After the lengthy relationship you've had, he has found a physical sexual bond with you that you both enjoy. He frequents this mode of sexual bond because you enjoy it, and he enjoys making you happy. If you're simply messing around, he might feel more of a connection with you. Most men, when hooking up with women, don't really take the time to focus on the woman's needs. He may just really enjoy spending time and "effort" on you :)

I agree completely with the person who answered before me.
As for if he's still thinking of you, with decent certainty, I can say yes. If it was true love, then it takes much more than 2 months to let go of that person.
As for if he will ever forget you, the answer is no. You will never forget him either. You both shared in an experience that helped you both grow and develop as adults, and for that, neither of you will ever forget the other.

If you're truly in love with him and feel that is in love with you as well, there is no shame in opening up communication with him. Who knows, it might be the spark to get him wanting to be back together with you. You never know until you try!

Your past is just that: your PAST. Make a new future, for you and your son. If your family can't support you in the way that you'd like them to, then they don't deserve to be a part of your efforts. If you feel as if you are stable enough to care for your son, then prove them all wrong. Then, when your family comes around and sees how well you're doing, just remember who was always there for you all along.
There is no better feeling than accomplishing something that people said you couldn't. Do it for yourself and your son :)

The bond between two sisters never dies.
That being said, you need to reconnect with her on the emotional level that you two had when you were younger. You are her little sister; you have a lot more of an impact on her than you may think.
Write her a letter. Let her know exactly how you feel about her, what she did, and how it affected you. Be sure to be specific and outline details so that she is entirely aware of your stance.

There is no way for an advice giver on this site to give you a definite answer as to if she is going to jail or not. There may be circumstances in her case that you are unaware of, thus, we are unaware of.

For now, I would not so much worry about if she is going to jail or not, but rather on rebuilding the bond that you had with her. You may be the only one who can connect with her, like you used to. I will keep you, your sister, and your family in my thoughts. God Bless.

As someone who struggled with a weight problem for 10 years, I can empathize with how you are feeling about the binge eating. I tried fad diets, not eating sweets, not eating anything, and everything in between. I read this one quote that completely changed my way of thinking: "You are not a dog. Do not reward yourself with food." That statement is so true, that it's scary. Instead of binge eating, which may make you happy temporarily, spend your time and money elsewhere. Go shopping, get a manicure, go out with some friends. Do not reward yourself with binge eating. It is a destructive path, that can be remedied by a changed mindset. I wish you the best of luck!

As a former pointe dancer, I must encourage you to work on your leg strength and flexibility. Try taking up yoga or Pilates. There are a bunch of videos on youtube to help learn different techniques using those two methods to gain strength, muscle, and flexibility. Be sure to stretch multiple times a day so that your body becomes accustomed to its new found flexibility. Flexibility is like learning a new language: If you don't use it, you lose it. As for the test, you will need to know your soft ballet positions, turns, and jumps. They are slightly more difficult to do on pointe, because of the extended inches now being add on to your feet. Before my test, I wore my pointe shoes around my house for the whole day prior. My feet were able to adapt comfortably to the shoes, and they felt normal. I wish you the best of luck and please let me know how you make out!

As a student racking up close to half of a million dollars in college tuition, I feel quite qualified to answer this question.
You need to focus on yourself. Don't worry about what your friends are doing. Either they are being financially supported by their families, or they have received a massive amount of financial aid. From the tone of your question, neither are in immediate availability to you.
Your mother is clearly not interested in you going to college, and your father doesn't seem like an active member in your life, so implies your statements. If you go into the work force now, you will develop a sense of financial stability, pride, and work ethic. If some time down the road, you are financially stable enough to put yourself through college, you should do so. It does not sound like now is a feasible time for you to go to college.
Please excuse my assumptions, but it sounds to me as if you have just graduated high school. If I could rewind the clock, I would have, without a doubt, taken time to work before going to college. The financial burden, stress, and demands of a full time college setting are overwhelming.
If you believe that you want to go to college, prove it to yourself. Take some time to explore different jobs and careers to see where the road takes you. The majority of freshmen in college who declare their major right away, will change their academic path by graduation. Who knows, you may end up in a job that will pay for your college. A close friend of mine has stayed in the same job for 20 years because her company has paid for her schooling, IN FULL.
As for applying for jobs when competing against college grads: this is a sticky situation. My best advice to you, is to go in to the interview presenting yourself as worldly, street smart, and efficient enough to get the job done without needing to have read a bunch of text books and take exams. I know that is a lot easier said than done, but the saying holds true: "It's not what you know, it's WHO you know." Try to pull some strings within your community. Even taking a part time job at a local Dunkin Donuts or the equivalent will get your foot in the door. Speak with upper management about your intentions to rise through the ranks.

I wish you the best of luck; please let me know if I can be of further assistance!
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After you take the plan b pill, that disrupts a possible pregnancy. This could most certainly lead to your period being off schedule. You should go talk to your doctor or take a pregnancy test to get certain results. Please let me know how you make out - I will keep you in my prayers.

I've been through something very similar. Is he taking medication for his depression? If so, get the name of it, look up the side effects. Anti depression medication can most certianly lead to a low sex drive.
If he is not on medication, and is seemingly irritable when talking about the situation, try to pick up on his hints. Make him feel comfortable; cook him his favorite dinner, put on music that you know puts him in the mood. Try to get him to make the first move so that he is comfortable and in control. Please feel free to private message me if you would like more ideas. Good luck, I know it's not easy.

The more you concentrate on getting turned on, the less likely it is going to happen. You need to put your mind at ease, and go with the flow. If I were you, one night, I'd get all sexy and feeling good, and initiate sex with him. That way, you'd be in the mood, and you could control the pace. During foreplay, you can try "warming yourself up", to try and get wet. It'll be good for you, because you know what you like, and it's good for him because men love to watch.

You're 17 and you've had sex with 2 men. Sex hasn't gotten old, it's just starting! :)

And about the last guy ruining sex for you; forget him. If you think he ruined sex for you, he probably wasn't that great of a guy. You need to appreciate the connection that you have with this new guy and embrace it. Also, if it helps, remember that everytime you have a good sexual connection with your new man, you're pushing your ex further into the past!

Good luck =]

"Emergency contraception is also known as the morning-after pill, emergency birth control, backup birth control, and by the brand names Plan B One-Step, ella, and Next Choice. Plan B One-Step and Next Choice reduce the risk of pregnancy by 89 percent when started within 72 hours after unprotected intercourse. They continue to reduce the risk of pregnancy up to 120 hours after unprotected intercourse, but they are less effective as time passes."

Text Source: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.asp

Note: I have taken the I-Pill on several occassions, sometimes as late as 70 hours after unprotected sex. I have never gotten pregnant.

A sexual position similar to 69. In 63, the girl is on top, and instead of giving the guy head while he eats her out, she lets him titty fuck her. The outline of her boobs is like the number 3.

Source: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=63

1. Claires pierced my own hair through my piercing. It got instantly infected. I've had 4 other piercings from there get infected. I've had my cartilage pierced from there for 13months now and I clean it ALL the time and it STILL has not healed. Piercing Pagoda is much better.

2. Do not get your Traigus pierced at 13yrs old. It's very suspectible to infection and frankly, I witnessed a girl develop a blood blister on the back of it that swelled to twice the size of her traigus. Cartilage is a much better way to go.

3. Why not wait it out? Only a few months :)

4. There are a ton of horror stories, your safest bet is to get neither piercing. I've witnessed those horror stories for both piercings.

5. I would most definitly get one piercing at a time. You dont know the pain and frankly, it's not easy to sleep with newly pierced ears.

Please be careful!
Good luck :)

At Dunkin Donuts, they can legally hire at 14. BUT they don't like to because you have to be 18yrs old to touch the ovens, knives, and go into the freezer. I am from Rhode Island and verrrry few Dunkins hire at 14.

Alright, I'm a nanny so I can help you out here. You need to connect with the kids on a level that they understand. For example: try to figure out what things they like to pretend. (the sand is lava, they are on a boat, or they are spies.) Once you get children into a "pretending" state, you'll learn a lot about their personalities. That will make it a lot easier to play with them in the future because you will already have a gist of what they like and what makes them comfortable. Children are an EXCELENT judge of character. You need to prove to them that you WANT to be there and that you WANT to be their friend.

Take care and keep me posted!

Alright, I'm 17 and I've been working since I was 14 years old. I've made about $10,000 in the last 3 years. That's a lot for just being a minor. I'll tell you how. I started working at a Dunkin Donuts when I was 14. I convinced the manager to give me a chance regardless of my age. It worked out well. Also, at your age, I STRONGLY reccomment babysitting. Even if you don't like kids, grin and bear it. There is a TON of money to be made in the childcare industry. Have some business cards made (to look official) and take somoe babysitting courses, and you'll be all set.

Good luck and keep me posted!

If you aren't ready for it, then don't do it. I'll tell you why: if you do it, and become repulsed, and let her know ... she might never do it again. She'll become self conscious and that's terrible to have in the bedroom. While you're down there, it may taste or smell a little different than you'd expect, but it'll be worth it. You think head is good now? Wait till you get it from a girl after she has just orgasmed from oral. My advice: Go down on her and make her feel like its the greatest thing in the world. You'll both benefit!

Take care and good luck!

Most kids in college use laptops. Most laptops have a voice recording application installed on them. If you will be using a laptop, send me a message and I will walk you through it!

Vasaline or hand lotion. But be careful, because the substances that actual lubricant is made out of is non-perfumed and is made of certain chemicals that will not cause infection.

Since you seem to have an interest in cosmotology, you should try using that to your advantage. I believe that you were on the right track with accuntuating your eyes. If I were you, I'd wear colored eye shadow to really take attention from the middle of your face, but you'll need to balance it out with a colored lip (light/glossy colors for everyday, and bold for big occassions.)

Just remember, your worries mean almost nothing to others. They are just as worried about how they look. Be proud of your body and all of your features.

If I were you, I'd stay away from surgery. You're VERY young and who knows, your body may grow in a way that makes your nose not so much your "biggest facial feature." Maybe you'll just grow into it.

Best of luck my friend!

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