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I am 14 and a girl.OK.I have a very sweet boyfriend who really likes me but i dont like him that much.I like a boy named jay and hes cute funny and nice.Hes perfect.My boy friend is raceist AND I HATE THAT SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is also a tinny hight thing that gets on my nerves.I dont want 2 have 2 look down at him.me and jay r a little closer in hight.I would break up with him but my parents would be wondering why i broke up with him and i dont want 2 breake his heart.I DONT WANT 2 GO THROUGH THE DRAMA IT WILL BRING!!!:( (link)
if your unhappy den, there's no reason to stay w/ him Why dnt you tlk to him and ask him wut he thinks works in your realtionship and what doesn't. If your boyfirend is racist then he really doesn't deserve to be w/ anybody. If he judges people by the color of their skin and not the content of their character then, he's wrong. Weigh out the pros and cons of both boys and which ever one will leave you happy and satisfied then, thats the one you deserve to be w/. Their will really be no drama if you tell your currnet boyfriend that things are workn' out and , you both want different things. To be real w/ you , your parents don't have to know why u broke up with him, just say " I have my reasons" and leave it at that!!



okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..

what is wrong with me? (link)
Okay, the first time you make out with a boy it always feels awkward but, after awhile you just go with the flow. Okay when you're kissing a boy slightly tilt your head so your noses don't get in the way and gently press your lips together... then, after you've had a very long pecks, they graduate to where the tongue gets involved. Either he is gonna use his tongue first or you are but, you just move your tongue around his gums and around his tongue, over his teeth and he'll do the same. Just try it but, since every body likes to kiss differently just, talk to him about what both of you liked and didn't liek about the kiss. This will help you both to know how, eachother felt about the kiss. Your teeth won't knock together unless your teeth are outside or you face... and i've never seen anybody with teeth that are outside of their mouth before. I'm only 13 and i've had my share of experiences with kissing boys. I know what wroks and what doesn't so just, feel free to write me concerning this issue and i'l be more than glad to help.




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