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New Friend.
I'm really tired of my current friend group. They are all fake, not trustworthy,inconsiderate, they always talk about their friends behind their back...they probablly even talk about me. I've talked to them about this problem but they just ignore it, and continue.
I started talking to a new girl at school this year, and we really got along well. We never hung out or anything because she has her own friend group so i was afraid to...
I want to invite her over this summer though and hang out with her. The problem is im really shy and it's kind-of hard for me to talk to new people that i want to like me...and i really really want her to like me.
My question is how should i invite her over, what should we do, what should i talk about, and how to I relax and continue conversation... and have fun =]
thankie thankkkkies!
-Anna, age 15
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Find out what she likes("I love country music!How about you?"),then talk to her about it.You could invite her to go to the movies or the beach.Just ask her straight out if she wants to do something with you.Good luck!
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to invite her over just call her or IM her and say "we should hang out over the summer sometime are you doing anything today ?" and then she'll answer and if shes busy then make plans for a day that she isnt and to do that just say " when can you do something ?" and then so on.. well for something to do, if you dont want to go somewhere besides the house, then rent a movie or soemthing so you can laugh at it together and make jokes about it so get a funny one.. and ask her questions and stuff and talk about whatever yoiu talk about with your friends and you will relax after awhile and i know how hard it is to relax around new friends but after awhile its not that bad anymore hope i helped
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The easiest way to hang out with people is, well, hanging out with them. So all you have to do is call her up and ask her if she wants to hang out. There's tons of stuff you could do, just think of the things you do with your other friends. Go to the movies, the pool, the beach, an amusement park, shopping, a concert, a sports game, have her stay over at your house, or just invite her over to hang around with you. If you have something like a pool or trampoline that's always something fun to do especially in the summer. Hope you have fun and good luck,
Matt
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Hmm, you're new friend is probably just shy becuase she's brand new to the area or something like that. She'll probably warm up to you eventually.
If you two both got along together so well during the schoolyear, then I don't see anything wrong with calling her up and inviting her over to do something (say, to see a movie, go to the mall, etc.)
Ask what her interests are, and then act upon them. If you both enjoy the things you do together, then you'll both have fun!
Good luck with your new friend :)
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