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i want to give her some oral should i?
hi! i am a male of 20 and i have a very nice girlfriend who is very satisfying in sex and otherwise too. she knows that males love to have oral sex and i d too and so she does ti for me. but i have never done the same for her , if u know what i mean , means i have never given her some tongue action down there. although i want to do it but i am afraid how would it feel like.. i am afraid that it might make me feel a bit gross means i dont know how would it taste like and all. its not anything related to hygein. she has it very clean and nicely shaved up but still i dont know what to do... any helps...
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You could try to buy some flavored lubricant but even that isn't also so tasty. If you love the smell of a fish market or the taste of fish than knock yourself out because that is what most woman smell like. If she showers before you attempt to do oral sex on her than the smell shouldn't be as foul. If you do perform oral sex on her the best tip I can give you is focus on the clit
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If you're worried about taste, try using a flavoured lube. You can get them at drug stores really inexpensively in awesome flavours (like pina colada!). That way you can ease yourself into it. I find I like using it on my guy, too.
What you need to do is communicate with her. Try different things. Ask her to tell you when you do something that she really enjoys.
If she's not comfortable with telling you verbally, she'll be telling you with her body language. If she raises her hips or kind of grinds on you, that generally means good things. The more movement or noise she's making, the better.
Try to stick to one motion for moderate stretches of time. Don't switch between different movements, or she'll be over-stimulated. Keep a nice, slow rhythm and build as she does.
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I was afraid, as a girl, that I would have a weird taste, etc, but actually when I asked my boyfriend at the time what it tastes like he said it tastes like nothing or if it did, slight salt-like taste. Just stimulate her cl*t with your tongue and if you are really comfortable just slide your tongue in and out of her vagina.
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If you aren't ready for it, then don't do it. I'll tell you why: if you do it, and become repulsed, and let her know ... she might never do it again. She'll become self conscious and that's terrible to have in the bedroom. While you're down there, it may taste or smell a little different than you'd expect, but it'll be worth it. You think head is good now? Wait till you get it from a girl after she has just orgasmed from oral. My advice: Go down on her and make her feel like its the greatest thing in the world. You'll both benefit!
Take care and good luck!
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I have never previously giving oral sex to a girl since i'm not a lesbian but my friend Sam has and he says it only fair to give her oral back. Don't worry it'll taste weird first but it does mean she'll love you for it. Anyway oral sex for guys ain't great... i mean we have to taste semen and we deal with it to satisfy you. Persevere and be a soldier! Good luck. Hope this helps :)
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