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how long do u think u should wait to have sex?


Question Posted Thursday July 1 2004, 11:39 am

I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?

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dhunters_baby answered Sunday May 16 2010, 2:04 pm:
I usually set my minimum to 6 months. Then you get to know the guy and if he really loves you he will wait. Then you also know that he's not going to use you for sex. It all depends though. You will know when you are ready. Just follow your heart.

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easilyfixed answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 9:15 pm:
No one can tell you when you should have sex. It's up to you. If you feel secure and ready enough to take that step, go ahead and take it. It's your choice. Just be responsible about it. Make sure you're safe.

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justletmebe answered Wednesday May 12 2010, 2:20 pm:
my 1st bf i waited two years, and that was when i turned 18. we dated on and off so i wasnt so sure. my current bf it was a week and we have been together for 2 and a half years. i just jumped into it with him and i am more in love with him then i have ever been with any one ever

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OhMyLucyDarling answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 10:22 pm:
This is a tough question


In my opinion I don't think anyone who is young should be having sex period and young meaning 13-17 years old. Sex is something that should wait until you are truly ready, You trust your partner and most of all you have been together for longer than a good 6 months. You may get a variety of different answers but this is mine.

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killerface answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 11:12 am:
I agree with the person below me about a little more information being helpful. If you're under 18, chances are you haven't been together long enough yet regardless of how much you love him. As a general rule for myself, I never get intimate with a guy until he's made some kind of real impact in my life. Yeah, I can think I love him or whatever, but until he's made some kind of change to me- helping me grow as a person some how- I'm not ready for him to be a notch on my bed post, so to speak.

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MandieJo answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 10:54 am:
this question is very hard to answer since you give very little information. The most vague answer i can give is when you have both talked about it and decided it would be the next step in your relationship

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itsallabOutkimbO answered Thursday July 15 2004, 1:51 am:
me n my bf waited 11 months...that sounds good

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Brunettebabe14234 answered Monday July 12 2004, 2:47 pm:
* i think u should wait at least like 2 years* but its all up to u*

*<3Alwayz,
*Anggie*
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ClurBur answered Saturday July 10 2004, 11:52 am:
Until you both feel your ready and want to take that step in your relationship!

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 8:28 pm:
Well make sure he luvs you just in case of consequenes and you know he is going to support you 100% so Make sure he realyl luvs you and when your comfortable then ya should!

x0x-Stephanie

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queenbianca2004 answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 9:36 am:
alls I can say is when you and him are readdy

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 7:16 pm:
well u just have to b sure that ur b/f really loves u a lot...n whenever ur ready go for it!xoxo effy

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onlyqtwitdabooty answered Sunday July 4 2004, 5:06 pm:
u should probably wait a year or a few more months

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SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Saturday July 3 2004, 1:35 am:
Until you feel like your ready! Don't do it unless you feel like you are 100% ready!

Hope this helped! I'll be glad to answer any mroe questions you might have!
*Laci

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erincsurfs answered Friday July 2 2004, 9:32 am:
there is no right or wrong time to have sex with ur bf or gf it's totaly up to u and how u feel about the situation

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xOCarrie answered Friday July 2 2004, 5:33 am:
I don`t think time matter`s i think all that matter`s is if your ready and you feel close enough and have love and care for him to do it.

xO.Carrie

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xxbabiiphatt4xx answered Friday July 2 2004, 1:19 am:
theres not really a certain time limit you can put on how long to wait in a relationship to have sex if you think your ready and you know your ready for that responsibility and you know you can trust the perosn your with then go for it

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aglassbox answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:44 pm:
when ever you to feel like its the right time!
~*Bates*~

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Fish answered Thursday July 1 2004, 6:00 pm:
don't put yourself on a schedule for that kind of thing. If you're ready, you'll know it. And since you don't know, then you probably aren't ready. Slow down and stop trying to put stuff like this down on a calendar.

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dancer_freak05 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 3:24 pm:
Wait until ur both ready

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Samie answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:45 pm:
Hey. I personally would wait until a year or more. You don't want to have sex with a guy you have dated 3 weeks and then get dumped. Make sure you know the guy first. <3

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natalie04 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:34 pm:
There is no set time in a relationship to have sex. You do it when you feel ready. Don't rush it. be sure he's a person you want to have sex with!

~*Natalie*~

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JessieV answered Thursday July 1 2004, 1:02 pm:
You should wait probably about untill you are out of college because if anything goes wrong for all you know you could end up carrying a baby around
Sincerely Jessica

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x0x_kayla_x0x answered Thursday July 1 2004, 12:44 pm:
There is no certain amount of time to be together before you have sex! It's when you think you are ready! And when you think your ready then go for it! Good luck!
xox kayla xox

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HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 12:33 pm:
When you feel like the time is right to have sex then go for it. Dont let him or anyone else pressure you. Some people wait till marriage, and I dunno how they do it because I bet its hard! But maybe you guys should talk about sex and talk about when your ready and what not. Good luck and I hope things work out
-Holly-
Hope I helped

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SexyHal answered Thursday July 1 2004, 12:05 pm:
i think u should wait until yall are both ready and then if yall are and you love him then u should make sure he loves u back before u have sex with him because u dont want him to just use u for sex and then leave u but if u are ready and wanna risk being hurt if he doesnt really like u then u should do it whenever u are ready to.
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))

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accolade answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:51 am:
well, if you're religious, then you're not supposed to have sex until you're married, but hey, if you know you'll have a long relationship, and are planning to stay together for a very long time, go ahead. it's your decision though, don't give away what you have to someone who's only gonna be there for a few minutes.

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bAbYCHeeR792 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:48 am:
It's your opinion, when ever you are ready, but if the rubber breaks are you ready for the consequences?

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jbdreamer answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:44 am:
No one but you can answer that question. You know when you are ready. If you have even one bit of doubt then your not.

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tikibikini answered Thursday July 1 2004, 11:44 am:
well first of all it depends on if you guys both love each other and you are commited in doing this. if not then i dont see the big point of doing "it" just wait tilll you both are ready but i am talking like 6 moths to a year to do it
~hope i helped~
~*~*jonelle~*~
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