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My friends boyfriend
My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!)
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you guys might all not like him.. but she obviously REALLY cares for him.. let her be.. and just ignore the dude.. don't make her give away someone she really cares for.. it's not right.. Don't bother love.. that's a no no.. Let them be!
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Haha, I understand what you mean more than you know. My best girlfriend, Ashley, has been dating a guy named Kevin. Let me tell you about Kevin. He's a fucking loser. He is 18, still in high school, smokes, and is in danger of being fired from his job because he doesn't really do anything. (He works at a supermarket.) He's one of those guys who looks stoned all the time. (And he very well may be.) He seems to want nothing but sex, and is also more in love with his car than he is with her. And Ashley, like an idiot, tries to tell our little circle of friends the good things about him and almost always draws a blank. Me and her friends all agree we hate this guy. She'll say something about them having a fight, and me and one of her friends will look at each other knowingly and nod our heads.
None of us have sat down and told her that her boyfriend sucks, so she's still going out with him. We probably should. You probably should too. Ashely is a smart girl, but she is blinded by what she thinks is love. If it were anyone else she would agree. So yes, tell her. All of you get together, and tell her.
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if she likes him...then let her like him...its not your decsion!
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i would tell her about this and wut u think about this guy
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open a can of whoopass on him. tell him hes a mean inconsiderate jerk and that if he doesnt stop, you'll make it to where he can never have children.
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u should deffinetly say something to her. i mean, if u let her find out on her own then she might get mad at u for not telling her. i think jsut flat out tell her and she can do what she wants after that. she needs to understand that u guys should have, some what of a say in who she dates. lol. well jsut talk to her and if she doesnt listen then theres nothing left to do but wait and see how things work out!~ i hope i helped~
*::shannon::*
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try talking to her and let her no how he is wen she isnt around...and see what she seys...if she doesnt rele care then its best to let her find out for herself! good luck! i hoped i helped!
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Dont ever break someone up unless the person agrees with it first. That would destroy your friendship cuz you would be at fault in her eyes. She likes him apparantly otherwise she would break up with him. If and when she sees that hes a bad person she will do the right thing but for now be there to support her.
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Look. Sorry to be rude but if they have been dating for a year, then she obviously likes him. I know what it's like to have all your friends hate your boyfriend and it's really not nice. Let your friend date the guy, if he turns out to be a jerk then be there to comfort her. Don't break them up.
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if they've been dating for over a year then she obviously likes him for something and ur not dating him so i dont think she'll dump him when u tell her he's mean and stuff.
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They have been dating for about a year so that means she sees something in him you and your friends dont.If he is really that bad why dont you try to prove that to her without like really pointing it out to her and give her time cause she might be confused.hope i helped good luck!
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Tell her but if she doesn't listen then leave her hints. If she doesn't get them then just leave her alone
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You can tell her how you feel, but don't try to change her opinion of him. If she's been dating him this long she obviously sees something in him that no one else does, and you shouldn't wreck that. But not telling her could be bad also, because she might not notice that he's mean to others. There's a fine line between expressing your opinion and shoving your opinion down someone's throat. Know the difference.
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if it is bothering you u should let your friend know you don't appericate her boyfriend treatin you and others like that and it's not right anyway but if she doesn't understand then it prolly won't phase her because they have been goin for a year but u should still let he rknow how u are feeling hope i helped ya
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i think you should just ignore this boy. But if you friend that is dating him brings him around, then i think you and your friend should make peace with this boy, bc if your friend likes this boy and there are going out, then i think you and your friends should talk to him and try to at least be friends.
good luck
**~~signed, brunette cutie~~**
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get over it. yu choose who she dates. mind ur own business!
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Well, do not whatever you do break them up. Obviously she sees something in him that yall don't. If she wasn't happy and didn't like him then she wouldn't be with him. Don't be mean to her about it just try to be there for her no matter what, even if you can't stand him, because if you don't then you truly aren't her best friend or just flat out her friend. That happened to me last year with my best friend and she figured it out on her own. No matter what you say to her you can't change her mind. She will have to make her own mistakes to learn from them. -Kayla
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well hun wen it gets 2 b a year u got 2 speak up
but then again u might not want 2 cauz she might get mad and not want u as a bff
fallen angel
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This happened to me to.. i'm actually going through it right now for the second time.. I tried saying stuff to my friend and we started fighting.. but hey you friend might be different.. I say go with the feeling if your afraid that he's being to her then i'd definatly say something
Hope I helped
*~jamie~*
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I've been in that position to and I made a mistake that almost cost me my entire friendship. While being a concerned friend is good, sometimes it can make your friend feel like you are getting into her business. Even if you know this guy is wrong for her, do not pressure her about it. Let her keep dating him unless things get very bad. Know when the time is right.
xOx Emmz
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Ummm...does she seem unhappy with her boyfriend? If your answer is no, then back the hell off of her. Because you and your friends don't have to do anything with him, or talk to him or kiss him or anything. It's not your choice, it's hers. Maybe she sees something different that you don't. Sorry to be blunt...but just because ya'll don't like him doesn't mean she can't.
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