I'm 14 and I hate everything in my life.. I have tons of problems but i learn how to solve them myself.. I'm really good at giving advice so if you have anything that needs to be answered and you don't think anyone else could figure it out. just ask me.. i'll find a way to answer it!
E-mail: butterfly72990@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: new york
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: butterflykissz40
Member Since: August 17, 2004
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!) (link)
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This happened to me to.. i'm actually going through it right now for the second time.. I tried saying stuff to my friend and we started fighting.. but hey you friend might be different.. I say go with the feeling if your afraid that he's being to her then i'd definatly say something
Hope I helped
*~jamie~*
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All right, so, I'm 14/f, and this is basically about my guy friend, Jarrod. He really likes one of my best friends, Cora. He has liked her a really long time, and I was the first person he told after almost a year of liking her. He knows he can trust me not to tell anyone because I am an excellent secret-keeper, and so far I have told no one.
Although I did tell him that he should just tell her. Because I had to do that with this guy I liked, and everything turned out fine. But Jarrod and I both know that Cora doesn't really like him that way, although she really cherishes their friendship, I can tell. I told him that if he didn't do it by the end of this school year, I would tell her. (It's also sort of hard to keep this kind of thing from a best friend of yours for this long, even if Jarrod is a good friend too.)
And now, almost completely out of the blue, Jarrod told me that he's not sure why he told me in the first place, that there are other people he should have told before me, and that he doesn't want me privy to his love life anymore, and that I can't, under ANY circumstances, tell Cora. He also said that there is a personal reason that he doesn't want to tell Cora, and that he could not and WOULD not tell me.
What do I do? Why has Jarrod all of a sudden turned on me? Should I tell Cora and risk Jarrod's trust? HELP!!
Sorry about the long question...I rate! (link)
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I don't know if I'll be much of help in answering this question.. but if this would have happened to me.. I'd look at who I've known for the longest time and who has helped me through stuff.. and has told me stuff that was about me..but was supposed to be a secret... You might have to risk jarrod's trust.. but it could all work out for jarrod.. Cora could realize that she does like him.. Hope i helped.. If ya need anything else hit me up..
*~jamie~*
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What's ways to get people back - like TP them and stuff like that i need answers FAST =O nothing to bad tho-- just stuff to do to their yard or house or something any ideas??X3 the kers (link)
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um..TPing and eggging houses are classics.. But if you want something new and original..I'd spray paint there door and there yard different colors.. But that could get you in trouble... If you don't want any trouble just to leave your mark on the Spray paint there yard and everything around it... but don't touch the house or the vehicals.. (thats vandilism).. hehe.. hope i helped... I don't really think I did..but if you need anything else just hit me up!
*~Jamie~*
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if youre in the same situation as i am.. then i believe that you must love your guy as much as i love mine. and if it means to put yourself on the line and wait, then do it. i honestly believe that my guy isnt with or messing around with any other girls and if you honestly believe that about your guy as well, then isnt it worth to wait? when your in love, youre going to not only experience the good, but also the bad. unfortunately, it seems like we must go through the bad before we get to experiece the true "good." keep your head up. dont sit around the house for him, go out and have fun as well. if its meant to be itll happen, just be patient. as i will.
-soljette (link)
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sorry it took me so long to send back..but yeah my man is worth waiting for. and it does seem that were in the same situation.. I will go out and have fun..now that someone has told me i could.. Thanks.. Good luck with your man.. Thanks again
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i was wonderin if u go to algonquin, and if u did, if u know any by Alex N. (link)
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um.. No.. I don't go to algonquin.. Sorry that it took so long for me to answer
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The year I decided to try out for volleyball. Before the tryouts, we had 3 days of practice to get us ready. The 3 practice days are over, and they were pretty rigorous. After every practice, my wrists and legs would hurt for hours. It hurts to walk. Before practice, we run a few laps around the track and run up stairs to warm up. Tryouts are on Tuesday. Is there anything I can do to stop the pain from coming after practice? Or is it just because I'm not used to working out this hard and I'll get used to it after a while? (link)
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I no how you feel.. I felt like that for the frist few weeks of volleyball.. Your arms will hurt and you might get bruising.. I no it sucks.. Your legs prolly hurt because of all the running.. If you want it to hurt less. take advil.. the liquid gels work really quick and make the pain less.. It will eventually stop hurting.. You'll get use to running and being hit with a ball.. Hope I helped.. If you need to no anything else about volleyball Hit me up..
*~Jamie~*
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i love my boyfriend.. or ex boyfriend i should say, very much. so as of right now, i am waiting for him and i have been for about 3 months or so now. i know its unfair to me, but he has told me numerous times that he loves me and that eventually he would get back with me. we were together for a pretty long time and he decided to end things because he wanted to go out and have fun.. and also bc i moved, although, not a very long distance at all. we still spend time with each other now and then and we still keep in touch.. and he assures me that he isnt seeing any other females. but well, i was wondering, if he loves me like he says he does, then why is it that hes not with me now? (link)
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If you find a answer for that! TELL ME! cause i'm in that same situation!
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ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!! (link)
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I no this is gonna sound mean and everything but... You might have to leave "Alex"... your friends will always be there for you.. a boyfriend won't.. Always choose chicks over dicks.. thats my motto... Hope I helped...
*~Jamie~*
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hi this is qtpie101 again and i just wanted to thank you and tell you i need more help because i forgot to say i have broken up with him 7 times (link)
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Why did you break up with your ex 7 times?.. If you LOVE your ex give him another try.. Just one more.. If it doesn't work out it wasn't met to be..You'll prolly alawys have feelings for him..but you might just have to let him go... If it doesn't work out.. just let him go and try to forget about him.. It'll be hard.. but you'll get through it! I PROMISE! if you ever need anymore help jsut hit me up..
*~jamie~*
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I'm 13 years old and female, and almost everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend / girlfriend or at least someone who likes them. Not me! I'm going into 8th grade, I have freckles and pale skin and I'm a redhead. I have friends, but boys like to tease me or they avoid me. help?
< I r a t e > (link)
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I was the same way you were.. I have red hair freckles and a pale complection to.. But your time will come around.. don't worry about it.. You'll find a good man.. It happened with me.. guys would stay away from me because i didn't look like the other girls.. but they'll come around... I promise
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my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101 (link)
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Ok.. I'm gonna give you the advice everyone else has given me.. I was kinda in the same postition as you..Ask yourself these questions first.. Why did you break up in the first place? If it was something small give him another chance.. If it was something big like him cheatin on you.. don't give him another chance.. once a cheater always a cheater! Do you love your ex? If it was something small that you broke up about and you still love him.. Do it give him another chance.. Looks shouldn't mean anything.. hope i helped..
*~jamie~*
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Okay i was just wondering....does it hurt to get your tounge belly-button or nose peirced? and is there like any way you could do it yourself without damagin anything?? and then also..if your like drunk or high or somethin....would it still hurt? and one last thing....does anyone know of any good sites thatll give you tips on how to do it yourself or information on it?? Thnkx alot!! (link)
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It depends on the person.. It could hurt really bad or not at all.. just depends on your pain tolerance.. There are home piercing kits you can get online they include everything that you wuold need for the piercing.. exactly what they use at the piercing shop.. Do not get drunk or stoned if you decide to get a home piercing kit.. But if it were me i'd want a professional to do it! make sure it's done right and done safe! hope it helped!
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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
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I Haven't had any children or anything but I always have names ready...Some are heard alot others aren't
Girl-Laden,Naida,Raighlyn,
I don't have any boy names...
If you want original..Do what Gwenith Paltrow did.. Name you child after a fruit.. It's original and Nobody else would have the name
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what are some things u can say when ur talkin to ur crush and u wana keep the conversation going but he stopped talkin n theres nothing to say....plz help (link)
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Ask him something about his family or about what kind of sports he likes.. You can always get a answer if its about sports..It may be boring but hey.. your talking and you get to learn alot more about him... Hope it helps
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