaking out because i wouldn't give it to you, and since your not willing to let me copy your stuff(even though i wasn't going to) i'm not going to let you copy mytuff, and she said fine.
Today, after school I went up to A, even though I wasn't sorry**, and basicly, told her that What I said this morning wasn't about her and just explained myself saying that I was sorry and A was like oh, well don'dt even worry about it. I don't care.
And i was like that was weird, since B said she was pissed. so i texted B: here is the convo, B=B, and I is me.
I: I talked to A and she said that she was fine and she didn't care
B:Cool, cuase shes done dealing with you and so am i.
I:Excuse me?
B:WHat. I mean it your nothing but mean to both of us and frankly i'm sick of it. Friends don't treat people like shit
I:what do I say
B:i'm not gonna tell you want to say
I:i said what do i say. Meaning what so meant that i say...
B:everything if i ever said that stuff you u you'd like tell me off. Its building up and i'm sick of it.
**text to long so i'll sumerize
Basicly, I asked for examples and she was like this morning(track thing), lunch, spanish homework, to our parents. And i was like what do i say to your parents, cuz i think that you should be very polite to adults, and i know that i'm respectful to adults. A's parents are funny and kids themselves so i'm funny with them. They don't seem to mind. BUt B goes your obnoxious and act like your 10. and she was going on about how A's parents think that to, and B's parents don't like that thing. I'm never with B's parents so don't understand that. But I don't understand what I did wrong
Whos wrong here?**i know we all are in a little way
Do I need to change?
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okay i really dont knw who is wrong but if you want them to be your friends then maybe you should change maybe think before you say stuff and i have anger problems to but when someone makes you mad just tell them im not in the mood so just leave me alone please
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can you learn to do a toe touch in 4 weeks? (link)
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well being a former cheerleader i believe its possible all you have to do is practice and ust because it gets hard dnt get upset and quit cause being apart of the team is all the reward u need
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This guy asked me out a like a little bit over a month ago, because we both told eachother we liked one another and have been talking for a while. When he asked if i would say yes I said that i would say no. I felt like at the time we should just still get to know eachother more and I was too confused about whether I liked him, it was on and off everyday. So now i want him to ask me out because im positive that i want to now. Thing is we havnt talked all vacation, like over a week because he lost his cell. I dont want to specificly say ask me out but i want to hint that im ready for him to. What are some ways to flirt more or specific small flirty comments and be more [made up word] girlfriendy? (link)
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the best way to let him know is just to tell him because if you dont sumbody else can take your spot
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