so 3 days ago my friend told me that she smoked weed that day. i pretended to be all cool about it and laughed along with him but i'm worried. he also told me that he got a months worth on cigs. what do i do? do i just let him or try to stop him or what??
People are going to do what they are going to do. It's their decision, not yours and there is little you can do to stop them. Try telling your friend you're worried for their safety and you want them to stop at least when you are with them.
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i want really long eyelashes. i love the mascara i use now it makes my eyelashes like as long as they will possibly go, but they're just naturally not long and i was wondering is there any way to make them longer? thanks
Sometimes I use fake eyelashes because they make your eyes look superrr cool. You can get them at any drug store for around 4 dollars. Plus, you can re-use them over and over again. Thats my best suggestion. Other than that, I'd say get an eyelash curler.
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um..what's the deal with ripped jeans? I thought people wanted to wear something in style, not out of style! and it doesn't make you look tough or cool, it makes you look poor and home less!
Its california style and thats where the trend comes from. I think theyre cute a la the beach, summer party, etc. But NOT during winter or to any formal occasion. I think theyre cute with sandals, but wearing them all year round is definitely NOT cute or attractive. Youre right the trend is on its way out...but people still wear old trends they followed and bought because it'd be way too expensive to follow every trend all the time.
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my brother is 15 yrs old and still likes Spongebob! is there any possible reason for this and how can i get him to stop watching this show? i know that sounds mean, but seriously..
Um, this question made me feel incredibly stupid. :] I watch Spongebob. And Hannah Montana and all those "little kid" shows. I think Spongebob is amazing. Ha. Its pretty funny! Im not obsessed with it, but I watch it when its on and Im perfectly normal. I have friends and I have fun. I think we all have a little kid inside of us who just wants to watch Spongebob and drink apple juice. Trust me you'd rather have him like that, then be ALL mature at 15. Thats too fast...and no fun! Let him be a kid if he wants to once in awhile. I dont see the harm.
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why does it always feel as if i'm the outcast of my group? whenever i hang out with friends i always feel like i'm not wanted there. i am single and some of my friends have gf/bf and all but even if i'm not with a couple, it is just acward.
Also, ever feel that when you get mad at someone over something they did and you tell them that you're mad and why they always seem to either get mad back or just blow you off like you don't matter? And then they don't talk to you or appologize because they think that you're just being a big baby but you really were hurt by them, but then on the same page they can get mad at you for no reason and get even madder and ignore you when you try to act the same way that they treated you in a similar situation? is that fair that they can treat you like that, but you have to butter up and be nice when they're mad and you can't treat them the same way that they can't treat you? (Sorry it's so long...)
ALL the time. Ive had this problem for as long as I can remember throughout middle school and high school. Its a very common problem - especially with teenage girls. They want the control and they will step on anyone who is nice to get that feeling of being on top of the world - as evil as that sounds, I know. But its true. Ever notice people are meanest to the nicest people? Its because they know they'll feel better. Theyre just insecure. Id ditch them, honestly. You have 2 choises. Leave them in the dust and protect your morals. Or dont stand up for yourself, know you'll always have a group but go through pain and struggle.
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Where can I report my friend who does pot?
he's not addicted to it or anything but he has it and he's done it 3 times.
I hate him he's an a-hole and I want to tell the police so he can be sent to a juvenile detention center.
Where should I report him?
Dont. Why would you want to do that...honestly? But really, if you watch the MTV show "Juvies" you will see that someone going to Jubeline detention centers is NOT a joke. It is not something you play around with. I realize youre upset he's smoking pot. But, only 3 times? I have friends that do it 3 times...EVERY DAY. But I dont tell on them. Narking (sp?) will get you in a lot of trouble with friends. ALSO, to get him into trouble with cops they'd have to catch him smoking. Or they'd have to find a legitimate reason to search him and he actually has to have weed with him. Sorry, but I dont think you should do this..no matter how much of an asshole he is.
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does any body know where I can get clothes just like the ones in Disney Channel's Hannah Montana?
Like her shirts, shoes, and jackets?
thanks
Hannah Montana wears a LOT of juicy couture hoodies of all different colors. Theyre 92.00. But then again, theyre designer. You can find the look cheaper, though..at the mall! Seriously, she wears things normal people wear if you look around. Try trendy, urban stores like Forever 21, Delias, Urban Outfitters, Wet Seal, DEB, Urban Behavior, Charlotte Russe or Alloy. Then try more popular stores like Hollister & PacSun.
VERY GOOD SITE I RECCOMEND:
revolveclothing.com
Ill give you an example of how easy it is to find an outfit online for less.
Miley (Hannah):
http://www.cartoondollemporium.com/images/miley%20cyrus/miley_mtv_trl.jpg
Outfit for less:
skinny jeans:
http://store.alloy.com/item.do?categoryID=1072&itemID=47079&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter= - Alloy. $36.00.
shoes:
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1700&style=37582258&size=&color=100&token= - Wet Seal. $26.50.
tank top:
http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1000&size=&style=37611095&color=600&token= -Wet seal. $15.50.
Necklace:
http://www.bluenile.com/product_details.asp?oid=4802&catid=84&filter_id=0&nav1=necklace_channel.asp&page=1&col=2&row=6&pos=12&set_shape=
(35.00.)
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any singing shows for kids that have come out recently, or will be coming out? I wanna audition and im 13. ive been told that i have a good voice, and im going in a singing competition too. so maybe if those thingies come out like on TV I could audition for that too. Thanks!
Theres not any shows right NOW that I know of for child singing competitions. But, in the past theres been:
American Juniors.
America's most talented kid. (Where JoJo & Cheyenne got famous.)
Child Star.
America's got talent. (not only for singing.)
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me and my group of friends with a new girl this year..now shes a part of our group. its been about 5 months since we've been friends, and now she said that she used to cut herself and sometimes gets drunk. im not like that at all. i think thats really bad. i dont want to be peer preasured. i really like her.. whaddo i do?
She might just be saying these things to impress you. Some people try to do that for the "shock" factor. It definitely worked - youre shocked..but not in a good way. Be honest with her and tell her youre not going to judge her about ANYTHING she does, but you and your friends dont happen to want to do it. It doesnt sound like she's peer pressuring you from what you said. So, dont worry about being peer pressured until the time actually comes.
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i have a little bit of hair growing like, around my nipple area. is that really weird? i have hair on my stomach too. should i shave it off or leave it? is it really weird or do other people have it too?
Everyone has hair in the places you mentioned. Its totally normal. And most people dont shave it.
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15/f
I have bright red lips but I would like to have paler pink ones. Is there any product/technique I can use to do this?
I'm also aware that your lips fade over time, is there anyway to speed this up?
Thanks! =)
It sounds weird, but it works. I put foundation on my lips in the morning. Not TOO much or you'll look really pale. Just a dab. A verrrryy small amount. They do this in fashion shows. Then put sheer gloss over it so it wont look dry :]
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I'm looking for stores that sell clothes like Alloy, delias, forever 21, and rave. Anyone got any suggestions?
Here are some stores:
Wet Seal. (Most like the stores you mentioned.)
Charlotte Russe.
Jasmine Sola.
Urban Outfitters.
Urban Behavior.
DEB.
Gap.
Macys.
Tello's.
Urban Behavior.
DEB.
Target. (they actually have cute, trendy clothes.)
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do you shave "down there"? is it weird if you do, or if you dont? i wanna know, because me and my boyfriend have been doing a lot lately, and i think he wants to go further, and i do too, so should i shave "down there"?
Its not weird to do it and its not weird to NOT do it. Its just a preference..its your decision. To be honest, a lot of guys like when a girl shaves down there. But, dont do it just because of a guy. If he really loves you, he wont care either way because its YOUR body!
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how do you pronounce chi? lol i feel so stupid but is it like chee or chy or what?
"Chee"
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You said this:
Truth is, theres ALWAYS going to be girls like her. And they ALWAYS end up in bad situations later in life because they wasted their school time thinking about "cute clothes" instead of their schoolwork.
I am one of those "girls like her" except I get really good grades. The thing is, no one thinks I'm capable of it. When people found out I had a 4.0 GPA and got the highest grade on the math exam in the grade, they started to get SO jealous. I always try to hide my grades because people are just plain jealous.
I KNOW there's tons of people who are better off and worse off, but how do I let people know I may be smart/pretty (stereotypically anyways) but that DOESN'T matter. I have soo much drama in my life because of this.
Thanks
I'm 15/f
Hey. Well, at first I thought you were just criticizing my answer. But, you did point out something important. I wasn't right to say "They ALWAYS end up in bad situations later in life." However, I was being very general. Or you should re-evaluate what I said. Are you SURE youre like the girls I mentioned? Im not so sure, from how you described yourself. You said you have a 4.0 GPA so obviously you're extremely smart. I love cute clothes - and honestly, I think I probably spend too much time on my looks rather than homework and studying. :] Some people can do both, though. So, obviously you proved me wrong! I think I was referring to girls who are WAY out of the top. Girls who cheat off of everyone, never do homework, never try in class and want to be a rich, trophy wife rather than anything academic and worthwhile. I dont think you really are like the girls I mentioned.
To answer your question, who cares what other people know about you? Lots of pretty people have to face being stereotyped. Its because theyre JEALOUS of you. You have to realize people are always going to be jealous, its a never ending cycle. High school is only 4 years. Its all very competitive and hormones are raging. But, if you are a genuinely nice person - even to the jealous people! - they will eventually learn from you and be nice, too.
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Is it safe to put a picture of yourslef on your advice coluum? I dont really trust the internet...
Yeah. Personally I only think its unsafe if youre like, "Hi Im Mary Laurence. I live in Los Angeles, California. My address is 45 burrowsville lane." etc, etc. No one can track you down by PICTURE.
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how do you stop loving someone?
Is that supposed to be a trick question? If it is, you are veryyy deep :]
Ha.
Anyway, you CANT. Ive tried it. I think we all have. When you love someone and they break your heart and you try to tell yourself "I dont need them, Ill forget about them!" But really, you cant and you dont forget about that.
Letting go and falling out of love takes time. It could take 5 days or 5 years. Or it could possibly never happen. :[ But move on with your life, surround yourself with people that love you and have fun.
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Alright, there is this girl at school(Let'scall her Olivia), and she is REALLY REALLY annoying...if you walk faster than her, she;ll start saying in a whiny voice "Hey, wait, wait for me!" or something, and she cuses a lot, she flips people off, and one day, when I came into school late, she tried to hug me, but I was like 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then my friend calley came up and hugged me and I hugged her back. And yet Olivia honestly won't take a hint! Also, she;s one of those girls who won't stop doing something if you tell her to stop. Like, with another friend,Olivia wouldn't stop hitting her, now there is a place on me where you can hardly touch and it tickles and such. Well, she won't stop and I've told her too, but she won't. It's on my last nerve, what can I do to get her to leave me and my friends alone?(All my friends don't like her, and she is honestly like...a stalker because she'll follow you everywhere!) please, I really need some help. Thanks so much!
You might not like my advice.
But, Ive been in OLIVIA'S spot (in middle school.) I was kind of a loser. And I was very socially awkward. Many times, I had the same behavior as you described Olivia to be like. I hate to say that, but Im being totally honest here. School sucks and some kids handle it differently. Im going to tell you that for you to say 'I don't want to hug, but it's great to see you!' and then go and hug your other friend is mean and a cliquy thing to do.
You sound like you dont like her because your friends dont accept her. Shes only doing these things to get friends. Its her way of getting attention. Face it: the more you exclude her, the more she's going to want your attention. Its just a true fact. She might grow out of it, soon. But, for now I can only tell you being the bigger person than your friend will definitely benefit you in life. Theres a lot of Olivia's out there. But, her purpose ISNT to annoy you. She just wants someone to talk to..shes probably very alone. I would be nice to her. No one says you have to call her up and hang out, but be patient with her.
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this question is for girls...
i was wondering what girls look for in guys. like how do you like a guy? because i really like this girl and i want her to like me back. help please!
I THOUGHT YOU BOYS WOULD NEVER ASK! Haha sorry :]
Anyway.
*Nice.
*Funny. (important one!)
Attractive.
Caring.
Honest.
Sweet.
Loving.
Romantic.
Loyal.
Spontaneous.
Gentle.
Understanding.
Generous.
Intelligent.
Confident.
Loyal.
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do.
Theres hundreds of columnists on this site. Just so you know, you can ALWAYS talk to us. We are here to help and sometimes just listen to you like friends. :] I know Im really good at that. I do it all the time to people I know..and people I dont know. My inbox is always open, and if you want direct help, Im usually on AIM. My screen name is xomichelle891xo. Is there no parents in your life? If so, talk to them! Or any other family member. I also strongly suggest getting a therapist or talking to your school guidance counselor if you are a student. I know this may sound weird to go to one. But, its not for freaky weird people. Its for venting your problems. Talking about people and NOT getting caught and in trouble for it like you would telling your friends. Theyre there to listen..and give you advice.
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