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Right time to LEAVE?


Question Posted Tuesday July 4 2006, 11:53 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about ten months now.. we are both 16 and i dont think he fully appreciates me..
We get into the STUPIDEST fights and he calls me names constantly.. I really do love him but I often find myself thinking about how much fun I could be having with someone who would appreciate me soo much more and treat me like a princess.. I dont think my boyfriend realizes how special i am. I dont want to break up with him though because he was my first everything- sex, real kiss,.. and weve been through alot with eachother..
what should i do?


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merecedesxlove answered Thursday July 6 2006, 4:04 pm:
Well the best way you could deal with it is sit him down and talk to him about how you feel.Tell him that you deserve better than the way hes treating you right now.Tell him you've both been through alot together and than he needs to clean his act up a little.But really its up to you if you really want to be with him.I know its going to be hard to let go if you decide that but you really got to trust your insticnt on this one

Hope everything goes well
xoxox =3

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iTS_ADViCE answered Thursday July 6 2006, 2:08 pm:
you have to talk about it with him.. if he doesnt understand is he really who you want to be with? i dont thnik so. hes not being fair to you so talk to him and tell him that he cant be calling you all these names.. maybe give him some space and take some time to get to know other people. hope i helped and good luck
xoOx

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MeReDiThMaRiE92 answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 9:15 am:
sounds like your bf is taking you for granted. He for sure shoundnt be calling you names and soon it could lead so worse things besides name calling. you should talk to him and tell him the way he treats un is unacceptable and unless you are treated like his gf and with more respects than you want nothing to do with him. Give everything some times and i hoped i helped ha.

good luck

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openthefridge answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 6:45 am:
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is taking you for granted, and isnt treating you in the way u deserve to be treated.
He shouldnt be calling you names, and he obviously doesnt realise how badly hes mistreating you.
You could try talking to him, telling him that you dont feel that you are being treated like his girlfriend, or you could end it. Im sure you would be able to find someone who treats you much better, in the way you deserve! good luck hun!
♥

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Elcee answered Wednesday July 5 2006, 6:44 am:
When a relationship has run its course then the wisest thing to do is leave. You may think that being with the 'first' guy is the right thing to do, but if he is making you unhappy then it sounds like you may need to move on.

It sounds like he is making things difficult for you so that he doesn't have to be the bad guy in all this and dump you first.

You really need to have a good talk to find out if things can be put back to normal, or whether he or you feels the need to let go.

I hope that it works out for you together, but if it doesn't you are only 16 and you have your whole life in which to live happily. I wish you well.

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