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want to get back with an ex...
My bf broke up with me almost 5 weeks ago and i miss him like crazy. We were friends and hungout and stuff and he told me i was the first girl he's ever been in love with but he's so confused and see's me as a friend but im still the coolest girl he's ever met. We see eachother everyday and hangout a lot for being broken up. We got in a fight though and he said the friends thing isnt working because he feels bad because he feels like i want more than a friendship with him and i always bring up our relationship ,etc.I lied and said that i didn't want him back and i didn't know it bothered him that i talked about our past..I feel like i overwhelmed him with our relationship because he never had one like the one he had with me .I feel like he thinks i still like him..which i do! but i want to pretend ive moved on and break away from him and see if he comes back..does anyone have any personal stories like this? help!
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You are in a very similar situation to me so I know how you feel! :-) I don't know the best advice to give you because I am also trying to figure this out for myself. But previously, in a similar situation to this, the fact that he thought I had "moved on" really made him want me back. I didn't get with another guy, I just had fun with my friends, joined the gym and did some really cool and different things which I would never of done whilst I was with him. This drove him crazy because he felt like he was missing out in my life, and he was. He came back to me 3 months down the line and although I was really happy to have him back, he ended we breaking up again! All guys are different though and nobody knows how he feels but him. My advice to you is to forget about your ex, not completely but put him to the back of your mind. Don't contact him, make him miss you. Do things which you have always wanted to do and have loads of fun :-) If it's meant to be he will come back to you!
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in all honesty honey i think that if you talk about your feelings then it will be easier to get over him its obvious he does not want to be with you anymore and if you need closure sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and go from there
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