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boy trouble
I need help getting over a guy i dated for a little over a year and a half! I know breaking up with him was the right thing to do because in the last few months he was basically just using me for sex. He would never talk to me or see me unless he thought he would get sex out of it and if i told him i loved him then he'd just bring up how we should have sex. The problem is that when we first started dating he was so sweet and I miss that part of him and I really don't know how to stop. It makes me so sad. Ive been crying for hours. I guess this sounds pretty pathetic but i really loved him. I already tried the whole find a new guy thing and that really didnt work very well... i have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP ME
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I know how this is, i am actually just getting over my ex! its relly hard, but always try to keep yourself busy. be around the people that make you the happiest all the time.
And when you think of your ex you dont think of the messed up things that he did to you, you only think about the sweet things he did in the beggining of the relationship huh? Well sit down and actually think about it and how messed up what he did was! and tell yourself that you deserve better! I know that this is hard but it works. Just keep your mind off of it as much as possible.
Hope i helped =]
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I pretty much went through the same thing almost a year and a half ago only mine was 5 1/2 years...
The first thing you need to realize is that you were being used, If all he wanted was sex than he simply didn't care about anything eles in the relationship. I know you are feeling terrible at this point but you also need to realize as hard as it may be it is not the end of the world and you will in time overcome this matter. What may help you to move forward is to think of all the times that he used you, Put your anger towards the situation and focus on the future. You said yourself that breaking up with him was the right thing to do and I absoulutely agree with you. However, Keep reminding yourself you did this for your sake and not his. You deserve so much better and in time you will find someone who is the right one for you. Spend time with your friends and family as they will be the one to support you and help you through this. Also, it would not hurt to get out of the house and go for a walk trust me it is helpful.
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