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how do you stop loving someone?
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you can't.
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dats hard to do when you really love someone it may take a while to fall out of love with that person
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Is that supposed to be a trick question? If it is, you are veryyy deep :]
Ha.
Anyway, you CANT. Ive tried it. I think we all have. When you love someone and they break your heart and you try to tell yourself "I dont need them, Ill forget about them!" But really, you cant and you dont forget about that.
Letting go and falling out of love takes time. It could take 5 days or 5 years. Or it could possibly never happen. :[ But move on with your life, surround yourself with people that love you and have fun.
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truthfully.. if you are truelly in love.. it doesnt go away you cant stop loving someone .. i wish i could tell you how but its impossible.. you can find someone new who makes you feel the same way maybe even more but once you fall in love it doesnt go away expecially first loves they stick around forever.
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To be honest you cant DO! nething to stop loving someone it has to happen on it's own. It takes time and you can not sit there and moarn over it. You have to continue your life get yourself back in the game Show him/her you dont need 'em in your life.
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With extreme difficulty.
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Okay, I just went through a horrible break-up where I was left with my feelings for the person. She broke up with me so I had no choice but to continue loving her. But anyway, the key to stop loving someone is work and time. You need to get out in the world and jumpstart your life. Hang out with friends, go see a movie, talk to people about other things. This will take time but eventually your love for this person will fade away.
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heres what you have to do:
*talk about all the bad things they do or say
*remember the bad times
THATS IT
may i ask why though?
♥ Flaggal
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There's really no real answer for that. I mean, it depends on who you're loving, and why you want to stop. It mainly just comes naturally,I mean really, there's no stopping it.
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hello i am facing a similar problem with the person i am in a relationship with. It honestly depends upon how far you have gone with the person for example giving away your virginity, that will make the situation hard. Or if it was your first love the person will be in the back of your mind subconciously. But, there is hope it may take awhile to recover depending on how serious the relationship was/is. First off spend sometime with the people you havent seen in awhile such as friends/family memebers. Dont feel bad talking about it even getting a consuler to discuss these factors may help.(only a suggestion)You can also plan a trip to somewhere you love or try a new activity to get your mind off of that person. Take a break from romance, explore your options. But to be completely honest its hard. And if you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
good luck,
brittni
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well that depends on a lot of things. Sometimes it comes naturally, sometimes it takes months or years. Depending on how long of a relatioship you had with them (or if at all). If you had a long thing with him/her, then it takes closure and you have to move on with your life. You can do this, by talking to your friends and expressing your feelings. Surround yourself with great faces and try to get out of thinking about him/her. I know its hard, but think of someone else, and try to concentrate on other things. Try and develop a crush on other people, or concentrate on schoolwork or something alike. Theres not much else I can say/ advice if I don't know more about the situation, but if you want more specific advice feel free to ask! Love ya
Angie91
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