goodadvicegiver85 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 5:24 pm: well, personally, girls do like it when you look them straight in the eye when you talk to them, but some like myself, like it when you wanna kiss them, and so they like it when you look at they're eyes and lips. Look back and forth from the eyes to the lips. Then keep talking till you get up the courage to lean in a little.
~nickie :) [ goodadvicegiver85's advice column | Ask goodadvicegiver85 A Question ]
camilian247 answered Monday July 10 2006, 4:37 pm: You bet it does!!! Whenever a guy looks into my eyes when he talks to me melts my heart. It shows the girl that you're confident and brave! Thats a true turn-on!! [ camilian247's advice column | Ask camilian247 A Question ]
bekkuhhh answered Friday June 30 2006, 11:54 pm: Yes actually. we do. Because when guys look away from us when theyre talking, we dont know if theyre lying. And some times Guys look around if theyre nervous, like about breaking up or somthing, so when you do that, we dont know if your about to dump us. ALso, we dont know what your looking at. you might be saying i love you and looking at some other girls goodies at the same time. It makes us feel uncomfertable. WHen you look at girl in the eyes, we know that your being honest and that your looking at US and not some one else. And we also feel like maybe your thinnking "wow her eyes are gorgeous". Even if you werent, we still think that which makes us feel good :]. [ bekkuhhh's advice column | Ask bekkuhhh A Question ]
clearlypink428 answered Friday June 30 2006, 2:39 pm: well, id say most like it, definetely. but sometimes, i HATE to be looked at. i think its more of an insecurity thing on my part, but as long as youre not staring the girl down- it will mean a lot to her. it shows her that you are very straight forward, and tht there is nothing else on your mind at that moment than talking to her. good luck, hon. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
xxsima answered Thursday June 29 2006, 10:16 pm: Yes, us girls LOVE it when guys look at us whilst having a conversation.
It shows the girl that you are deeply, lets say, 'absorbed' in the conversation.
Wandering off with your eyes can show that you are unsure of the topic, or you're not really interested in having conversations.
Keep them focus, or 'fixed' on the girl. It's like the quote from the movie 'Hitch'. I don't know if you've ever seen it, but one of the quotes is about looking the girl in the eye, and not looking at her breasts, thinking when you guys will be in bed.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday June 29 2006, 10:12 pm: hell yea. i think when a guy does that means he truely does love me and cares about and is tellin me something that he emans wit all his heart. but
if you always do it it is possible for it to bother people.
DeadPoetics answered Thursday June 29 2006, 9:34 pm: One's gender is immaterial when considering something like that. It's a matter of being polite. When you look someone in the eye, you appear as if you really are interested, confident, and most of all, honest. It's a habit that everyone should get into because it's polite.
And as a side note, personally, I adore it when my boyfriend looks me in the eye. He has such gorgeous green eyes! But anyways. I hope you see what I mean. [ DeadPoetics's advice column | Ask DeadPoetics A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday June 29 2006, 9:32 pm: Well yeah. It's weird if you just talk and you're not looking straight at the person but eye contact is really good. =] [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
smartgirl321 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:42 pm: well i certainly liek being looked in the eyes when im talked to. it makes us feel like you are actually paying attention and listening to what we are saying.
~Maegan~ [ smartgirl321's advice column | Ask smartgirl321 A Question ]
uisforukelele answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:29 pm: Of course. If you look away the whole time you're talking, then you seem uninterested (at least in my opinion). But don't stare her down. Just be sure to make eye contact :) [ uisforukelele's advice column | Ask uisforukelele A Question ]
PinkLady4863 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 5:41 pm: yea we love it, alot!!! its makes you seem truthful and like a good listener, like you really care. But looking them in the eyes constantly can get kind of creepy so heres a tip...
eye contact for four seconds, then while still keeping your attention to her shift your eyes to a hand gesture while your talking, to look around for a quick second, or down because it makes you seem sincere.
cookierat123 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 4:57 pm: ya they LOVE it. for one it makes them think that your listening to them(even if your not lol) and it makes them realize how much you care about them : ) hope i helped [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Thursday June 29 2006, 4:50 pm: I can't speak for everyone, but why wouldn't we? I think it's a very proper and friendly thing to do when speaking to somebody, regardless of gender. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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