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plz help i dont want to lose my best guy friend we're both 16, except im a girl. he is mkaing my life a living hell right now but i know its justa phase and i want to let him know hes hurting me without losing him please help!! (link)
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u just need 2 simply explain 2 him that what he is doing is really hurting you but that u dont want 2 lose hios friendship because it is something that you value very much.
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Hi,
I am a home daycare provider. I have been taking care of a 2 year old, Mikey, for almost 2 years now. I NEVER call in sick, I am very dependable. The only time in almost 2 years I have EVER called in is when I had to be hospitalized for 3 days. And even then, I got a back-up sitter so the parents didn't have to miss work. I am cheap too. $100 a week for a 2 year old is unheard of! I am very loyal and loving to all of my daycare kids. I have grown very attached to Mikey, I love him as if he were my own.
I am a very passive person. I let people walk all over me and I know it. I never say what's on my mind, in fear that I will lose the kids or cause an argument. But in this case, I have had it!
I have my own child, who is very sick right now. He needed to see a doctor yesterday. I understand that being a daycare provider means that you have to be dependable, and I am. I put the daycare kids first and waited to take my kid to the doctor until all the other kids were gone to take him to after hours care.
I discovered that my son has strep throat and an ear infection. Strep is very contagious!
Trying to do the right thing, I called all the parents and told them that my son had strep. Being that all the kids were here yesterday anyway, they were probably already exposed. I told the parents that their children are more than welcome to attend daycare, but I just wanted to make the parents aware that my son does have strep. I made it abundantly clear that it was THEIR choice whether they wanted to bring their child to daycare or not.
According to my contract, I am to be paid whether the child attends daycare or not unless I have 2 weeks notice. If I call in sick and cannot provide care for their child, then they do not have to pay.
Mikey's mom called this morning, FREAKING out on me. She says that she cannot find another sitter on such short notice, and if Mikey doesn't come today then she isn't paying me...blah blah. She totally made me feel like I was screwing her and leaving her optionless. I explained AGAIN that it was HER choice to bring Mikey or not to bring Mikey, that I was open and already had other children there. She rudely said she would call me back and hung up on me.
She calls back and rudely says she has absolutely nobody to watch Mikey so she is gonna stay home with him. Before I could even say OK or I am sorry, she hung up on me again!
At this point, my blood is boiling. She has no right to get an attitude with me or to hang up on me. I have always given her child love and I have always respected her. I do not deserve to be treated this way.
But being the passive one, I let it go. Then I saw that I had a voice mail. I checked the message and it was her. Again, she is saying I don't know what to do....this is ridiculous....If Mikey doesn't come I am not paying you, I will not pay for 2 sitters...Blah blah...then rudely slams down the phone.
First of all, if the measley $20 is an issue, all she had to do was talk to me about it. In the contract, I am entitled to it. But I am such a push over that I probably would have waived it because I felt bad.
Secondly, I never told her Mikey could not come. I made that very clear more than once that this was her choice.
So my question is, how do I handle this? I am so angry with her that I wanna scream. How dare you talk to me like that and then hang up on me? I would never do that to her and I don't deserve that. Should I offer to waive the $20? I would have anyway. Should I put her in her place and tell her how I feel or just let it go?
I am really upset about this! I love Mikey and want to continue caring for him, but I know this is going to turn into an arguement if I bring it up.
What would you do???
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My mother is also a daycare provider and she has the same problem sometimes 3 or 4 days of out a week. Sometimes she does jus waive the fee but it the fact that they all know that she doesnt play bout her money and her contract is same as urs dont come still pay they all kno her money is 2 b in a envelope with the date and their name on it on fridays no matter wat and she is very polite 2 all of her parents two. i have even seen her take her parents to court if they leave with out paying explain two her that she signed the contract
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ok...
i have very bad discharge sometimes...
its like i will think my period has juss started...& when i go to the bathroom its like clear slime...
is this normal? (link)
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yes it is normal
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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated. (link)
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u could make a sculpture of something u really like or how u feel and then add a little twist to it by adding maye some photos the you like
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I had no idea what kind of category to put this under but here goes my question...
ok now,
I watch porn videos at night to get me horny but I see a lot of girls and I think they're hot. 13/f by the way, and whenever i see like a pretty girl or something ill be like "whoa theyre hot" in my head. but then during the day when i see a lot of guys im like "omg hes so hot." or "whoa hes gorgeous" am i bi? am i lesbian? am i straight? is this normal? (link)
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well its normal how do i know? i took biology and our teacher was saying how all people would always wonder about some one of the same sex its just that you are curious Its something that you will grow of out it normally happens aroung the age of 11 until about the age of maybe 15 but some people never seem to grow out of it so that is how some people become bi or homo
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I'm confused, whats the difference between kissing and making out? (link)
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well a kiss can b like a peck on the lips but making out can involve your tongue and making out can actually to more sexual things
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My friend has a cut on her face. I asked her how she got it, but she refused to tell me. I asked her a few more times after that but gave up because she said she couldn't say.
What I am scared is that she's cutting herself, or that her parents are abusive. I can't think of anything other than that, that would be so bad you wouldn't want to tell anyone (or be allowed to). I first thought it was her cat that scratched her but I think she would have told me.
OR.. maybe its really nothing bad and she's just looking for attention. But aside from all of that--what should I do? I am really worried about her and wish I knew why and how she got the cut. (Its a scrape, on her face) (link)
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well if her cat would have done it i think she would have told u it could be to get attention though because i had a friend and one day he came to school and he had cut up his whole arm and he lied to me and said that the knife slipped but i was later told that he was cutting himself and he just needed someone to talk to and be there for him so she might just need you to be there for her. what type of people are her parents do you think that they would abuse their child? Is she the only child?
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Hi im 14 male,i was wondering,how old would most parents say you should be before your girlfriend could sleep over,like in the same room/same bed.I know some parents are strict, but what would most parents say is old enough?
Thanks,
Please Anwser
and its not to have sex...its just to cuddle with eachother and to kiss eachother goodnight..
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It really depends do your parents trust you because most parents would say maybe 17 some might say neva but if they trust you they might let it happen
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how do you stop loving someone? (link)
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dats hard to do when you really love someone it may take a while to fall out of love with that person
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would it be rude if i broke up with someone in a letter? (link)
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I would rather u do it in person You will be able to see how the person will react. If its someone that really likes you it would be hard for that person to ever get over the letter. It is something that they will look back at and it might be painful for them
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I dont know what to do. Music has taken over my life. Its basically taken over any kind of life I have. I really dont want to see my boyfriend or friends anymore because I want to play my guitar. And another thing, everyone makes fun of the music I listen to because its mostly old stuff. I cant help it! Thats just what I like. What do I do? (link)
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Dont worry bout them makin fun i mean there isnt anything wrong wit listenin 2 old music i like old music everyone has something dat they like alot and music is jus wat you like but as far as your friends you can have them 2 work on your music wit you
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hey i was wondering
do guys like girls who are loud, or quiet?
Girls who are girly, or tomboyish?
Who wear clothes from abercrombie, or sporty stuff?
Girls who have blue, green or brown eyes?
and girls that have red, blond or brown hair?
oh and do guys think that freckles are cute? or ugly????
thanks in advance!!!!!! (link)
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Guys like all differnt kinds of girls some do like girly girls some do like tomboyish girl I mean just as girls like differnent kinds of guys guys like differnt kinds of girls it just depends on the guy and some guys dont even go by facial appearance they might go by ur attitude or personality So it jus depends.
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My dad is an alcoholic and hits my mom all the time. Can I do anything about it even though he doesnt hit me? He calls me bad names a lot though. Oh and Im 16. (link)
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i agree wit Jesus Freak i mean u should not jus try to tell him yourself he could try 2 hurt u and dont feel bad bout wat youre going through cause guess wat i go through the same exact thing but my mom called the cops and everything went well
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