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I feel like no matter what Im stuck
Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 3 yrs now. And im a girl too btw. We have been living together for about 2 first at her parents but the past year we've had your own place. We've been having problems for the past I couldnt even tell you how long. i know that both of us dont feel the same about each other. We agreed a week ago that we would try to be "just friends" for a while to see if anything improved. So we havent been kissing or anything intimate like that or even seeing each other naked because friends dont do that. Well last night we were sleeping and she pulled me to her and we started having sex. I was skeptical bc I didnt want it to just be sex but I went thru with it anyway. Now I asked her about it today and shes basically saying what I didnt want to hear. That is was just sex to her and nothign more. Which hurts ya know..
A big part of me feels liek we shouldnt be together anymore. And Im pretty sure she feels the same way. But its hard tho to end something after 3 years. And its even more complicated for me because like i said we live together and I cant afford it on my own. Plus all the furniture we have we got from her family so that would go with her so i would have nothing. I just dont know what to do. Im not happy at all in my current situation but I dont feel like I have a choice. Has anyone ever been thru anything like this or give some opinions or advice please?? Thank you in advance.
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It's going to be very hard to live with your ex as just friends and like the other night there are going to be some slip ups. Your just going to have to stay strong and not give into her when she tries to be intimate with you, it will only make things harder for you. You need to tell her that you don't want to be friends with benefits. Also start looking for other room mates so you can get out of there as soon as possible. Until than I would start buying little stuff for when you move out so it's easier. Just look at it as a good chance to save money.
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If you two agree that you shouldn't be together than clearly that is what it should be. I would try and look for a possible replacement like a roomate in the meantime. If you two signed a lease than no matter what she would have to pay her half until that lease is up as a lease is not only a lease but a legal contract. Unless you can afford to pay for her half (Which I would not recommend doing...) Do you two live in an apartment together? If it's possible I would not be sleeping in the same bed yet alone the same room. I think you should sit her down and come up with a plan on what you two are going to do. You don't even have to be friends if you don't think you should but at least try and be aquaintances. Once the lease is up, You two are free to go your seperate ways.
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