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so,, im 16 and i have had sex with 8 guys.. does that mean im a hoe?? or that i love sex too much? also. what is the best way to have sex that will feel the greatest?? make me orgasm faster?? (link)
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slutty would be more like it
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So me and my boyfriend had sex for our second time and the first time was just a week before. The first time didn't go to well cause it wouldn't "stay in." The second time was much better but I am so paranoid about getting pregnant now. Even though he didn't even pre cum, he didn't cum, and the condom was fullly on and didn't break, I just always get nervous. Lately I have always wanted to eat. And it's not from nervousness, I just am hungry. i am active with school and volleyball but I wanted know if you guys think I could be pregnant? My periods suppose to start in a week and a half. How long on average does it take for the penis have to be inside the vagina to cause a pregnancy? (link)
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More than likely you feel hungry because you are do to get your period in a week, I exsperienced the same thing it is not uncommon. Pregnancy symtoms vary on different people but because he didn't ejaculate and you used a condom you are probably not pregnant. Also, there is NO time limit for the penis to be in the vagina to become pregnant. It could be in there for a split second and you could become pregnant. I would wait for your period if your period isn't always accurate than wait about a week and a half. If it still doesn't come around than take a pregnancy test as within 2 weeks of sexual contact you should get a more accurate answer.
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Ok so like the other day my boyfriend fingered me and it felt like amazing o.o and like i wanna return the favor but idk exactly what i should do. its not like we have the time or anything to like get lubricates. so like what am i supposed to do i'm really clueless. like i've kinda massaged the bulge in his pants before but i've never gone into his pants. I could really use some advice? i mean wouldnt it hurt it i just put my hand in his pants and started rubbing it without sometype of lubricate? also any tips on what would really feel good to him would be appreciated as well. (link)
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I'm not a guy but I heard giving a handjob without lubricant can be painful. Guys are sensitive down there and the lubricant is what helps make it more pleasurable. I've giving handjobs without lubricant and all I hear or get is a jump or an ow! so I don't recommend it.
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So the only guy I truely have feelings for and I now live about 2 hours away from eachother. His name is jason and I went to go hang out with him about 3 days ago and I was supposed to go to my dads at ten pm to stay the night then I would go home the next morning. Well while we were hanging out we drank a bit and I noticed he was spending alot of time with my homegirl mariah and it pissed me off so I made out with his best freind matt. Then like 2 hourse later me and mariah walked to round table to meet this girl that wanted to hang out with us. Her name is leighanne and she is not allowed to chill with me alone so her mom sat in the parking lot of the pizza place, and me and mariah told her if she wanted 2 drink that we would go get the bottle and bring it back 4 her. So when she gave us the money we bought a bottle of vodka and went back to jasons house (ditching leighanne with her money/bottle). Anyways me mariah jason matt and this guy martino all drank the bottle then we went to a place where there was more drink and we drank there then left. We went to this pond where me and jason had a really long talk about our relationship that turned in to a huge fight. Mariah and Matt left and Jason told me he wanted me to stay the night at his house so we could talk some more. Me not caring about my ten pm curfew went back to his house with him and martino. .......Well I guess earlier Leighanne (the girl we ditched/jacked) snuck out the back of the pizza place with her boyfreind and when her dad caught her it was already 12:30 am. My dad was with her dadd and they were looking for us so when they found her since she was obviously mad at me for ditching her she told my dad where jason lived. So My dad shows up at jasons house and is telling his parents im a runaway which is not even close to true. I was simply 2hours late. THEN I see leighanne walk up with her dad and I was unabled to stop myself from putting my hands on her. I guess I hurt her really bad (thats what my dad says). But besides that Jason is so mad all that drama was brought to his house and he refuses my calls and wont reply my myspace messages, He even told mariah he is pissed at me cuz he thinks i was a runaway. I am unabled to explain to him anything plus he was already upset with me that day for making out with matt and our fight. Since im so far away from him also I cant just go find him and talk to him in person. I feel like it may really be over between us and that hurts especially that it ended this way! Plus I really want to call and make sure leighanne is ok and talk to her. I know I was EXTREMELY messed up to her that day but at one time she was my best friend. That day just pretty much fucked up my life! :::My parents dont trust me to come home on time! I lost A best friend! And may have lost the love of my life. (link)
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guys, how do you feel about a girl who is on the pill and does not want to use a condom. Girls and guys, is that weird for a girl to not want to use a condom? and if you dont mind saying..doesnt it feel better ? (link)
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I'm not a guy either but I think it is smarter to use a condom with the pill. Some guys say it is more pleasurable without a condom but the risk for pregnancy is a lot higher.
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I am 3 1/2 months pregnant and most days except like once in a while i am always aggervated or angry. very irritable is this normal (link)
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Yes it is normal, Most woman who are pregnant exsperience mood swings.
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Whats everyone's view on them. I am always telling my son not to point them at people. His step brother all he does is play with them and point them at my son so of course my son is going to point them back. (link)
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Personally, I would not let my child play with toy guns I know they are fake but I think it gives the child the wrong idea about guns. In a childs mind a toy gun is a toy they go around pretending to shoot something or someone. When a real gun is not a toy and can cost a life.
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Hi Advicenators.
I'm 15 years old. I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months now. We have a slight on and off relationship, but it's been good for a few months now. We are both virgins.
We are in love. There is no doubt about that.
We are 100% open with each other sexually, we have done everything but penetration sex. if something embarrassing happens, it's totally okay, we continue and laugh it off.
Recently, we both really started wanting sex. But I'm TERRIFIED of a condom breaking, and me getting pregnant. Please help me. I'm just so scared. But I really am ready for sex. I can't get on birth control by the way. Any advice (link)
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Okay here it goes...
You SHOULD be terrified, Why? because there is NO such thing as safe sex. I advise you to think long and hard about having sex with your boyfriend. The main question you should think about is "It worth having sex with your boyfriend for a few hours and having risking the chance of having a baby forever? then to continue to be safe and not have sex at all"
Babies are NOT cheap, A bottle of formula to last one week is about 25 dollars.. Then the diapers antoher 20 dollars, crib, high chair, car seat, clothes, play pen, etc. You are looking at A LOT of money.
If you want to be 100% safe than maybe you should stick to fooling around. I hate too tell you but not even the pull out metheod always work as sometimes that is why people end up pregnant also.
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So I was raped like a year and a half ago... well the last thing the guy said was if you tell anybody you dont want to know whats gonna happen. Well I ended up telling someone which got me nowhere. I havent had a nightmare about is for a while now and today I woke up and shaking and crying for a dream that he came and got me. He made me call my mom when I had a gun pointed to my head and tell her I love her and I am sorry we wont be able to see each other anymore. Well my mom called the cops and someone ended up stopping him before he shot me.... right before i woke up he said... I will be back. Im so scared and depressed and I thought I moved on? What does this mean? (link)
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I'm sorry this happened to you
This might help you out below..
Hostage
To dream that you are a hostage, indicates that you are feeling victimized and powerlessness. You may also be feeling limited in your choices or physically immobilized. Perhaps this dream is paralleling some situation/difficulties in your daily life or relationship. Alternatively, it suggests that a part of yourself is not be fully expressed.
Gun
To see a gun in your dream, symbolizes aggression, anger, and potential danger. You may be dealing with issues of passiveness/aggressiveness and authority/dependence. Alternatively, a gun represents the penis and male sexual drive. Thus, the gun may mean power or impotence, depending on whether the gun went off or misfired.
Threaten
To dream that you are being threatened, indicates that you have internalized some fear and are feeling inadequate or oppressed.
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I live in FL usa and this person called my at&nt samsung cell phone and used *69 so i didn't know who it was. They used a voice disguiser... i think. it was deep and scratchy like bad connection. i think he said my name so it might be someone i know but idk im sooo scared it freaked the crap out of me and im a paranoid person so i think it may be a stalker but it probably isnt. what do i do? i don't think it is any of my friends and i don't give my number to a lot of people. HELP!!! (link)
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You could try and call the phone company of the cell phone and see if you could get the number blocked, Also sometimes they let you change your cell phone number but it will cost you extra. If you have caller ID on the phone than ignore the calls.
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ok my prolbem is my fiance is confused as to wether she wants to be with me or her ex boyfriend he hurt her so much because she loved him more that she ever has anyone and he knew how she felt and he left her now he wants her back and she is wondering what it would be like if she got back with him but she loves me and is confused as to what to do who to be with what do i do?what do we do?im so hurt by this i just dont know what to do.... ok and btw my name is Jonathan and im 17 and im a male of corse cuz where not the greatest when it comes to things like this kind of sitition.. (link)
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If your fiance is second guessing the relationship with you for her ex than clearly I don't think she is ready to be engaged yet alone even be thinking about marriage. Marriage is a commitment, A sacrifice and it is a bond between two people. If you can't trust one another than I can almost assure you that the marriage is not going to work. I would think long and hard about being with your "fiance" as not only is the wedding going to cost you but divorce is not cheap either. Also yes I agree with the person below me, I believe she still has feelings for her ex and has the entire time.
What do I think you should do?
Well, Clearly she is not committed into being in a relationship with you if she is thinking about going back to her ex boyfriend. You can sit her down and talk it out, forgive her, take her back or whatever but here is the question...
The fact that she is concidering her ex over you now while you two are engaged, What makes you think she won't do something like this when you two are married?...You've got some serious thinking to do. Personally, I think the girl needs to take a hike, Marry someone who wants to be with you and loves you and won't play with your feelings.
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ok im a 16 and femaile...my bf is 15... im about a week and a half late for my period....we have been having unprotected sex but we didnt do it half as much as we usually do but im late and iv had stomach issues lately but i donno im freaking out could i be pregnant or is it my stomach problems screwing with it? im never 100% regular. i know the stomach issues arent caused by pregnancxy...iv had them for a couple months... i was tested last month and it came back negative but is it possible that this month i got knocked up? please help i dont really know what to do and dont have anyone here to talk to.... thanks..
**Sleepiesheep** (link)
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It's possible you could be pregnant but then again you said your periods are never regular so therefore I would wait another week and see if it shows up. Also, It wouldn't hurt too take a test.
If you aren't pregnant I think it would be a wise idea to start using condoms or maybe see if you can get some sort of birth control...Better to be safe than sorry
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I have a 17yr old brother and we are relly close we talk about anything im 15yr old girl and lately hes been acting a bit strange havent seen a lot of him and the other we started talking and he told me that he is gay he's been with a guy for a few months and he was worried about what i thought about it i was a little surprised but i said it didnt matter if your gay your gay i told him id support him hes a bit worried about telling people about it especially our parents
but i said he should come out and he shouldnt be worried about what other people think shouldnt he do so? (link)
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It is not always easy for someone to admit that they are gay exspecially towards their parents..
It is very nice of you to be understanding towards the situation but sometimes our parents on the other hand have a different outlook on how their children approach the real world. I think when your brother is ready he will tell your parents, He may be holding back because he is afraid to be put down or rejected. I don't think he should feel pressured into doing something he isn't ready to do. In the meantime you can support him of his choice and just let him be happy
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Hi. I had sex with my boyfriend on August 24. Today is September 5. I usually have my period around the 25th day of the month, but I have been very irregular before. It's been late and early in the past.
The condom broke, unfortunately. But we stopped when we realized this. He didn't cum, and I'm not taking any birth control. So technically we had unprotected sex on accident.
I'm not going to ask if I could be pregnant, because of course I could be. When is the earliest I can take a urine pregnancy test? Isn't it two weeks, or is that still too early? Two weeks for me will be on Sep 7. I don't want to take the test and have it be too soon, and get a 'no' if I actually am.
I also have type 1 diabetes. Could having ketones at the time of taking the pregnancy test have any effect on its accuracy?
My boyfriend and I are terrified. It was only a one-time thing. It feels like it should be one of those 'what are the chances of that?' kind of things, but I know one time is all it takes.
Please don't try to punish me. Believe me, this is too much as it is, and I don't even know if I am or not. If not, I've really learned my lesson.
I occasionally feel nauseous and tense, but I believe this is more because of how stressed and upset I am. I'm really hoping this is all just a big scare where I've stressed myself out so bad that I've convinced myself that I probably am pregnant.
I've noticed that my urine has been pretty yellow lately. This could be just because of my diet, but could it have anything to do with early pregnancy?
If I am pregnant, I know that having the child is barely an option. I'm a senior in highschool. Having a baby now would ruin my education, career plans, everything. Plus, the humiliation of going through with it with my classmates and my family would be overwhelming for me, and I already suffer from depression.
I'm really not too fond of abortions. A baby shouldn't suffer for my mistakes. Is there ANY possible way to give the fertilized egg to another woman who could have it implanted in her? I know they do that with unfertilized eggs and then fertilize it afterwards. Please, I'm really scared.
I don't know what I should do. Please, please someone help. I need advice and suggestions! (link)
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If you want an accurate answer, Wait two weeks. If you do not want an abortion then I would suggest adoption.
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I need help getting over a guy i dated for a little over a year and a half! I know breaking up with him was the right thing to do because in the last few months he was basically just using me for sex. He would never talk to me or see me unless he thought he would get sex out of it and if i told him i loved him then he'd just bring up how we should have sex. The problem is that when we first started dating he was so sweet and I miss that part of him and I really don't know how to stop. It makes me so sad. Ive been crying for hours. I guess this sounds pretty pathetic but i really loved him. I already tried the whole find a new guy thing and that really didnt work very well... i have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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I pretty much went through the same thing almost a year and a half ago only mine was 5 1/2 years...
The first thing you need to realize is that you were being used, If all he wanted was sex than he simply didn't care about anything eles in the relationship. I know you are feeling terrible at this point but you also need to realize as hard as it may be it is not the end of the world and you will in time overcome this matter. What may help you to move forward is to think of all the times that he used you, Put your anger towards the situation and focus on the future. You said yourself that breaking up with him was the right thing to do and I absoulutely agree with you. However, Keep reminding yourself you did this for your sake and not his. You deserve so much better and in time you will find someone who is the right one for you. Spend time with your friends and family as they will be the one to support you and help you through this. Also, it would not hurt to get out of the house and go for a walk trust me it is helpful.
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Hi I'm from the UK.
I have a 9 year old daughter who is very distressed and upset and i'm hoping you can help me help her!!
I moved away from her dad in 1999 (before she was born) due to domestic violence and gained an interdict to stop him coming near us. Since we weren't safe in the area we lived in after my split with him i moved to Edinburgh in 2002 and have been safe and living life normally ever since, that is until May last year when he managed to locate us.
Within a week we had to be placed in a Womans Aid refuge for our safety and he believes we live down in London now.
Ever since though he set up websites in search of us using videos and information from my daughters health problems to try and locate us. Now the first two websites we managed to get taken down as it pertained to a minors safety but the 3rd (which my daughter stumbled on last night) has only been up for a couple of days.
I've spoken to the police who confirmed this is a source of harassment yet won't do anything about it as its online. My solicitor reakons since he doesnt know where our new address is we should simply ignore it but its easier said than done!!
He is definately abusing my daughters right to safety and privacy. He has invaded both me and my daughters privacy by making this site and has caused us great annoyance and anxiety. The very fact he used her name as his web address shows he is abusing her right to privacy. If it was more about him it should have been called JohnMackie.co.uk not http://www.Shannoncassidy.co.uk
My daughter deserves the right to live life normally and safely - she does NOT deserve her privacy violated in such a manner and certainly not be hounded by him. Please for the safety of my daughter help me get him stopped for good!!
I need help! This is affecting my daughter greatly!! She has only JUST started relaxing after the last spate of websites and now shes back to sitting in her room crying - She doesn't understand why someone would ignore her requests to take it down and leave her alone as she wants nothing to do with him at the moment.
In light of this i would appreciate it if you could help!! (link)
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Wow...
Why don't you two stop running and learn to face your problems like adults? For one, MOM you have publicly exsploited your child by airing on television..Which in this case you've pretty much hit the bottom of the barrel not only did you dig yourself a deep hole with this one but you've also caused your child to become an emotional wreck. Great parenting!
Take it to COURT where it belongs, Stop exsploiting your child on the internet which IS again what you just did!
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My boyfriend and I have a great relationship, we're 4 hours apart right now because of college but we talk all the time. By this I mean texting until the moment we wake up to the moment we go to bed. Then every night around 8 he'll ask me what I'm doing and I'm normally not doing anything and then he asks me to call him, so I always do and then we get on the phone, have a conversation for about 5 minutes and then there's nothing left to talk about because we talked all day. Then he gets this slightly annoyed tone in his voice because I have nothing to talk about! I don't know what to do. If I said I didn't feel like talking I know he'd take it personally and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want to have phone conversations where we just listen to each other breathe and fall asleep. (link)
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Sounds like you two ran out of things to say, I would cut the texting down a little bit save it for when you two talk on the phone. It will give you something to talk about, However it's not everyday that we all have something new to talk about either. I have ran into this problem on many occasions.
When you run out of things to talk about, You can keep it casual like "Hi, How was your day I didn't do much but I wanted to call to check up on you I've missed you"
Sometimes sadly it helps to think of things to talk about before you pick up the phone too.
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just to let everyone know that i dont wax or shave or anything, i just trim my pubic hair on my vaginal mound.
well, i have these black bumps, i had one.. and then 2 appeared. but anyways, they are like from my pores or something and there is always a hair in the middle of it. so when i peel it off or just rub it, it comes off, there is a hair in it. its so strange. i've had it for a while now. and everytime it appeared i'd just rub it off like usual. today i did the same, and i've sorta got an opened wound now. like its red in the middle, its not bleeding.. i think its my flesh!? sorry to freak you out, if u are freaked out! i dont know why i have this.
i havent been sexually active for over 10 months now! and i didnt have any issues before when i was sexually active.
please dont say go to the gynecologist or something. coz i wont. its a little embarrassing, and i'd like to at least know now what is up with me and whats going wrong, at least an idea so i wont be embarrassed and freaked out over my own self.
thank you in advance! :) (link)
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It sounds like a mole, However I recommend seeing a gynocologist.
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I am a guy, 17. I have a friend, 16 and her boyfriend, 17 looked up gay porn on her computer. She found it while looking on the history. She dumped him for a couple of hours and took him back. He acts childish and talks down to her and calls her names in front of her. She takes the crap. Sadly I was kind of happy she dumped her boyfriend, but then she took him back a couple of hours later. We start school tomorrow, September 1st... and when she told they talked it out and got back together I pretended to be okay with it. Should let it go or tell her how I feel? I've been friends with her since fourth grade and we have been friends since then.
WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000 (link)
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Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 yrs now. And im a girl too btw. We have been living together for about 2 first at her parents but the past year we've had your own place. We've been having problems for the past I couldnt even tell you how long. i know that both of us dont feel the same about each other. We agreed a week ago that we would try to be "just friends" for a while to see if anything improved. So we havent been kissing or anything intimate like that or even seeing each other naked because friends dont do that. Well last night we were sleeping and she pulled me to her and we started having sex. I was skeptical bc I didnt want it to just be sex but I went thru with it anyway. Now I asked her about it today and shes basically saying what I didnt want to hear. That is was just sex to her and nothign more. Which hurts ya know..
A big part of me feels liek we shouldnt be together anymore. And Im pretty sure she feels the same way. But its hard tho to end something after 3 years. And its even more complicated for me because like i said we live together and I cant afford it on my own. Plus all the furniture we have we got from her family so that would go with her so i would have nothing. I just dont know what to do. Im not happy at all in my current situation but I dont feel like I have a choice. Has anyone ever been thru anything like this or give some opinions or advice please?? Thank you in advance. (link)
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If you two agree that you shouldn't be together than clearly that is what it should be. I would try and look for a possible replacement like a roomate in the meantime. If you two signed a lease than no matter what she would have to pay her half until that lease is up as a lease is not only a lease but a legal contract. Unless you can afford to pay for her half (Which I would not recommend doing...) Do you two live in an apartment together? If it's possible I would not be sleeping in the same bed yet alone the same room. I think you should sit her down and come up with a plan on what you two are going to do. You don't even have to be friends if you don't think you should but at least try and be aquaintances. Once the lease is up, You two are free to go your seperate ways.
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