My boyfriend and I have been dating for about ten months now.. we are both 16 and i dont think he fully appreciates me..
We get into the STUPIDEST fights and he calls me names constantly.. I really do love him but I often find myself thinking about how much fun I could be having with someone who would appreciate me soo much more and treat me like a princess.. I dont think my boyfriend realizes how special i am. I dont want to break up with him though because he was my first everything- sex, real kiss,.. and weve been through alot with eachother..
what should i do?
you have to talk about it with him.. if he doesnt understand is he really who you want to be with? i dont thnik so. hes not being fair to you so talk to him and tell him that he cant be calling you all these names.. maybe give him some space and take some time to get to know other people. hope i helped and good luck
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i was recently out with a few of my friends when the topic of another friend (who wasnt there) and her boyfriend came up. Then someone said the have been going out for 4 months and they have only made out. we are going to be sophmores in high school (we are 15) and to me that seems far enough. How far shouldd they be going?? am i just been wierd?
making out at 15 deffinatly is not to young.. i dont think that 15 year olds should be going THAT far but some do.. hoppe i answered your question xoxo
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I'm 13/f
I have a really big crush on my brother's best friend (we'll call him Tim). Tim and my brother are going into 9th grade this year and i'm going into 8th. I don't think he has ANY idea that I like him...he usually goes out with girls his same age...which means he would NEVER consider going out with me (i mean...i'm only a year younger). If my brother found out I liked Tim, I think he would totally flip out and make fun of me for the rest of my life...and he would also tell him! I'm ebarrassed that I like this guy...but he's really nice to me and unlike other guys, he's really sensitive and cares about peoples feelings. Is there ANY way I can kind of...you know...let him know I like him secretly?? without just saying it...like giving him a clue? HELP =/
flirt with him.. a lot and make it so its not obvious to your brother but maybe to him? do stuff that he likes and dont act immature around him.. i dont think guys mind going out with girls that are only a year younger.. once you get into middle school and highschool it erally doesnt even matter anymore.. so just maybe have a serious talk with your brother about it.. and maek sure he doesnt tell tim that you likehim and make fun of you.. just maybe have your brother see if tim likes you too.. hope i helped xoox
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I know it's long but i really need help
please please help me
I was double dating at the movies me my bestfriend my boyfriend and his bestfriend who happens to be my ex boyfriend and my friends boyfriend(confusing i know but stay with me).when i leaned on my boyfriend he moved (i was so pissed)and switched seats with his friend A.K.A my ex (which at the time my boyfriend new was my ex)Then he leaned over and ask me out (now I was really pissed)all that went through my head was what does my boyfriend take me for his ho now my boyfriend clearly notices I'm mad and switches back then he says are you happy now I just rolled my eyes and sat back (still to this day I don't know what the movie was about)I called all my friends and I told my friend who's boyfriend just asked me out (i just need to remind to you who these people are in reference to each other).I thought my boyfriend new about it (why else would he have voluntarily moved),but the next day he asked me about it and I told him he said he moved cause he thought his friend wanted advice about my friend .lucky for his friend we didn't see him in school for the rest of the year(this was the weekend before the last week of school).Then about a week later we call him on three way and he said that he loved me since the day he laid eyes on me . I use to love him untill he broke my heart and cheated and I might still love him.Is he mad because I found true happiness and may love his friend (my boyfriend) and just wants me cause he can't have me or did he truly learn his lesson.Should I stick with my current boyfriend who treats me like I'm the world or should I go back to my first love?
you stay with your boyfriend who treats you right its as easy as that.. you dont go back with someone who cheated on you and broke your heart.. you just dont.. haha yeah that really was confusing but i got it.. if he treated you like crap why would you go back with him? stay with the one that your with.. you might not get another chance with him if you break up with him.. and you friend would probly be mad at you for stealing her boyfriend.. soo i dont think you should atleast not now.. maybe in a few years or soemthing but if you really want to go back to your first love.. then do waht you want but i wouldnt it culd cause troble..hope i helped xOox
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does anyone know the website when you put your weight and height and it tells you if you are at the right weight or over weight? thanks
www.seventeen.com has one i think .. its prettyy acuarte.. also, next time your at the doctor look for a chart around her/his office or ask him about it. hope i helped xoOx*
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I defentally need some advise!Ok well theres this guy...i really love him and always have, ever since i knew Kimmy. She is 16 and just recentally moved from Mongolia, so obviously her and her family are oriental. The only problem is the guy im madly in love with is her dad, Sanneybobo. I mean its not like hes married or anything. Well he was. It was just a fling, i know he really digs me! Hes 57 and i am 16. Do you think its too much of an age diffrence or will the love we both share for each other shine trough? Please tell me what you think!
okay...i dont know if this is a serious question or not but if it is then 40 years is way to big of a difference.. and hes your best friends dad? thats just crazy..
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Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things.
i know how you feel.. you can just talk to her about how she is acting tell her that you dont like how shes always making such a big deal about you doing something else with other people.. and about the bbq.. you asked your aunt and she said no so your not gonna just not go because she doesnt want you to go.. she shouldnt be getting mad at you for something that really isnt your fault.. and tel.l her that maybe she should try doing stuff with her other friends and not always counting on you to do stuff.. dont be mean about it though haha
hope i helped
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I'm really tired of my current friend group. They are all fake, not trustworthy,inconsiderate, they always talk about their friends behind their back...they probablly even talk about me. I've talked to them about this problem but they just ignore it, and continue.
I started talking to a new girl at school this year, and we really got along well. We never hung out or anything because she has her own friend group so i was afraid to...
I want to invite her over this summer though and hang out with her. The problem is im really shy and it's kind-of hard for me to talk to new people that i want to like me...and i really really want her to like me.
My question is how should i invite her over, what should we do, what should i talk about, and how to I relax and continue conversation... and have fun =]
thankie thankkkkies!
-Anna, age 15
to invite her over just call her or IM her and say "we should hang out over the summer sometime are you doing anything today ?" and then she'll answer and if shes busy then make plans for a day that she isnt and to do that just say " when can you do something ?" and then so on.. well for something to do, if you dont want to go somewhere besides the house, then rent a movie or soemthing so you can laugh at it together and make jokes about it so get a funny one.. and ask her questions and stuff and talk about whatever yoiu talk about with your friends and you will relax after awhile and i know how hard it is to relax around new friends but after awhile its not that bad anymore hope i helped
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One day before gym this guy Jon was like "Matt likes you." And matt was right there. I turned to him and he must of been really embarrased so he made up a stupid reply: "Uh who are you." He knows who i am it looked like he was just embarrased. I didn't say anything, i just said to this guy Austin to change the subject "Oh you beat me in a basketball game yestrday" That was back in like February. I go to a day camp with Matt and he shows no signs of liking me or anything. Well once some people were sitting on a window ledge at camp and all the spaces were takin up except one between me and his only friend at camp. I can tell he wanted to sit down but he just stood there, so I got up and moved casually somwhere else. What do you think is up with him?
well, maybe hes just shy about liking you or something.. talk to him about whatver just start a conversation with him and see if he gets more comfortable around you and after he does get comfortable then he might drop more signs that he likes you.. if you like him then flirt with him and see what happens hope i helped
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14/f. i've checked my BMI on many sites and some sites say that i'm underweight and some say that i'm normal. My BMI is around 17. but i still have some fat around my lower stomach. is it still safe to do crunches and exercise to try to lose that fat? i'm 14, 5'3" and i weight about 98 pounds. but my stomach is still buldgie. what can i do? without becoming underweight?
98 pounds and 5'3 is actually really good for a 14 yearold( im the same) and you can do crunches and sit ups to loose the fat around your stomach it wont hurt you or make you unhealthy it will make you more fit and things like that
hope i helped
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Hi, I want to delete the web sites I've gone on but I don't know how. It's the bar where you type in www.whatever.com. Does anyone know how to delete the sites you've been on?
go to start control panel then internet connections and delete history
hope i helped
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well i'm being told that just doing a bunch of ab exercises will not eliminate the extra fat i have on my lower stomach. i'm being told that i have to do some kind of cardio too, like running. i've always wanted to start running in the mornings or in the evening (like 7:00), but i'm too embarrassed to. i'm 14/f and the only people that run in my neighborhood are adults. i think it is really embarrassing to be the only teen running. and when i do go running i feel really unconfortable doing it. are there any other cardio workouts i can do inside? i really want a treadmill but my mom wont get one. i also have DDR, but it really hurts my feet and i get bored doing it after like 10 minutes so that isn't helping.
thanks!
well, maybe get a friend to run with you once in awhile it really isnt that embarassing. but if you do sit ups and crunches and exersizes like that then you will be getting rid of the extra fat on your stomach. . maybe it wont as fast as if you ran too butyea it will work both ways. try doing about 100- 200 crunches or situps a day. thats waht i do and it works good. hope i helped
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My boyfreind and I used to smoke together a lot. Like all the time and i didnt like it so i tried talking to him about it and all he said was "You think your better then me because I smoke" and i dont think that at all, i just want to have a normal, fun relationship w/out drugs. How do i get him to think more positivley??
well, maybe try talking to him when your not around them or when hes on them. tell him that you dont feel right dating him because of the smoking thing. if he doesnt understand then maybe hes not the best boyfriend right now? you need to help him but not get him mad or anything. or rethink your relationship? dont do something just to make him happy its not worth it hope i helped
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* i'm sorry if this is long :/ i just really need advice *
soo schools over finally. i should be happy right? well i'm not. i'm like, depressed. i like this kid really bad that was on my team a group of like 100 kids that have the same 4 teachers and people in your 4 majors. theres 4 classe on each team)well he was in my class and we talked a lot this year in our classes and i really thought he liked me. and even yesterday, on field day, me and my friends were watching all the guys play flag football(some of the hot ones were wearing wife beaters lol) i kept seeing him look at me, like to see if i saw him, so i didnt look away if he saw me, to maybe drop a hint. and when he walked by he looked at me.(even when i saw him just out of the corner of my eye) he did this throughout the year, and the past few months i was flirting without making it too obvious, like whenever we talked i smiled and looked him in the eye and stuff like that. but i miss him so much, because i feel like i'm not going to be "close" with him again because im scared he wont be on my team in 8th grade(the grade im going into in the fall)the reason is because hes friends with a lot of the popular people, who some of them i used to be friends with, but now they're really big bitches and they're fake. the guys are ok though. hes been around this girl miranda lately, but i dont know if he likes her, but i think she likes him. shes really small and prettier than me and i'm just scared he'll like her. i think i'm ok, but just not one of the pretty girls at school. i dont even know if he has a sn, so idk how i can keep in touch with him over the summer. even if i ask someone, it would feel weird to randomly im him if he didnt even like me and i would feel so stupid. i have noo idea what to do. can someone please help? thank you
this is kinda hard.. i think you have to talk to him about how you feel maybe if your school has a phone directory call him and just talk with him then just flirt a little and drop hints to him that you like him.. i know how you feel to like someone that much who you dont know if they like you back.. just be confident though cause most guys like confident girls.. haha hope i helped
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