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hoe or no??
so,, im 16 and i have had sex with 8 guys.. does that mean im a hoe?? or that i love sex too much? also. what is the best way to have sex that will feel the greatest?? make me orgasm faster??
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It doesn't brand you as a "hoe", but it certainly means that you don't attach too much importance to the emotional aspect of sex.
You're willing to have sex with men who you don't really know intimately and who don't know you intimately. Many (if not most) women choose to have sex with their partner only if they are in a somewhat serious relationship. You simply choose to forgo that bit of security clearance.
There's no such thing as "good" or "bad" when it comes to sexual partners. So long as you are comfortable with your motivations and are taking care of yourself (i.e. getting STI tests between each partner, using condoms and birth control) you will be fine.
However, since you're asking this question, I would have to say that you're probably not entirely comfortable with your choices. Why have you had sex with each of these guys? To get them to like you? To get them to date you exclusively? Just cause it feels good? Those aren't exactly the best reasons. If you had sex with them because you really cared about each one of them, then you have nothing to worry about. Before having sex with a man, think about why you want to do it.
The best way to have sex? I can tell you from past experience that the best way to have sex, and the way that will get you the most fulfillment out of it is to have sex with a person you are deeply in love with. I'm not saying you have to wait until marriage, but waiting is a good thing.
I had somewhat enjoyed sex with previous partners, but until I met my fiance I didn't have a really amazing experience. When there's a deep emotional connection and you know the other person incredibly well, everything feels so much better. You can let go of inhibitions and trust the other person entirely, which you can't do with someone you've only known for a few months or weeks.
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Slooooow dooown sweety its nothing good about that at all. At your age I can tell you all those guys don't give a crap about you so think you are so young you should have your head in school. Realy you should stop no smiles about this. Pluse I'm coming at you as a friend and ..... that's soo bad you lay with guys and have sex me I started when I was 19 come on you can do better. Hope this opend your eyes and if not.......... ...... condoms dont want to be on that show 16 and pregant. bye .....kid
C.L.N
THAT'S NOT COOL AT ALL
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from a guys point of view
i wouldn't touch you with a 30 foot pole sorry but 8 guys at that age is just ..ew
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Hi :)
Okay, don't label yourself with all these words, don't degrade yourself. Honestly, being promiscuous isn't good, so if you've had sex with 8 guys and the numbers are still rising, you should take your health and reputation into consideration. Sex is fine, and you do what you want, but you'll learn that it's best to present yourself as a decent girl who won't have sex for whatever reason. Sex is normal, but being promiscuous isn't. Hopefully you're using protection. As far as the second and third question, I can't answer that for you. That's something you have to experiment with and find out with a partner. Good luck, and I hope you decide to take my advice into consideration :)
Uniq
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slutty would be more like it
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If you were to ask me, I certainly wouldn't say you weren't a little loose. 8 Guys at 16...Sheeshes
Sorry I couldn't help myself...
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