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kissing
okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..
what is wrong with me?
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Babe NOTHING is wrong with you. Maybe your waiting for the right boy. Yes go with the flow everyone makes this a big deal to do & its not. Making our is normal.Your teeth could knock together, but thats ok. PS: dont feel pressured do it when your ready!! hearts;&
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Hi, it sounds as though you want a boyfriend but are quite ready or don't want the mushy stuff. This is OK especially if your nervous, and you may just need a bit more time to think about it. If your unsure about doing it then don't do it. Give a bit of time to think about it, you might come round in time. Daniel.
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no nothing is wrong with you just wait until the right moment comes i didn't make out with a guy until i felt comfertable with it either so don't worry and sometimes your teeth knock together but it's okay and i thought that the whole tounge thing was kinda nasty too so don't worry and have fun.
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ur teeth shouldnt know together unless your like hardcore making out.making out is enjoyable, and you should make out with him. tounge in the mouth seriously isnt that bad. it might seem bad but it isnt. just follow his lead when you guys do kiss. your toungue should kind or circle aroudn each other and tangle a bit
NOTHING is wrong with you, but seriusly, making out is the shit
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There is nothing wrong with you. Different people are ready for different things at different ages. When you make out your teeth don't really knock together. Some guys like to use their teeth though. If you don't feel ready to make out then don't. Try not to make yourself feel pressured either, just because your 16.
How you do it is, you start out with a regular kiss then let it get a little more until you slide your tongue in his mouth or the other way around.
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Nothing is wrong with you! I know some people that didn't have there first "real" kiss until there wedding day! I know that sounds really weird, but some people arn't ready for that until they are much older. Don't rush into things because you want making out to be an enjoyable experience then you'll never forget. Making out seems really hard, but trust me it's easier then it seems. You just start off by little pecks and then go to longer pecks and then either he'll start the whole tounge thing or you will. Just move your tounge around his or around his gums. It's not hard at all! You're teeth shouldn't knock, I've never heard of that happening but it's probably possible. But that shouldn't be something you have to worry about. Just make sure you don't kiss until you know you're ready. Whether when your ready is a day from now, or in 2 years, don't rush yourself. Just wait until you're ready and everything should go smoothly!
Hope I helped hun.
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this is a tough question. i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend too. im not into the hole in your face makeout thing ethier. But it's because ive never kissed a guy not even a peck on the lips i turn away every time he tries. its because your head is thinking and knows that it's not time when it happens it happens and it will be the best thing youve ever felt but you cant rush it it has to happen on its own
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when i first did, his teeth knocked against mine. but, when they did. it was kind of cute. i always had a thing about saliva. like, it grossed me out like you wouldn't imagine. so, i was a little grossed ot about the tongue in the mouth thing too, but when i did it, it wasn't that bad. then i actually laughed at myself. i realized that i was just being silly. i promise you, it's not bad lol
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I'm sorry, but nothing is wrong with you. I'm fourteen so obviously my first time making out with someone was scary, especially since I liked the boy that I made out with for six years. All you do is kiss like regularly, and then his tongue will just go in your mouth and i guess you just massauge his with yours. That's what I did, and he said i was a great kisser. Just relax about it, it's not a big deal. It's easier than it seems. But just wait until your ready, because making out isn't everything.
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makin out with a guy is always nice I think you shouldn't feel weird like I'd understand when he makes his first move don't back out or I think you shoukd tell him my last boyfriend was my first makeout and I told him that I'd never before so he just told me what to do but in the nice way... so if he really a mature guy and hell take it the mature way just tell him how you feel about makin out and stuff and yea your friend are right just go with the flow just do exactly what he's doin it well hope I helped =)
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Okay, the first time you make out with a boy it always feels awkward but, after awhile you just go with the flow. Okay when you're kissing a boy slightly tilt your head so your noses don't get in the way and gently press your lips together... then, after you've had a very long pecks, they graduate to where the tongue gets involved. Either he is gonna use his tongue first or you are but, you just move your tongue around his gums and around his tongue, over his teeth and he'll do the same. Just try it but, since every body likes to kiss differently just, talk to him about what both of you liked and didn't liek about the kiss. This will help you both to know how, eachother felt about the kiss. Your teeth won't knock together unless your teeth are outside or you face... and i've never seen anybody with teeth that are outside of their mouth before. I'm only 13 and i've had my share of experiences with kissing boys. I know what wroks and what doesn't so just, feel free to write me concerning this issue and i'l be more than glad to help.
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Making out isnt just about sticking your tongue straight in somebodys mouth (how many times i've made that mistae lol :s). If you dont wanna do it thats fine, you shouldnt. But if you're curious just try it once, and see what its like, and you can not do it again if you dont like it. You're teeth shouldnt bash together. Good luck whatever you decide :)
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