Hey Guys! My name is Laci, I'm 18 years old. If you send me a question I will try and answer it ASAP :-)
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Age: 18
Member Since: June 30, 2004
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i only eat icecream about once a week. whenever i have it i get diarrhea. why is this? (link)
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It might be the milk in it or another one of the ingreds. that you are allwergic to your your body doesn't digest properly. If your really fond of icecream then O say you could deal with the diarrhea or you could take Immodium AD--thats my bestfriend I always seem to have to take it lol. Or you could lay off the ice cream. But does milk, or cheese have this affect on you? If not maybe you could call your doctor if you wanted to know more.
*Laci
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if your bf didnt't have sex with you for a while, and then when you finally did have sex again, he did things differently, would you think he was cheating on you? i ask him about his new little things he was doing, and he said its cuz we need to try new things. but i dont know what to think. im scared he may have learned these new things from another woman. (link)
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I think your paranoid. He might of gotten those tips from his friends or from watchin "movies". It depends how long though if it was anything more than 2-3 months then I would say you will have to ask him if he is. If you have been with him for a while and if he a trusty person than he will tell you the truth. Hope this helped!
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i can remember the title to this one song. but i know liek all the words n stuff. but it goes like this...love me love me say that you love me, need me need me, say that you need me, so i creid and i begged for you, love me love me, saythat you love me, fool me fool me go on and fool me, i cant care bout anything but you..." WHAT IS THAT SONG! ill rate really well!!! (link)
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Lovefool by Natalie Brown!
*Laci
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend? (link)
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You are going to have to ask your friend before you make any type of moves. Make sure he is ok with it because thats the last thing you would want to do or who you would want to hurt. If the girl really liked the guy a lot then I say just be a close friend to her and try to help her out and when you notice that she is over it then wait 2 more days and ask her on a date. If she is already over it then I would wait about a week then ask her out on a date. But just make sure you asked your friend if he is cool with it or not. The girl might not care going out with you even though she was with your friend. But I'm not that girl so I can't really say. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles) (link)
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I saw a daschhound puppy and I feel in love with it a couple of days ago. I tried looking them up online and I guess they come in 3 different sizes ones called a toy thats all I remember but it ended up being the size of a chichuwa. They are really good behaving dogs too. If you get a dog as a puppy you will be able to teach it the tricks that you want and plus they are cuter. But you oculd also get a dog at a pound...they need homes too and they are already trained. I can't really help you out with any names for the dogs you kind of have to go with how the dog acts and how its personality is. I personally like people names for pets because they are part of the family. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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okay.. me and my friend, the other day at lunch wanted to get higher in tha line so i was like.. heyy.. that guy is hot.. lets go talk to him.. and we went over there.. and i was like.. wow.. your so hot.. and he was like.. thanx.. you are tooo.. so.. it was kool.. well anyways.. he asked me out.. and i said i dunno.. just so i can get to know him better first.. and now my friend is like.. no.. dont go out with him.. your steling him from me.. and im like.. uh.. ok? he was mine? so.. should i go out with him or not? * i WiLL rAtE* (link)
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Well first I'd like to know how old you are because if your anywhere from a sophmore below I would say its no worth getting your friend upset over it. Guys will come and guys will go but your friends will always be there for you through it all. But if you are a Junior or older than I say that you should probably explain it all to your friend that you saw hi first, it was your idea to go up in line, and you were the one who said everything. She might not understand because of JEALOUSY but if she is still jealous I say that you should probably not go through with it. Like I said before guys will come and go. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
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My boyfriend is a redhead and he has pale ksin and freckles. Not everyone is attracted to redheads like not everyone is attracted to blondes or brunettes. I personally think redheads are cute! But don't get down on yourself because you havent had a boyfriend sooner than later you will find an amazing boy that you will be with. Untill then just live it up with your friends. Your turn will come to have a boyfriend. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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how can i stop bein shy around boys?? i cant help it!! n i blush all the time!!!!!!! ahhhhhhhhh help me please and i will LOVE You for ever (link)
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Well first of all, how old are you? Try not to dwell on the fac that your around boys. Just try and have a fun time and not care so much as to what is actually happening. Act like they are your cousins--you wouldnt blush around your cousins. I don't really know what to say because this never happened to me. Good luck though!! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!! (link)
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I say, don't tell you recent boyfriend. Wait untill you know for a fact if you are or if your not, if you think if you told him that he wopuld get scared off. Seeing your only 15 your period might not be on its regular cycle. Or maybe you have become more active. If your stressing over this too then that could cause your period to come late. I agree with your guidance counselor though if you don't have it by thursday which is today then you should try a pregnancy test yourself. Those will work if its this late. If that coems out positive tell your mother. If it doesn't come out positive give it a few more days then tell your mother. Hope I helped! I just don't want you to get introuble for having sex at 15.
*Laci
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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone (link)
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You could always start a good convo by asking him how his day went, if he did anything fun, if hes all ready to go back to school. You could always talk about what he wants to be when he gets older or you could just talk about movies youve seen. Just keep it simple those usually end up in the greatest convos. Hope I helped! If you need anythign else I'll be glad to help!
*Laci
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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
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I saw you should tell him. But that just might be me. These would be my reasons for telling him if I was in your situation:
-He might not know how you feel for him
-You don't want to you the rest of your life knowing that if you told him how you felt it might of changed his mind marrying his girlfriend.
-You will feel a whole lot better knowing that its not on your chest.
-You can see what he says. If he says he doesn't have those feelings then you can just live by the mistake you made and try to move on.
-Its better to get feelings situated so friendships can build.
There are some other good reasons, if you think about it. I say tell him. Hope I helped! If you need anything else I'll be glad to help you!
*Laci
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i think i'm gonna tell this guy i like him tomorrow. the problem with that was...yesterday i thought i was going to do it today...but i didn't. i think it's because 1) i have no idea how to put it into words that don't creep him out a bit, and 2) i open my mouth to do it, just..improvise...and the words melt away and i'm left with air...
so my question is this....how and when should i do it? i see him at lunch all the time, and he rides my bus, if that helps any. (link)
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Don't do it on a bus. Dpending on his reacton theres no way you can get away from him. Also you might not want people to over hear it or anything. You could tell him at lunch like you could pull him aside. Or when I was younger I would write people notes. So you could always try doing it in a note. Or to save yourself from embarassment you could just ask him for his screenname and start talking to him online and then be like I like you or whateva you plan on saying. I suggest you just say "hey, you know what, i kinda like you" I say do it online. Hope I helped! Let me know if you need anything else!
*Laci
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do you think that it is weird that a 24 year old guy is dating a 16 yr old girl? i do but i need other opinions, the girl is my best friend and i dont like it. I need help on how i can be more open about the situation. please help!!! (link)
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I think its not weird. I know a lot of people that do that I just cant understand why guys have to go so low as to find someone who isnt legal to drink, buy cigs, buy scratch tickets, or DRIVE. Also guys that are that much older are more experienced with sexual, emotional, physical things. To tell you the honest truth I'm not into that much of an age difference. If it really bothers you, you could always talk to your friend about it. Try to show her that hes so much older and hes more experienced and can pressure her into doing things without her even knowing shes being pressured. Hope I helped! If you need anything else let me know!
*Laci
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I live in Orlando, Fl., dose anyone know a good place to get your hair dyed (unnatural colors ex. blue, purple, etc.) or any good hair dye products that can be found in stores. (link)
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Well up here in Mass and NH we have KMarts and Walmarts. I'm nto sure if you have them down there. But they ahve this stuff that highlights your hair funky colors like pink and green. Those are the only colors I saw I wasnt looking too much at it it just poped into my view. So if they had it for highlights which is less common then dying your whole head of hair they must have it. I know if you have a CVS or Brooks or any kind of pharmacy/drug store they have gel thats colored. If you look they probably have all over hair color. Hope I helped! If you don't have these stores let me know and I'll think of some other places you probably have. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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is it alright to wear a tampon during cheer practice?...are tampons supposed to stick out like 2 centimeters?...and well i was @ cheer practice, and we were doin jumping jacks..and after wards..i didnt fil it in me any more!..and i found out that i was juss layin in my panties!..can u help?! (link)
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Hmm, that never happened to me before, and I cheered for 4 years in highschool. Tampons are not suppose to stick out at all. I don't think you had it in correctly. Are you putting the applicator all the way in you up till the finger grip spot? Then are you keeping it in and pushing the other tubing up? If so I don't know why yours sticks out 2 centimeters. It could of been filled up with blood already and it slid out because it was full. I'm not quiet so sure. Maybe you should try it again and make sure its not sticking out at all. Hope I helped! If you need anything else let me know!
*Laci
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Okay i was just wondering....does it hurt to get your tounge belly-button or nose peirced? and is there like any way you could do it yourself without damagin anything?? and then also..if your like drunk or high or somethin....would it still hurt? and one last thing....does anyone know of any good sites thatll give you tips on how to do it yourself or information on it?? Thnkx alot!! (link)
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I ahve my tongue pierced. I'm 18 and it didn't hurt at all. Actually, I didn't think it happened at first. The lady had me rinse my mouth out with mouthwash then she had me stick out my tongue and made a mark on it. The enxt thing I knew my heart was beating so fast and I was so nervous. I was expecting this pain to be unbearable. (When I bit my tongue I think it hurts really bad) and the lady told me to take deep breaths and on my third one she was going to pierce my tongue. So she did and it went through and I could feel it going through but I didn't think it was actually pierced because it was painless. I'm not sure if you would be able to do it yourself because they pierce it on an angle from the top to the bottom and from one side to the other. Theres major veins in your tongue that could cause you to bleed to death it hit. Or if pressure gets put on then it could cause them to collapse. I say if you want your tongue pierced go to a professional. Hope I helped!
*Laci
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how do i loosen up around guys..i can never be myself..n im always nervous around them unless im drunk then im very flirtatious n touchy! (link)
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I'm not quiet so sure. I don't knwo you personally so its kind of hard to tell. Just be yourself. I had the same problem but it was only with guys that I liked. Then once like I kissed him drunk I wouldnt be nervous or scared to kiss him sober. You just def. have to be yourself and dont be afraid or shy of who you are. Most guys like it when you are outgoing and approach them. Hope I helped! Let me know if there is anything else I can help you with!
*Laci
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hi im a 16 yr old girl from florida..theres this guy that i like..i dont know if he likes me back...but hes really nice to me..he compliments me and stuff...now the problem is that a lot of girls like him..and hes always surrounded by girls..bc hes a very talkative outgoing guy! hes totally my type..and ive been waiting for a while for a guy like this to come a long..hes smart funny outgoing athletic hot etc etc! i dont know what to do...im friends with some of his friends..should i play hard to get..or what?? i dont wanan drive him away from me...hes used to girls (link)
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That happened to me with my boyfriend. He was the most popular kid at his school and won class clown and most school spirit when he graduated. Every girl in his school wanted to go out with him but he never gave any of them to chance to. This might be the case with your guy. If your not sure if he likes you, just ask him if he wants to hang out. If he says yes which chances are that he does than just start to get to know him better and let him get a chance to know you one on one. There is also a chance that he is complimenting you and is nice to you because hes nice to everyone. You just have to hang out with him and then from there see where it goes. Let me kno what happens after you guys hang out and I will be able to help you out some more ok? Hope this has helped you so far
*Laci
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex? (link)
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I had sex when I was 15 but that doesn;t mean everyone should. You should do it when you feel liek you are ready to and you are comfortable with your partner
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My bf and i have been together for about 7 months
and weve talked about sex he told me that his penis is small i told him that it did'nt matter
but he is quite insecure about it im not sure what to do i don't want to amke him feel bad
what should i do? (link)
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Well, first off, haven't you seen it already? If you haven't given him a handjob or head yet don't have sex with him. It all adds up to it. It doesn't really matter too much if he has a small penis or not if you love him. If you love him its just something your going to have to accept. If you haven't seen it yet it might not actually be too little he might just think it is. Talk to him about it though telling him it doesn't matter the size. Hope I helpled!
If you need anything else just drop me one!
*Laci
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