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i like another boy thats not my b-friend
I am 14 and a girl.OK.I have a very sweet boyfriend who really likes me but i dont like him that much.I like a boy named jay and hes cute funny and nice.Hes perfect.My boy friend is raceist AND I HATE THAT SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is also a tinny hight thing that gets on my nerves.I dont want 2 have 2 look down at him.me and jay r a little closer in hight.I would break up with him but my parents would be wondering why i broke up with him and i dont want 2 breake his heart.I DONT WANT 2 GO THROUGH THE DRAMA IT WILL BRING!!!:(
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Why are you dating him if you don't like him? I don't see much point in this. But that's none of my business. If you like this Jay guy, be careful not to do anything with him until you break up with your boyfriend. I can understand why the racist issue would get on your nerves, but the height difference is just stupid. There is no point in breaking up with someone because they are a little shorter than you. If your parents ask you, tell them the truth. Tell them you just didn't feel the same about him as he felt about you. If they want more of an answer, be honest and tell them he was racist and you like Jay. It will bring drama, break ups always do. But it's better to go ahead and get it over with, than to wait. That will only make the break up harder, trust me. Tell your boyfriend you just don't think it's going to work out, if he truely likes you, he'll understand that you're not happy and possibly let you go without all the extra troubles that come along with breakups.
[EDIT] I didn't say the height was the main reason you broke up with him. I just wanted to make it clear to you that it wasn't a good reason to even add to the reasons as to why you broke up with him. I'm sorry you gave me a three..tear = lol, but i'm glad you have decided to take my advice.
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If you dont love him i think you should end the relationship. Jay seems perfect for you. I hope this helps.
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You cant keep stringing him along if you dont feel the same way. Break it off if thats how you feel and tell your parents that it just wasnt working out. If you dont want them to know but you dont want them to ask stay vauge. I hope i helped. :)
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if your unhappy den, there's no reason to stay w/ him Why dnt you tlk to him and ask him wut he thinks works in your realtionship and what doesn't. If your boyfirend is racist then he really doesn't deserve to be w/ anybody. If he judges people by the color of their skin and not the content of their character then, he's wrong. Weigh out the pros and cons of both boys and which ever one will leave you happy and satisfied then, thats the one you deserve to be w/. Their will really be no drama if you tell your currnet boyfriend that things are workn' out and , you both want different things. To be real w/ you , your parents don't have to know why u broke up with him, just say " I have my reasons" and leave it at that!!
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Just break up with him if he bothers you so much. If you parents ask just tell them that he was racist and that bothered you alot.
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