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I have this problem with guys not looking at my face. there always looking at my but or chest you have to practically yell at them to get there attetion. I neeed help of how to get them to notice my face . (link)
well, the right guy will only be looking at your face. your probably a pretty girl. the guys just looking at your chest and butt are just perverts anyway. just don't worry about it and the right guy will come along. ~nickie:)


I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys? (link)
Wow, good question. Try to hang out with more guys by inviting them to go to movies, sports events, and any other activities. You should start to see results.


okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut? (link)
well, all i can say is prove them wrong. dress properly, be nice to everyone, and ignore the haters. good luck ~nickie


There's these two guys I like. I have dated both of them before, and one knows what he's doing in a relationship, and one doesn't. They are two totally different people with two totally different personalities, and I honestly just don't know what I want. They both asked me back out tonight, and I just don't know what to do. I don't want to leave them both hanging for my answer, but I don't know who I want to choose! Help! (link)
well, just listen to your heart, not your head. pick the guy your NOT going to choose and set him aside. tell him you like him, but you want to be friends for now. if he's a good person he'll understand. now, on actually PICKING the guy......thats up to whatever your heart is saying.....i would personally go for the guy who knows what he's doing. but listen to your heart.hope i helped. ~nickie


I am 20, a little athletic but i could stand to lose 20 pounds (i'm just a shade under 6' tall, 221 lbs.). I show everyone respect, I'm always referred to as a 'great friend' or 'like a big brother', but no matter how much i try i cannot get past that image. i'm either not seen as a date-able person or everyone i try to get close to lies and leads me on instead of telling me the truth and letting me know why they're not interested or what i was doing wrong. Am i doomed to be forever in the hell that we guys call the "Friend-zone"?
Any and all suggestions are welcome, but I have had enough 'help' from other guys. please understand that i'm looking for the female's answer to my problem.
thank you,
Confused-&-Sad (link)
well ....... personality is all that counts to alot of girls...... maybe if ya'll have the same interests....... and um...... when things get hott...... kinda make a move...... or if yall are kinda sorta friends....... you could tell her how you feel..... maybe she might feel the same way....~skye


What exactly do you consider "making out" (link)
Well, alot of people say "making out" is only "making out" if you use tongue. Well, to me "making out" is when two people kiss for a long period of time w/ or w/out tongue. So, hope that helps.~nickie


next week, it'll be me and my boyfriend's two year anniversary and i feel like he's losing interest in me. what are things i can do to gain his interest back? (link)
Wow! 2 years? You go girl! Well, first of all he's not losing interest if ya'll have been together 2 years. 2nd of all if you really think he is, just be yourself around him and if he can't accept you for who you are, then he doesn't deserve you anyway. But, if that doesn't help, spend more time with him and prove to him you wanna be with him and that you care about him. I'm not saying like lose your virginity, but just find a way.
~nickie


Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only. (link)
well, if you wanna get her attention, wink and smile then look away(still smiling). It makes you look flirty. Here are some compliments girls like:
1)(guy) Wow.....(girl) what? (guy)you have the most amazing eyes.....(while you say this just stare deep into her eyes.
feedback:she'll giggle and smile
2)(guy) Hi. (girl) hi. (guy) I just couldn't HELP but notice you your so beautiful.
feedback: (usually) dinner date and phone #
3) I know this is weird, but girls REALLY do like cheesy lines, like:(guy)"Did it hurt?" (girl) what? (giggle) (guy)"When you fell from heaven...."

well, hope it works out for you. ttyl. ~nickie


do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them (link)
well, personally, girls do like it when you look them straight in the eye when you talk to them, but some like myself, like it when you wanna kiss them, and so they like it when you look at they're eyes and lips. Look back and forth from the eyes to the lips. Then keep talking till you get up the courage to lean in a little.
~nickie :)


I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt and I cried for 3 hours. My friends cheered me up for that moment but I'm still upset. What should I do? Thanks in advance. (link)
Well, just so you know love can exist at 15. My parents got married at 13(mom) and 17(dad) and they've been married 40 yrs. So it can. And anyways, you are prob. a great girl and you dont deserve someone who's gonna control you. And another thing, guys your age are less mature than you are. So just try not to worry about it. One day he'll see how great you are and realize his mistake, if not, he doesn't deserve you anyway. :) ~nickie


I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.

But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..

I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend. (link)
Well, first of all, even if she doesn't want you to, to be a good friend I would talk to an adult about it before it gets to the point where he is ACTUALLY beating her up. Sit her down and explain how you feel and what you think she should do. Then ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to stay with him, let her learn from her mistakes, but if you start to see an increase in depression in her and worse bruises, then it's time for you to do something about it. Be a good friend and don't let it get to a bad situation. ~nickie
p.s. if you need to talk you can "im" me anytime.
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