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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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I just started having my period and I want to tell my mom so that she knows. I am having trouble finding the right words to say that won't embarrass me or make her confused. We don't really talk about periods or anything so I don't want to make the entire thing uncomfortable. From your own personal experience, how did you tell your mom that you had started your period? Well, I guess it doesn't have to be actually your mom, but whoever you told--how did you say you started having periods?
Ask if she can buy you pads/tampons from the store, since you really need some. It'll be obvious that you have it.
20female.
what are some things I can do to make a guy go crazy and really turn him on? I know all guys like their own things or have their own "fetish" but just anything you can throw out there would be appreciated!
I think it's pretty obvious. Guys are guys and anything can turn them on if they find themselves attracted to the girl. And to make him go crazy? While making out "accidentally" brush your hand on his thigh. Do it every now and then and keep moving up when you do.
19.f
My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin?
Too 99% of the world, you are still a virgin.
Its really how you look at it.
20 f.
When me and this guy had sex for the first time, we didn't really do that much foreplay. When he came to my house, I met him in the entry way -gave him a hug, he picked me up and we started making out. Then I led him to my room, we layed on the bed started making out again ..he took my clothes off, fingered me for like 2min and then we had sex.
Some people say guys need foreplay to get hard before sex. Why didn't he need a lot of foreplay? I get wet really easily so I rarely need foreplay. Was it because he was just really turned on by me? I'd like to think I turned him on that fast haha or was it just him being lucky and not needing a lot of foreplay?
Just kinda curious.
It totally depends on the person. Doesn't matter if it's male or female. We all react differently to sexual activity.
You guys must have good chemistry. Think of it as a good thing. :]
19/f.
Hi 8)
ok i have a huge problem and its been on my mind for ages basically theres this boy i really like but he doesnt know me. he doesnt even know i exist. i see him sometimes but he hasnt ever seen me. ive had a crush on him for 5 and a half years now and i really want to meet him i hardly ever see him now only sometimes, and im always with parents when i do see him. i think im in love please help i need to find a way to speak to him, hes been on my mind a lot lately and i cant eat, think or study please help
thanks in advance (im 19)
xxx
You really just need to start with saying "hi". I know it's pretty simple advice, but it's really all you can do. Next time you see him just say "Hi" and introduce yourself. If he acknowledges you for a few minutes he'll remember you next time. Small things work. It'll be better than sitting around waiting for him the rest of your life. Get to know him, even just a little bit. It might be a good thing or a bad thing.
Hope I helped. :/ It's a sticky situation.
Im 42 and i want to start to smoke. Where do i start
You go to a store and buy some Marbolo's I'm assuming. But why now? It's terrible for you.
So me & my boyfriend had unprotected sex during my period, he pulled out & busted a nut all over my cover. I accidently set my leg in it & it got onto my thigh. Then 2 days after my period ended, we had unprotected sex once again, but this time he busted a nut on his leg & I once again put my leg down & it got on my thigh, both times I wipped it off. But then he cleaned himself off, got dressed & laid with me. Then it started up again, but he didn't bust a nut this time, I just got tired. So my question is; can I get pregnant & if so, how high of a risk do you think I'm pregnant? By the way I'm 18 & a girl.
Honestly, you need to stop using the "pull out method". It's frankly bull shit, and doesn't work. If you keep on going on with it you will eventually end up getting pregnant. You need birth control. Go to planned parenthood/some type of clinic in your area and get birth control. You're an adult, you can get it without a parent's consent, and I know at P.P. you don't have to pay all at once. You just call, go in, make a donation. You get the pills as soon as you go in.
Here's the link:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
So my advice for right now:
Go to the Drug Store, pick up a pregnancy test. If it's positive, do what you want to do. If it's negative, find a health clinic and get on the pill. I'm a year older than you, I can't imagine getting pregnant.
If you are already on birth control, use condoms if you're worried about pregnancy.
19/f.
I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
I think you really need to get out. He sounds like a prick to me, and keeping things from your girlfriend is no brownie points. Why would he make a whole separate facebook group about you guys? He's up to no good, and if it's about you, he has no right to have it.
You need to confront him and be upfront about it. Tell him you know what he's been doing and he needs to delete or you leave him. But honestly, either way you should leave him.
my breast hurt but I THINK ITS MY PIOR THAT IS COMING OR THAT im prenget
I'm assuming you mean period.
the only way to know is to go to a drug store and take a test.
other wise, unanswered questions unless you do get your period.
What are some things to do to a guy while you're making out/being fingered? I feel like its harder to to something when i'm laying on top of him because when he's on top of me i'll run my hands through his hair or touch is body but thats all i can think of. Its hard when hes kissing my all over and fingering me I feel like I can't really move.
Can someone please give me some advice? :)
When you're making out, just take your hand and move down towards "there'. And just play and tease like that for a bit. Eventually make your way and just stroke his area with your hand.
19/f.
I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?
No one can tell you when you should have sex. It's up to you. If you feel secure and ready enough to take that step, go ahead and take it. It's your choice. Just be responsible about it. Make sure you're safe.
Hi im 18 years old and im sexually active with my boyfriend for over 6 months, we've been doing it everyday and he cummed inside me almost a month ago, after that I got like some spotting and I thought I was getting my period but it was a false alarm also my breats have been hurting a lot. Im suppose to get me period in the end of April and its now May.11th! Could I be pregnant? Is it too soon?
Please help, thanks!
You could be. I suggest picking up a pregnancy test and getting birth control at planned parenthood.
female btw :)
Right basically, I have a boyfriend who I'm in love with. Hes more experienced than me though and we have had sex, and I've been fingered.
The thing is, I really wanna return the favour (hand job) because he sometimes asks and I know sometimes I lead him on teasing him e.g getting him hard and then just leaving it. I'm just a bit nervous in case i do it wrong :'(
but hes a really nice guy seriously and he doesn't pressure me I would just love to treat him every now and then I just am not very practised and dont want to do it wrong :(
HELP!
Like the person below me said, pleasing guys isn't nearly as hard as pleasing girls. Ask him what he likes. Ask him to guide you. You'll get the hang out it.
Hey so i am 16 f and me and this guy from my school that i know welll are kinda planning to hookup. he asked me if he could finger me and do stuff to me. and then asked if i would do stuff to him. Well anyways it would be my first time doing anything!! so he weeks saying .... in a week. and im just not sure what to do really cause i get my period that week, and so im just gonna be like i got my period today. but still i wanna do something with him. What should i do and please dont say to young or something cause i raelly wanna try something fun. not necessarliy just bj and hj and fing. and eat. But don worry i am NOT going all the way. haha! anyways just i would like some advice.
Do you have feelings for this guy? Any sort of emotional connection of some sort? If yes I must advise you to STAY AWAY. I've been there, giving into something sexual thinking it would solve something, but you'll only be hurt.
Those are just my two cents.
As for doing something else with him, try sticking to the basics first. If you've never done anything before, you don't want to get to ahead of yourself. It'll help.
this guy i have been dating wants me to come to a bbq with his family today. ill go but i just dont know about food, they hunt all their food and live in the country but im a vegetarian. last night i ate fish because his dad wouldnt leave me alone and i feel bad for denying their food, but i dont want to eat it. how can i nicely go about the eating part? its going to be mainly meat and if i dont eat it il have like nothing on my plate and be bugged about it all but if i eat it ill hate myself?? also were not boyfriend girlfriend so how do we act and introduce?
as for the first part simply say "sorry i don't eat meat." that's all you need to say. bring some veggie burgers along so you won't feel like you have nothing. you can blame it on allergies if you need too. it makes you sick, etc.
as for introducing, stick to "friend". if you're at a family gathering, most people will assume you're dating. hah.
How can I find out the calories and other nutrition facts from McDonald's? My friends have been eating there recently and I'd like to go out with them but I don't want to eat too many calories for just a burger or something. I guess I'm most interested in the calories of the McRib versus something like the McDouble or the McChicken. Anyway, I heard a LONG time ago that McDonald's had their nutritional facts available for people to look at somewhere. Where would I find them? Are they online or at the stores?
Oh, and calories for a small shamrock flavored shake, too, because those are my favorite!
They're online. Mcdonalds.com
I also believe they put nutrition info on the box when you order a burger. You can always ask them too.
So I'm 15/f, 5'3" tall, and currently weigh 131 pounds. (I hate even typing that number.) Two years ago, I weighed about 140 and completely hated it, so I starved myself. For about a week, I ate barely anything, but I would never go more than a day without eating at least something, even if it was just one or two tortilla chips. It was more just for the feeling of eating, if you get what I mean. In that week, I lost about 16 pounds (so I was 124) and within the few weeks after that, I got down to 116. I haven't exactly starved myself since for that amount of time, but I do go without enough food some days. I don't want to say I've been comfortable with myself since then, but I've kind of learned to ignore it and pretend I am. But lately, I really can't stand it. I look at my stomach and my butt, and all I see is fat. My friends and sisters (who don't know about my body issues) tell my a lot how skinny I am, but that doesn't make a difference. It kind of makes me just want to starve myself more. I look in the mirror, and I absolutely HATE what I see. I look fat and wide and disgusting. I don't want to see myself like that. I hate not loving myself that way. I'm seriously considering starting to throw up after I eat, but I really don't want that. I can't think of any other way, though, besides just ridding myself of the food. I've tried exercise, but it just doesn't work. Any advice?? Please. I hate this so so so much. (Sorry this is so incredibly long.)
PS- I don't eat a lot of junk. I eat fairly well, with the occasional sugary treat.
You worry too much.
The average weight for 5'3 is anywhere from 115 - 135. So you're still in the healthy range. Maybe 124 would be an ideal weight if you felt like you HAD to loose weight.
Instead of starving yourself, or throwing up, have you considered going vegetarian? I don't mean to sound preachy, but I've always been on the heavy side and when I switched to veg. I've lost 10lbs and have managed to keep it off (and i still eat junk food ocasionally). Meat is high in calories and saturated fat. You might find it helpful if you cut some out for awhile.
Need a plan on what to it?
Breakfast- Quaker Oatmeal. Banana or Orange. Green Tea.
OR Peanut Butter Banana Wrap. Green Tea.
OR 1 unfrosted, choice of flavor poptart, 1 apple. Green Tea.
Snack - Clif or Luna Bar
Lunch - BBQ Tofu (shake n bake is vegetarian) with Lettuce, Veggies of your choice, in Whole Wheat Wrap.
OR Meatless "Meat"balls with Lettuce, and veggies on Whole Wheat Wrap.
Side of carrot sticks/celery sticks with hummus.
Snack - Handful of seeds/nuts.
Dinner - Veggie "Chickn" Strips on a Salad with Italian Dressing.
OR Veggie Burger. 1/4 plate sweet potato fries. 1/2 plate green vegetables.
Anything you want really.
(Drink Milk throughout the day. As well as Water.)
Hope I helped. :]
What are some easy to prepare and not hard to find vegtables. I pack my lunch for school so need to keep them fresh for a four or five hours too.
Baby Carrot sticks are the simplest thing you can buy. Vitamin C!
Broccoli is also good. If you like to eat them raw. Calci-yumm.
Celery sticks. Low Carb and Low cal.
Cucumbers. Also low calorie.
Dip the above with some hummus and you got a tasty vegetable snack.
Hey there okay never thought Id find myself asking one of theese questions but yea here goes.
Soo this will probably sound extremely stupid in a way but im kinda worried. Basicly I get my period towards the end of the month start of the next The last time I got my period was Jan 26/27th/28th could of been either of theese dates it finished probably like feb 1st now March 15th and I havnt had a period since im usually really on time,as my period previous to the last was the 26th of december.
Anyway I havnt had sex and im a virgin..so obviously I couldnt be pregnant.However a thought occured to me..in between this time me and my boyfriend have fooled around alot..like everything except sex.
So im kind of like stressing now considering im this late that maybe is it possible that if anything from him came in contact with me when we were messing around without realising?
Seems incrediabley stupid I know but I was wondering is that ANYWAY possible?cos im kinda freakin out now.
I know the more I stress that,that can delay them longer but ive relaxed and completely forgot until now.
why am I so late? should I be at all worried?
Thanks for your time :)
It IS possible. But you didn't really say what you meant by "fooling around". If he fingered you right after pleasuring him, it might be possible that his cum came in contact. If you did anal it is also possible. It really depends on what you did.
Have your boyfriend buy you a pregnancy test. Tell him that you're late and it would calm your nerves. You both are really the only ones who knows what went on and if it is possible something happened.
But don't worry too much. I was the same way when I first started going out with my boyfriend. Every time I was late we would freak out and buy a pregnancy test. I never got pregnant. heh.
I have this friend who thinks she needs to go on a diet. I dont know what to do. should I go on a diet or should I workout? Im scared somepeople might think im fat or stupid if I show them my photos of me in belly button showers. Also, Im scared some people may not like me cause of the freckles next to my belly-button. Should I start putting skin toner on top of the freckles so people think its jus skin?
ps. help!!!
I think you care too much what people think about you. There's nothing wrong with freckles next to your belly button. They're freckles, you can't get rid of them. And if your boyfriend/whoever sees that its skin toner, he might be a bit freaked out. Don't worry, you'll find someone who'll like you for who you are.
As for working out/dieting, have you ever considered just eating healthier? If you eat dorritos and drink mountain dew all day, you might not be necessarily "fat", but you're definitely unhealthy. Cut out junk food. Eat healthier, smaller meals (eating a balanced diet as well).
Relax. Don't worry too much.
You're beautiful just the way you are.