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friend trouble...
A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?
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Confront her, but just not now. Maybe next time she gets into peoples buiness, you could confront her. Just tell her that you don't like it. You don't get into her buiness so she shouldn't get it to others buiness. Just say everything you want to say to her, don't hold back anything.
♥ Krissy
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this is life. you can choose to go with it or try and change it. the sad truth is, it will never change. so why dont you just beat her up, or get over it. either way, you come out on top.
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Confront her. Just say to hear "listen, i dont want to start a fight with you but im really tired of you being in my and other peoples buisness. its really annoying me so please stop" something like that. Make sure she understands that you dont want her to be in your buisness too. and tell her not to talk behind peoples backs. And if she ever does it to you just be like thats it im not here to play you little games so leave me alone or something like that.
good luck!!
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You should confront her. like you said, don't start an argument. just get your point across and tell her how you feel because she is causing a lot of trouble for other people. she is basically messy and should stick to her own life.
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You could try to confront her, but you might just lose a friend and she most likely won't change. No matter how you put it, she'll get mad. You don't have to be tight with her, there's a girl like that on my tennis team and I just think it's funny, but at the same time she doesn't talk about me. My advice, I wouldn't confront her. But might not want to be as close as you were, (i wasn't sure if by distant you ment awayness or how close you are).
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