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Question Posted Thursday June 29 2006, 4:06 pm

do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them

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bubbles251 answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 7:04 pm:
most girls do.


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Alexandkendra answered Friday July 28 2006, 1:02 am:
Hey,yeah girls love it they feel that your really lisening to them
- alex/

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goodadvicegiver85 answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 5:24 pm:
well, personally, girls do like it when you look them straight in the eye when you talk to them, but some like myself, like it when you wanna kiss them, and so they like it when you look at they're eyes and lips. Look back and forth from the eyes to the lips. Then keep talking till you get up the courage to lean in a little.
~nickie :)

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truitalianxx answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:46 pm:
Yes, because somehow you connect to them better and it lets them know you are paying attention, instead of looking at her breasts.

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OoOhaileyOoO answered Sunday July 16 2006, 9:07 pm:
Everyone I know do. But some shy girls feel awkward.
~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~

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camilian247 answered Monday July 10 2006, 4:37 pm:
You bet it does!!! Whenever a guy looks into my eyes when he talks to me melts my heart. It shows the girl that you're confident and brave! Thats a true turn-on!!

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SocialSuicidex3 answered Saturday July 1 2006, 2:10 am:
yes, yes we do.

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bekkuhhh answered Friday June 30 2006, 11:54 pm:
Yes actually. we do. Because when guys look away from us when theyre talking, we dont know if theyre lying. And some times Guys look around if theyre nervous, like about breaking up or somthing, so when you do that, we dont know if your about to dump us. ALso, we dont know what your looking at. you might be saying i love you and looking at some other girls goodies at the same time. It makes us feel uncomfertable. WHen you look at girl in the eyes, we know that your being honest and that your looking at US and not some one else. And we also feel like maybe your thinnking "wow her eyes are gorgeous". Even if you werent, we still think that which makes us feel good :].

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clearlypink428 answered Friday June 30 2006, 2:39 pm:
well, id say most like it, definetely. but sometimes, i HATE to be looked at. i think its more of an insecurity thing on my part, but as long as youre not staring the girl down- it will mean a lot to her. it shows her that you are very straight forward, and tht there is nothing else on your mind at that moment than talking to her. good luck, hon.

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Friday_im_in_love answered Friday June 30 2006, 12:53 am:
Yeap, makes us feel special :]

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AxGirlxttTooxConfusedxTox answered Thursday June 29 2006, 11:33 pm:
Yes girls like it when you talk eye to eye because it means they are listening and you do the same so she knows your listening and it means your not all nervous and anoying like some boys are when they ask a girl out yes girls luv it when you that!

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xxsima answered Thursday June 29 2006, 10:16 pm:
Yes, us girls LOVE it when guys look at us whilst having a conversation.

It shows the girl that you are deeply, lets say, 'absorbed' in the conversation.

Wandering off with your eyes can show that you are unsure of the topic, or you're not really interested in having conversations.

Keep them focus, or 'fixed' on the girl. It's like the quote from the movie 'Hitch'. I don't know if you've ever seen it, but one of the quotes is about looking the girl in the eye, and not looking at her breasts, thinking when you guys will be in bed.

Sorry if I was confusing. Heh.

So, just make eye contact, and you'll be fine.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday June 29 2006, 10:12 pm:
hell yea. i think when a guy does that means he truely does love me and cares about and is tellin me something that he emans wit all his heart. but

if you always do it it is possible for it to bother people.

♥ Steph

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EmbracedxRain answered Thursday June 29 2006, 10:07 pm:
yes, it is polite and it shows that you are interested in speaking with them and with what they have to say.

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DeadPoetics answered Thursday June 29 2006, 9:34 pm:
One's gender is immaterial when considering something like that. It's a matter of being polite. When you look someone in the eye, you appear as if you really are interested, confident, and most of all, honest. It's a habit that everyone should get into because it's polite.


And as a side note, personally, I adore it when my boyfriend looks me in the eye. He has such gorgeous green eyes! But anyways. I hope you see what I mean.

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Teza answered Thursday June 29 2006, 9:32 pm:
Well yeah. It's weird if you just talk and you're not looking straight at the person but eye contact is really good. =]

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summerGIRL_xo answered Thursday June 29 2006, 8:00 pm:
YESSSS. eye contact is veryyyy good.

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xolilabbs214ox answered Thursday June 29 2006, 7:58 pm:
yah we do! bc it tells us that all your attention is on us

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Alleycat45227 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 7:39 pm:
Most do like it when you look in their eyes...Hope I helped...♥ Alley

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thecarsdownthehill answered Thursday June 29 2006, 7:23 pm:
most girls do like it when you look them in the eye because your giving her your undivided attention, and it makes her feel special.

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smartgirl321 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:42 pm:
well i certainly liek being looked in the eyes when im talked to. it makes us feel like you are actually paying attention and listening to what we are saying.
~Maegan~

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uisforukelele answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:29 pm:
Of course. If you look away the whole time you're talking, then you seem uninterested (at least in my opinion). But don't stare her down. Just be sure to make eye contact :)

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xomichelle891xo answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:26 pm:
Yes. But dont stare them down or anything..They might get freaked out. Just make a good amount of eye contact. Its shows confidence.

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Lalagurl answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:13 pm:
yes, it pretty much means that they have their full attention, and that their serious about what their saying.

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PinkLady4863 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 5:41 pm:
yea we love it, alot!!! its makes you seem truthful and like a good listener, like you really care. But looking them in the eyes constantly can get kind of creepy so heres a tip...

eye contact for four seconds, then while still keeping your attention to her shift your eyes to a hand gesture while your talking, to look around for a quick second, or down because it makes you seem sincere.

good luck =]

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CavieOwnsU2 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 5:32 pm:
Most of the time, when a guy looks me in the eye, I melt. I love it as do most of my friends.

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missmissgurl answered Thursday June 29 2006, 5:08 pm:
oh yeah it's kinda sexy too!!! lol! especially if you look at them like u want them really bad!! that's really good to do!!!

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cookierat123 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 4:57 pm:
ya they LOVE it. for one it makes them think that your listening to them(even if your not lol) and it makes them realize how much you care about them : ) hope i helped

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evil-devil12 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 4:53 pm:
yeah when a guy looks me in the eyes when they talk to me I LOVE IT!!!!!
I'm a girl by the way lol
good luck

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Mackenzie answered Thursday June 29 2006, 4:50 pm:
I can't speak for everyone, but why wouldn't we? I think it's a very proper and friendly thing to do when speaking to somebody, regardless of gender.

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