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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
Sincerely,
Loved friend
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I think you should talk to your friend . Just tell her something like this "look, i really like jeff but i know you used to like him but then you stopped so now he likes me and i kinda like him but i really want to stay friends with you" something like that. Just tell her how you feel. and tell her how you feel about Jeff. If you just tell her the truth im sure she will understand.
good luck!!
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yea b/c she had her chance xO ali
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of course a friendship is important. but i was in the same type of situation. except i kissed the guy when my friend was madly head over heals in love with him.. well. me and my friend decided a guy wasnt worth ending our friendship over. you just need to think about who is more important. or hey try getting the best of both worlds. try explaining that you reely like jeff and he likes you too. and that your friend rejected HIM so it wouldnt completely be your fault for falling for him. or better yet. get her blessing to go for it with him. if she is a true fried she will see how much you like him and maybe back off..
xO-sara
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You want to stop and think. Who's more important,your friend or a guy. In my opinion, your friend is more important. It's like anunwritten law of friends. Do not date someone your friend previously dated UNLESS that friend says they don't mind. Then it's okay.
PS I recently went through this with a friend of mine and her ex who had dumped her cuz he had a crush on me. I said no, for the sake of my friend.
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consult your friend and see how she feels baout it and tell her to be completely honest if she says yes but still seems like she feels sort of hesitant then you should probably wait a little bit, if she is very open to you going out with him then go for it, you really should see how she feels though before you commit to anything with jeff. Another thing is, she might just be not into the idea because she just doesn't want him to go out with you because she still wants him as an option and wants what she can't have, when she could hadk it even if she didn't like him..sounds confusing but..yea lol. the same exact thing happened with me and my friend and this guy...hope this helped
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Talk to her about it. Ask her if she's over him
Much love
SiRiSHA
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He's just a boy you might like him today and tomorrow find him annoying.Your bestfriend has been there for you and after if you choose to date this boy and then break up she might still be there I think you shouldn't choose a guy over your bestfriend but if you really like him see how it goes cause your bestfriend will get over it sooner or later. trust me I've been there done that.Well good luck and I hope everything works out.
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That is soo easy, don't go out with the guy, you would be such a fucking bitch to do that. And even if it didn't end your relationship with your friend right away, she will always remember it and hate you for it.
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dont go out with jeff but i guess its okay if you keep a close, business only type friendship. no lovey dovey stuff, especially in front of your friend. because if you and jeff hook up, she might get upset and end the friendship between you and her. then what will you do when you and jeff break up?(cuz its unavoidable) dont lose a best friend over a guy cuz guys will come and go and friends stay longer.
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The best way to find out is by asking.If you can tell shes truly not comfortable with it..dont do it. Things might be kinda "tender" right now..but then again they may not be. For example..i liked someone once and so did my good friend..but the boy liked her. She didnt want to hang with him just because i liked him but that wasnt the case at all.
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Just ask ur friend if it's okay!
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