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Hey so i am 16 f and me and this guy from my school that i know welll are kinda planning to hookup. he asked me if he could finger me and do stuff to me. and then asked if i would do stuff to him. Well anyways it would be my first time doing anything!! so he weeks saying .... in a week. and im just not sure what to do really cause i get my period that week, and so im just gonna be like i got my period today. but still i wanna do something with him. What should i do and please dont say to young or something cause i raelly wanna try something fun. not necessarliy just bj and hj and fing. and eat. But don worry i am NOT going all the way. haha! anyways just i would like some advice.
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doing it all in one day can be overwelming, try just making out. then hang out with him again and let things progressively go further, but afterwards you might not feel good about yourself, so really think it through first. Don't let this guy just think your willing to do anything and your like a piece of meat.
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Do you have feelings for this guy? Any sort of emotional connection of some sort? If yes I must advise you to STAY AWAY. I've been there, giving into something sexual thinking it would solve something, but you'll only be hurt.
Those are just my two cents.
As for doing something else with him, try sticking to the basics first. If you've never done anything before, you don't want to get to ahead of yourself. It'll help.
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I don't at all think you are too young for this so don't disregard my answer right off the bat, hear me out.
When you get that intimate with a guy, a lot of times girls get feelings later that didn't have before and you may get attached. If he is just looking for a hook up, he probably won't get attached and won't want anything more afterwards. That being said, I don't think the first time you do this should be with someone you don't care about. It's going to mean something to you if not now, than later in life. I had the opportunity to mess around for the first time with a guy I didn't really like romantically, but I decided against it because of some advice I got from some friends.
But now after I've done it before, I would definitely be up for a friends with benefits kind of relationships. I would have been sad if I would have done it with someone I didn't care about.
If you do want to do something fun still, I would suggest not doing anything on your period. You'll just feel gross the entire time and you won't enjoy it (imagine bloating..cramps, etc) Just wait a week.
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Well i know you dont wanna hear this but you are young and ill give you the advice but im in no way saying you should have sex but to help you out a little ill give you some advice. First of all i think its totally normal for any teen to get into this stuff so i understand i guess but if your worried about your period tell the guy that you cant because of your period and maybe you could do it either before or after its done and let him know its your first time and if hes nice about it and offers to help you out and tell you what or how to do it then hes i guess the right guy to do it with otherwise hes not.
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