I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
WiseMan answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:23 am: Well u are probably a very pretty young women, so do stuff with ur make up to help, and just dont listen to the boys that tease u, just be urself, if no one likes u for who u are, then they arent really good friends. they should accept u for u. [ WiseMan's advice column | Ask WiseMan A Question ]
SeXyLaCi_XoX answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:31 am: My boyfriend is a redhead and he has pale ksin and freckles. Not everyone is attracted to redheads like not everyone is attracted to blondes or brunettes. I personally think redheads are cute! But don't get down on yourself because you havent had a boyfriend sooner than later you will find an amazing boy that you will be with. Untill then just live it up with your friends. Your turn will come to have a boyfriend. Hope I helped!
xOBaByPiNk06Ox answered Friday August 20 2004, 9:16 pm: 13 year old boys are CRAZY haha! You dont need em! They will learn in time to appreciate you! Also you seem to not have very high of self-esteem! You need to realize ur own special look! If you were able to be happy with how you look, it would make you stand out! I think that having red hair and freckles is great! Its what makes your look YOURS! So you should try to be happy with it!!! [ xOBaByPiNk06Ox's advice column | Ask xOBaByPiNk06Ox A Question ]
xocutiepiesxo answered Friday August 20 2004, 4:57 pm: hunni..the right guy will come along and he will love you for you! you sound pretti for a girl..and don't let anyone bring you down! its the inside that counts! not the outterside! =)
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actres00 answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:49 pm: hey dont worry about it guys are stupid and just want a typical gurl what i mean is....people just look at how beautiful sum1 is i bet ur smart and nice and thoughtful... thats what a guy would look for... just make ur self stand out and make sure people dont notice ur frekles but ur beauty inside!!! [ actres00's advice column | Ask actres00 A Question ]
Alwaysgonnaloveyou answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:40 pm: I was the same way you were.. I have red hair freckles and a pale complection to.. But your time will come around.. don't worry about it.. You'll find a good man.. It happened with me.. guys would stay away from me because i didn't look like the other girls.. but they'll come around... I promise [ Alwaysgonnaloveyou's advice column | Ask Alwaysgonnaloveyou A Question ]
IronyHelps answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:25 pm: Every boy you've ever met doesn't like you? I must admit, were that true, it would be one bad record. I doubt it's true. Somebody probably likes you, but they aren't telling you. People put too much stock in having a girlfriend/boyfriend. It's an extra, not a requirment for life. [ IronyHelps's advice column | Ask IronyHelps A Question ]
oyafrankierocks answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:21 pm: I DON"T HAV A BF and I'm going into 8th grade. I've had bf's but they all were jerks. Boys at this age jsut want to use u sumhow. THey're pretty immature. Just don't worry about it. Soon enough a boy will come alng who loves u 4 u and thinks ur the most beautiful person in the world. If ur statisfied with ur self thaTs all that matters. and look at it this way: b/c u dont hav a bf ur unique and rnt bein a follower!!! [ oyafrankierocks's advice column | Ask oyafrankierocks A Question ]
xFallenAngelx answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:02 pm: I have one thing to say:
13 year old guys are LOSERS, ASSHOLES, and need to GROW UP. I'm 14, and a girl, and all my guy friends are 15 or 16 or 17, because I personally can't stand guys my own age. So just get to know a few guys, be yourself, and if they like you for who you are, that's great! if not, then that's too bad, but you'll find a better guy, so don't worry. [ xFallenAngelx's advice column | Ask xFallenAngelx A Question ]
xo-ash-ox answered Friday August 20 2004, 2:02 pm: hey hun...hang in there! Trust me, pretty soon..you'll get boys to like you. Just one thing though...dont change who you are for a boy. ok? if a boy doesnt like you for who you are, then hes not the right one any how. just wear some bright colors to bring out your skin. and if you wear makeup make sure you wear eyeliner and mascara and blush and lip gloss or shine. if you dont wear makeup then its up to you if you want to start wearing some or not. and if you dont either wear it/start wearing it make sure you wash your face w/ cleansing clothes so that the makeup doesnt clog your pours. i hope i helped!
your truely,
xo-ash-ox [ xo-ash-ox's advice column | Ask xo-ash-ox A Question ]
BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Friday August 20 2004, 1:52 pm: well yooh prolly need to let people get to kno yooh like nd try make up .. cause see wen i waws younger wen i first started warin make up before it i hadnt had many boifriends nd then i strated wearin make up nd it gave me confidence nd well ig ot more .. so yooh also need confidence nd it may seem dumb but wen i went to a new skool goin to 8 toowell i decided to have confideence nd i started wearin make up nd i got asked out alot .. so js ty make up nd confidence .. make up gave me the confidence .. so mayb if yooh try it it will also give yooh the confidence .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me
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StRwBeRrYShOrTy answered Friday August 20 2004, 1:44 pm: well girly, you just need 2 let people get 2 no you. looks aren't evrythign and if thats all that matters 2 sum peopel then thye arent relie worth getin 2 no now are they. but if you are unhappy mayb go get a makeover, its always fun 2 go 2 a spa or have yuor hair and makle up done. get a new look, mayb get your nails done feel good about yourself! dont let the opinions of others waver your self confidence. you'll meet tha special guy dont worry!-plz rate-hope i helped =) [ StRwBeRrYShOrTy's advice column | Ask StRwBeRrYShOrTy A Question ]
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