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Hello. First off i'd like everyone to know i love helping and i will never turn down a question i think i can help on. I will help who ever i can and i hope you can trust me enough to answer your questions. I've been through a lot that others havent and my advice is useful-so i've heard. Thank you so much for at least checking me out and if you need anything please dont hesistate to IM me i'm almost always on.
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i am twelve years old now and i want to wear a thong. but how do i talk to her about it. should i just go out and buy one without telling her? or should i talk to her about it.. and if i talk to her, what do i SAYYY???????
Hiii,
hey hey no worries. I think It's important to chat with your mom about things like this, not only does it bring you closer but sneaking around isnt fun. Give her reasons why you think thongs are the way to go. Listen to her counter reasons and I promise that you'll come to an agreement and learn to understand eachother better.
alright, I heard somewhere, that if you sleep in a tampon, then you can get an infection or a disease or something.
1. myth or fact?
2. If a fact, what is the infection?
3. what is the infection caused by?
4. how serious is the infection?
alright, thank you all so much!
1:Kind of both (you can get the infection but its very unlikely just sleep in a new tampon.)
2:TSS Toxic Shock Syndrom (Its effects are fainting, dizzness, high fever and others. just read ur tampon box)
3:No ones sure but they think its the cotton and other stuff in the tampon itself)
4: If treated there is a cure but if not treated its fatal causing death. However it is not a very common infection so try not to worry.
i hope i helped out :)
my mom dosent care what other people think about thongs i need a real good way to ask her like... i dont know thats why i need help to ask her... should i e- mail her or should i talk to her in person? im afraid shell get mad!!!
Okay calm down. If it makes you feel better than yes e-mail her. It wont matter which way you do it if you get it done. If this is something you want you need to explain it to your mom and tell her your reasons. Dont fight let her explain her reasons and she'll let you explain hers. I hope i helped. :)
(14/f) I have three really close friends. One of them does not know the other two because i went to Elementary school with her, but Middle School with the other two. I am having my birthday party this Saturday and I just want a small party with my three good friends, but because they don't know eachother it might be awkward.
I want to go to a Fondue Restarant and then maybe a movie or come back to my house and swim. Do you think any of this will be awkward or wierd? My elementary friend is really different from my Middle school friends but I would really like for them to at least get along.
It may be a bit akward. I've been in the situation of your elementary friend, your middle school friends, and you at least once before. And from experience meeting new people and mixing your friends isnt so bad. Introduce them and include all three in everything dont single them out with too many personal experiences that could get sticky. It'll all work out even if some moments are akward and all three may even become friends! I hope i helped and your party sounds like a great idea! I hope you have a great time and a great birthday! Happy B-day by the way.
-Deetra
I am 14 and a girl.OK.I have a very sweet boyfriend who really likes me but i dont like him that much.I like a boy named jay and hes cute funny and nice.Hes perfect.My boy friend is raceist AND I HATE THAT SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is also a tinny hight thing that gets on my nerves.I dont want 2 have 2 look down at him.me and jay r a little closer in hight.I would break up with him but my parents would be wondering why i broke up with him and i dont want 2 breake his heart.I DONT WANT 2 GO THROUGH THE DRAMA IT WILL BRING!!!:(
You cant keep stringing him along if you dont feel the same way. Break it off if thats how you feel and tell your parents that it just wasnt working out. If you dont want them to know but you dont want them to ask stay vauge. I hope i helped. :)
I really want to become a Professional Golfer and play on the LPGA (ladies pro golfers' association) tour some day. I am optimistic because my grandpa coached a girl that is currently on the Futures Tour, but also a little hesitant because i am afraid i won't be good enough. My uncle has a pro shop in Michigan, and has helped me a lot, but i don't seem to be getting much better. I don't play much, because i don't have time. Should i give up my dream, or keep going for it?
PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!
Oh you cant give up.If its your dream keep going for it. If you try hard enough you'll get somewhere and even if you dont get the feeling you get when your doing something your passionate about should be enough. Keep dreaming and i hope i helped. :)
Well me and my girlfriend have been going out two months on the 23 of this month and i'm trying to think of some good gifts that won't cost a fortune(i'm 13 she's 13, low budget)
I was thinkin of gettin her rose's but i'm not quite sure if i should get her anything else.
any suggestions? I'd apreciate it
Thanks
Keep it simple. Girls like simple. A Rose sounds perfect but if you want to do it up you could like add a small picnic or a trip to like the beach or something. Do something that reminds the both of you why you've stayed together so long. Hope i helped ya. :)
My Friend is really fun to hang out with but she seems really flaky sometimes and shes boycrazy way too much but weve been best friends since fourth grade and I don't wan't to loose that friendship but she totally blows me off sometimes but also we can talk on the phone for hours .Am I just being paranoid ???? I know this is kinda a dumb Question I just am kinda wonderin.
Love,
Just curious
Dear Just curious,
You're not being paranoid. All girls get a little boy crazed sometimes and everyone can be flaky but if its getting out of control maybe you should talk to her. Yes she might take it the wrong way but in the end you can probably help her. Friends have disagreements and arent exactly alike so if you want to keep her as close as always consider that flaky may just be how she is. Another idea is to consult a mutual friend about the situation but make sure its someone you trust because that other friend may make it seem like your talking about ur other friend behind her back. But talking to someone you trust can help you see if your friend is really just a flaky chick (not that thats a bad thing all the time) or if its just in ur head. I really hope i helped you. :)
ok... so well i am 14 very soon to be 15 and well i started my period when i was 12 and well things were ok and all it was going normal and such but last yr around Nov. it stopped and i have it a month for like 2 or 3 dayz then it stops and then i don't have it for 3 months ok well like thin year jan. it was at the beginning of the month lasted 5 days then in feb. i had it at the beginning and the end of the month and in mar. i had it in the middle of the month from the 19-23 then i didn't have it in April or May and in june i had it 2 days 26 and the 27th now it's july 19 and i still haven't had it so what the fuck is wrong with me and i'm not pregnant i haven't had sex so should i get on birth control to make me normal again or not??? please help and my mom knows about this but she just tells me it's a blessing i'm worried i wanna do stuff with guys but i'm scared because i haven't had my period in like ever so please help
Birth control can help. Also you should consider what you've been doing lately if you've been eating strange foods or exercising more than you use to that can make periods irregular also. i recomend asking a doctor or you could use this great site about periods and such called Beinggirl.com it had tons of helpfull info on these subjects. hope i helped :)
alright, i'm 15 and I"ve had my period for over 2 or 3 years, but i've never tried tampons. This morning I tried one, but its extreamly uncomfortable, getting up or sitting down, unless my legs are spread apart its almost painful. am I doing something wrong? is that normal?
PLZ, any advice you have, please post
Thank you!
That was happening to me when i first started wearing them too. All you have to do is adjust the angle you insert it at or push it in farther. Practice makes perfect and i know that sounds cheesy but it does acctually help. :)
okiay, i'm gonna b blunt about it,
can you go pee with a tampon in?
yes you can. You just pull the string forward is all. hope i helped you. :)
i never had my period and im almost 15..about everyone in my grade has had theirs and alot yonger... should i worry about never having one...i at least want to start so im normal...i don't even have those signs of right before you start a period..hmmm??
Acctually girls can get their periods at ages that range from 8-17 and beginning it late isnt so horrible. Once you get it you'll think its a huge pain. try not to worry about it so much. Also theres this great site that can help you when it comes to worring about when you'll get it and when it finally happens its called beinggirl.com and its very helpfull. I hope i helped::)
Alright, i just got a puppy, and hes 7 weeks old, hes a golden doodle mix (golden retriever/poodle), and he humps his blanket...and other random objects...hes only 7 WEEKS old...is that normal?
any advice you have, i'd appreciate!
thanks
Yes it is normal. But you should try to ween him off his habit just tell him no until he gets the picture. Hope i helped. :)
well i guess my friends think they cant trust me cause my so called best friend said that he had sex with his girlfriend witch i was not to thrilled about but oh then i found out that it was just a joke and that everyone of my good friends knew about it and said it was a good idea cuase they wanted to know if i would tell anyone about this so he told all my good friends what he was doing so if they found out they could tell him and none them though of the fact that it really hurts me to know that they dont trust me then finally i one of my true friends told me that it was a joke and now there all pissing me off cause i have no idea of what to believe anymore and then the guys who everyone told me that planed this out was my best friend and honestly i cant stand him right now and i dont no if i want to forgive him or not cause it really hurts me adn hes like it was just a joke dude and i am like i dont care that hurts and he just wants to forget it ever happen and im not willing to do that....any ideas what i should do about him and also what i should say to all my other friends...oh yea another thing that makes me mad is that i keep getting different stories Thanks ppl!!
It wasnt right for your friends to do this to test you. They should have trusted you anyway. Consider your friends and look at the possibility that you might not trust them either. If thats the case you need to do some new friend shopping. :)
Wearing a thong will make me feel sexy around guys i know im only 13 but just about everyone wears a thong in my school that my age. Should i just go off and buy one or should i tell my mom i want one. Im afraid shell think im a slut because she dosent want me to date yet but i do behind her back.
Feeling sexy around boys shouldnt be your only reason. Think about why you want one and try to understand where your mom is comming from. If you really want one then yes go and buy one and see how you like it. And also wearing a thong does not make you a slut but doing it for the wrong reasons does so try to put things in perspective.
Ok....i know im only 13 but i want to wear a thong but im afraid my mom will get mad at me for asking should i just buy one and hide it?
i feel hot around guys if i wear a low cut shirt or something that guys like they always think i dress the perfect way becasue half the time they look down my shirt and they like that but one day they asked me if i wore a thong i said no.
i think it would be comfortable but i dont know how to ask my mom cus she dosent even let me date
Okay i can tell you from experience that just buying one and hiding it isnt exactly the best idea. I can also say however it did break the ice quite easily when my mom found it in the laundry. I started wearing one pretty much the same reason as you and i would say that you should at least try and talk to your mom about it. Consider her side and make sure you want to wear one for the right reasons dont just do it because boys like it or because your friends do it and i know this sounds cheesy but you'll feel a lot better if you just do what feels right.