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I like this guy so much and i dont even think he knows i exist i mean like i talk to him all the time but all he ever tells me is about his girl problems and how they all piss him in off when i know deep inside me we are meant for eachother but i dont know what to do...HELP!


I think you should tell him how you feel and stop telling you about his girl problems. Just tell him how you feel about him. Who knows, maybe you 2 will be together? i would tell him and see if he feels the same way.

good luck!
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i tried out for a PLAY AND I GOT A BAD PART WITH LIKE 1 WORD AND MY FRIEND GOT THE BEST PART AND SHES BRAGGING ABOUT IT WHAT DO I DO?

I think you should tell her friend to stop and tell her how you feel. Just say:"i really dont like you always bragging about having the best part in the play, it really makes me feel bad and its annoying me" something like that.

good luck!
~~good luck in the play too~~
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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...

Sincerely,
Loved friend

I think you should talk to your friend \. Just tell her something like this "look, i really like jeff but i know you used to like him but then you stopped so now he likes me and i kinda like him but i really want to stay friends with you" something like that. Just tell her how you feel. and tell her how you feel about Jeff. If you just tell her the truth im sure she will understand.
good luck!!
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ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
~please help!~

I think you should dump your boyfriend. If he doesn`t talk to you then whats the point of having him in your life? (but which one do you like more?) But if it was ME in this then i would dump the boyfriend.
good luck!!
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I never really wear make-up, because I don't think it looks good on me at all. Does anyone know of any colors I should be using or colors that would look good on me? I have black hair and brown eyes, and I have very white skin.

I think you should use a skin tone tan. Tan eyeshadows are really in. (tan is my favorite kind). you can get some really good eyeshadoe at a store called 5below (i dont know if you ever heard of that store but if has a lot of really good eyeshadow) (and EVERYTHING in the store is 1-5 dollars)
good luck!
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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?

I would not go out with him if i never met him or saw him b4. You dont know who this guy is? if you dont i would not go out with him.
good luck!!
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Well what happened is my and my friends are great together there is only 3 of us and we are really close, but for a while now my friend has been going on about this girl she met at a club and they have become really good friends and she and her have become best friends i mean that me and my other friend have been her friend longer we have known each other since we was little and it seems like this other girl sarah it toltally taking her away from us help us please elly and lisa will rate

I think you should talk to your friend. Tell her you feel like you are loosing her as a friend. And you want her to come back to your guys. Tell her that you miss her. And tell her you dont like her friend that she is talking about. And that she is talking about her too much.
good luck!
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Ok, so i am not cool with my friend going out with this girl i know. they are so not meant for each other. and my other friends like this guy too. I just don't understand why he has to be such a sweetie. it's so complicated! what am i supposed to do?

Talk to him. And talk to yuor other friend who likes him too. Just tell your guy friend how you feel. Just be like "i dont think you and your girlfriend are ment 4 each other. I just dont want you to get hurt" (if thats what you think).
good luck!!
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Im never out on weekends and i never haave anything to do. My sister and mom always go out with friends and everyone from school already has plans.

I think you should start making new friends. Maybe other people from school, or some1 in an activity you like to do, or if there are sports you play maybe a team mate.
good luck!!
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My best friend always copies my looks! Like if i tell her ive found a certain store that i like to go to, she'll just one day start shopping there and tell all our other friends she found it first! And its not just like materials..she said that she liked matt -our crush- way before i did. But when i told her i liked him last year she said oh i think hes kind of ugly. I mean is she really my friend?? shes so annoying ..what do i do? plz help!!

If a friend always wantsa to come before you and lie to her other friends then she doesn`t really seem like a 'good' friend. You can try talking to her. just say "stop copying me, stop acting like me and stop lieing to your friends about you always doin stuff that i did first. Its really anmoying me so stop it" or something like that. Just tell her how you feel.
good luck!!
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I am in middle school right now, and I don't have many friends. Like I'm not shy or anything, but I don't hang out with a lot of people. Do you think when I go to highschool (next year) I will have more friends? Or is it just me?

Of course you will make new friends. You can probably make new friends this year. Just talk to people and hang out with people. Maybe you can call someone from your school and ask them if they want to hang out.
good luck!!
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well i have two best friends ((Rachel and Rissa)).. well heres some back ground.. rachel hates rissa but rissa doesnt hate rachel.. but rachel stayed over last night and i wrote a letter to my mom saying that riss was comming over soo she was like.. okay ill have rachel go home!! soo then rachel gave me the silent treatment cuz she new that something was up!!! soo i couldnt tell her cuz i didnt know if rissa was even comming over ((we had planned her coming over for a while)) so then we got back to my house and rachel says I WANT TO GO HOME. soo she goes home and then all of a sudden i get a text message saying WE CANT BE FRIENDS AND MORE and i was like why and she never responded.. well i no she will get over it and everything but when shes mad.. she tells everything i told her.. and she has alot on me like stuff im not going to get into.. but its really bad if she tells the people which i think she will and i dont know what to do about this because i think this could be a lonnnnnng fight and she will tell people everything and i have a few things on her but she will just deny it.. i need help!!!!! HELP ME PLEASEE

Ask her why you dont want to be friends. I would do it on the phone or face to face. Be like "whats up with you not wanting to be friends with me anymore?..what did i do?.i dont know what i did and if i dont know what i did then i can fix it or say sorry, so please, whats going on?" or something like that.
good luck!!
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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again?

Start to flirt with him. Compliment him on stuff. Maybe his hair, his shirt, his colone. something like that. and when he flirts back just keep flirting with him.
good luck!!
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well, see i used to have these two really good friends and I had so much fun around them. then things got shaky and they started hanging around these really bad guys that always wanted us to do stuff for them , and I couldnt take it. turns out, their realtionships at home got worse and they started fighting with their moms and such. but i still remember all the fun times we had. should i let them back in?

Only be friends with them again if you know that they are the right friends for you. If they treat people badly and do bad stuff for people then i would not be friends with them. If they are going to be doin bad stuff i would stay away from them.
good luck!!
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hey..

I'm a 15 year old girl and I have this big crush on my big brother's best friend.....this guy liked me last year but gave up on me because I didn't want to be more then friends....but since we havent bin talking all that much I'v realised that I really like him alot but I dont think he wants me because I didn't want him last year....how would I go about trying to get him?
thx in advance!

Start flirting with him. Ask him how his day is going. Compliement him on something. Maybe like "hey nice shirt, i really like it" or "your hair looks really awsome today" something like that. Make him know that u like him.
good luck!!!
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A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?

Confront her. Just say to hear "listen, i dont want to start a fight with you but im really tired of you being in my and other peoples buisness. its really annoying me so please stop" something like that. Make sure she understands that you dont want her to be in your buisness too. and tell her not to talk behind peoples backs. And if she ever does it to you just be like thats it im not here to play you little games so leave me alone or something like that.
good luck!!
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I work at a restaurant and there are some really nice guys there that are about 20-25 years old. a lot of them have been kinda flirtin with me and i told my mom! my mom said that i'm not dating them! should i obey or not? i'm 17 and I'm a female and she said i should only date 17, 18, or 19 no men over 20!

I think you should listen to your mom. There will be plenty of time for 20 year old guys when your a little older.
good luck!
~~sry its so short!.lol~~
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hey i have a bat mitzvah coming up and i dont know how to do my hair. My hair dresser is going to do it for me, but she wants me to think of some styles i like. i was wondering if anyone could help me give me some ideas or pictures, it would be a big help! i dont want anything dramatic. i have straight thin brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanx!

You can look in hair magazines. Sometimes when i get my hair cut, i just look through M magazines (thats the magazine with all the celeberties) and look at the girl celeberty hair styles that i like.
good luck!!
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My friend wrote:

how's everyone? been not so pleased for the past few days thinking about my hip surgery. and watching ballet has been really upsetting to me, so today i had to watch a rehearsal for the ballet carmen that i was supposed to do, so that made me sad in the first place and then i had to teach the replacing me the role. and then this said to me "i can't believe you ruined your body" like i meant to. i had to leave the room before i started crying. i'm just afraid that when they do the surgery they'll look at my hip joint and tell me that it's so affected by the arthritis that i won't be able to pursue ballet anymore.ah well, must think positively

what can i do for her to make her feel better?! any suggestions??

Maybe you you can rent one of her fav. movies and you two can watch it together. Or maybe you can do her nails, hair and make-up just for fun.stuff like that.
good luck!
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Has anyone ever been in a depressed mood for no reason?

Some of my friends are in a depressed mood alot. What they do is come to their other friends and talk about all their inside jokes and funny stuff like that and they forget about being depressed. And i try to help them as much as i can.
good luck!!
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