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Question Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 5:17 pm

would it be rude if i broke up with someone in a letter?

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Wheeler answered Saturday January 27 2007, 10:23 pm:
thats the hardest way
to break up with someone
best advice
do it in person
letters are just.. wrong
it should be banished
it hurts badly.
like very very badly.

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christina answered Friday January 26 2007, 9:25 pm:
It's kind of rude. I would do it in person.

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kiran answered Friday January 26 2007, 3:48 pm:
I would think to do it in person. Because if they really liked you they would be in more pain than it would be in person. It would be on their mind and it would be hard for them to get over.

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MizzJ answered Friday January 26 2007, 1:51 pm:
I would rather u do it in person You will be able to see how the person will react. If its someone that really likes you it would be hard for that person to ever get over the letter. It is something that they will look back at and it might be painful for them

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LadyH answered Friday January 26 2007, 3:09 am:
I'm not sure if "rude" is the right word for it. But it's much more mature to do it in person.

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Xineph answered Thursday January 25 2007, 8:48 pm:
The Short Answer:
Don't do it.

The Longer Answer:
The guy really, really wouldn't appreciate it. It's not exactly rude... But it's not courteous, either. Also, as has been said below me, wouldn't it be easier to just face him? It's a better idea in general to do it in person.

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illtryandhelp answered Thursday January 25 2007, 7:52 pm:
its not neccesarally rude but is that they way that you would want to be broken up with? its better then the computure but the best way is in person and give the person the respect cause u have been going out with them and even though u might feel really bad its the best way to do it. hope i helped =)

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pockets answered Thursday January 25 2007, 7:04 pm:
It isn't rude. It's more formal than doing it through text messaging, but kind of stupid considering the fact that you could just use the phone and be more personable.

If you've been dating for a long time though...i'd probably go with breaking the news face to face. More mature, yes?

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bsktballchick45 answered Thursday January 25 2007, 6:23 pm:
I don't know about rude, but it would be saying you can't do it face-to-face. It needs to be done in person, I think it's the best way.

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Depressed_Poet answered Thursday January 25 2007, 5:56 pm:
Personally, I think you should take the time to see him/her considering he/she is your girlfriend/boyfriend. If you're afraid they'll become violent with you don't be afraid to text-message, email, IM, call,send a letter or whatever your heart desires to break up! But other than that, you probably should be with him the minute it's really over. It's your last minute together as girlfriend&&boyfriend. You should cherish it.
Hope I helped <3
Good luck!

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Brandi_S answered Thursday January 25 2007, 5:47 pm:
It wouldn't be rude, but it would be sort of chicken, don't you think?

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easilyfixed answered Thursday January 25 2007, 5:47 pm:
it wouldn't be rude..it would just be like saying that you don't have the guts to do it in person.
trust me, if your going to break up with a guy or girl, do it in person.

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