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no condom plz
guys, how do you feel about a girl who is on the pill and does not want to use a condom. Girls and guys, is that weird for a girl to not want to use a condom? and if you dont mind saying..doesnt it feel better ?
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I have never had sex without a condom, so I wouldn't know for sure. However, I know that everyone is different. Some guys I know say it's MUCH better without a condom. However, I've known guys who say it feels better with a condom, so who knows, for sure.
However, I do have a friend who had unprotected sex with a girl on birth control, and he got chlamydia. On top of that, the girl was lying about the birth control and got pregnant, but ended up having an abortion.
So many guys might not be comfortable with it. I know I wouldn't. it's always safer with a condom.
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It's totally up to the person, but one thing all of you need to know is that even though some of you are using birth control without condoms, there's still the risk of having stds/stis. Both partners should get tested for those before engaging in sex without a condom.
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"The pill" is much more effective in comparison to condoms when it comes to preventing pregnancy, in both perfect use and typical use. The pills have about 4% to 8% of failure on typical use, and less than 1% on perfect use; condoms have a failure rate of 10% to 14% on typical use, and 2% to 3% on perfect use (according to CDC [cdc.gov] and Standford University's SHTRC [standford.edu]). However, condom does a much better job at protecting you from STDs (Sexual Transmitted Disease) because the pill doesn't protect you from STDs at all.
Of course, like the previous columnists recommended, I would recommend you use both, too. And since you are 15, I would recommend you wait until you are older.
"Is it weird for a girl to not want to use a condom?" Cannot answer this question, because each person has different point of view. I, for example, don't care how and when you have sex, but I believe that sex is something that should bring pleasure and happiness; so if you know that you will be worry to sick over it (such as the possibility of pregnancy of STDs), then it's better to not have sex at all.
"Doesn't it feel better?" Yes, for the general populace of guys, it does feel better to have sex without using condom--typically, guys don't like condoms very much, as they decrease the pleasure and make it takes longer to ejaculate.
Hope this helps,
Ng2491 :-)
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Generally speaking, guys are probably fine with that since most of them don't like using condoms...however it's really not a smart thing to do. Birth control is not 100% effective and it's one less thing to worry about.
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I'm not a guy either but I think it is smarter to use a condom with the pill. Some guys say it is more pleasurable without a condom but the risk for pregnancy is a lot higher.
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I'm not a guy, but I still feel like I should offer my opinion.
I really think that being on the pill but not using a condom is pretty stupid. You should want to take care of your body better, and that means doubling up on protection (1 condom, birth control pills).
It isn't weird to guys, but I find it weird. Girls should want to protect themselves and keep their bodies healthy & safe. I suggest that if you're going to have sex that you use both birth control pills and a condom.
You shouldn't be worried about what feels better, you should be worried about continuing to be in good health.
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for the guy it feels better, adn if your on birth controle i think you could risk it.. birth controle is pretty safe.
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