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I seem to have a way with words that often comfort my friends. I am often asked advice and I have not heard a complaint from anyone who has taken it and as for the ones who didn't i usually hear a "I should have listened to you" sooner or later. If you have any questions I will be glad to hear them but remember my advice is only an opinion from the knowledge that I have and you take my advice at your own risk. I plan to make this my career by majoring in journalism and minoring in psychology and am using this for experience so feel free to give me your feed back. I'm very good at giving advice on family affairs and relationships. I have had my own personal experience and have had friends with very different situations that i was able to help them through. I will always answer your question if you send it to me, so feel free to ask anytime.
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the other day i was beat by my dad so bad im 16 and a guy but i can't stand up to him. he punched me in the nose once an threatened to kill me so i took a shotgun an put it to his head an told him to back the f*** off. i thought i made the point clear to him but the next day he had iron knuckles with him an nailed me in the forehead. im lucky i barely felt it i guess over the years ive become almost immune to pain. but i dont know what to do to have him stop without cops or foster care getttin involved i luv him to much even tho he busted my lip and my forehead open. luckily im ok i dont feel dazed or nothin from the hit. im lucky i moved backwards with the punch so it didnt get me bad just a lil blood. but if i hadnt moved i could probly be dead rite now........... any advice would be helpful............ but toher than my dad i have a goood good life an grl im a QB for my highskool and i make straight A's.... i need sum help plz
There is nothing you can do personally, if he does this often the only way you are going to get him to stop is to tell someone that can help you, if i were you i would talk to one of your family members and see if you cant get them to help you if you dont want to involve the cops. maybe the family member can get your dad some help and give you somewhere to live while your dad get everything together. he is obviously not going to stop if you tell him by yourself so get someone to help you, one of these days he might go to far.
about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?
f/13
i hate to say this but it is not illegal to tell you the truth, he should have been a little more gentle about it but it was not illegal. the only time it would have been illegal is if he was telling people who were not involved.i know you are upset about the situation but there nothing you can do, if i were you i would try going to another doctor and seeing if they are more compassionate and if there is something they can do to help you, if it were me i would go to as many doctors as i could to try to get a better answer, doctors arent always right.
Did you all know that prank phone calls are illegal???I didnt and i made a call last week and unfortunately it was a LAWYER!!!Im in deep shit and he is pressing charges and i could go to Y.D.C. and im hoping to god that he drops the charges otherwise im FUCKED!!!but i could really use some tips to hepl me out in my case to calm the lawyer down so i dont get in as deep as i am right now.
well honestly it is kinda ridiculous if it actually is illegal i have never heard of that, my first question was what did you say that made him so mad to say he was going to press charges and two are you sure he is actually going to press charges? did you get a letter stating that you had to go to court? if not than i think he got you. if you did get a letter the best thing you can do is look on the internet and see how serious the case is. just be honest with the judge when you go in and make sure you are on time. most likely the guy is not going to show up and the case will be dropped and if he does than just tell the judge it was a joke and you did not want it to go that far. something doesnt sound right about this though so i would look into it. if it was just a threat over the phone im going to say your fine.
right so i havnt got a boyfriend at the moment but when i do im scared that i wont know what to do when i comes to kissing him, everyone says it comes natuarly wich im sure it does but im still woried an to make it worse i have brace :( any advice
i had the exact same concern but the truth is it does come naturally, as long as you dont press your face really hard against his you should not have a problem with the braces just take It slow and let the guy start the kiss and the rest will come into play.
I just broke up with my Ex... 3 days ago...
This other guy, whom I've REALLY, REALLY liked for
AGEESSS!!!! asked me out today, I told him I'd let
him know.
Do you think it's too soon to be with somebody else?
Because I really care about this new dude... And
have very few feelings for my ex.
What's your view on the situation?
xx
If your ready to move on than do it. It's only too soon when you uncomfortable getting back into a relationship. Since you don't really care about your ex and you want to be with this new guy than you don't really need to wait. Its only too soon if you say it is.
16f and sometimes I have these weird feelings that I want to get married like when im 18. And lately theyve been getting worse.. Ive been thinking that I want to have a baby.. like now. Ill daydream and think about how horrible it would be but how cute the baby would be and with the guy that I am about to be going out with. Its creeping me out that I feel this way. I was just wondering if someone could explain kind of like why I feel this way.
Your just a little ahead of your time thats all. Just cause you want a family now doesn't mean there is something wrong with you a lot of girls go through it, you just need to be smart about it. Wanting and having are two different things so you might want to hold off on the baby. Just try to stay focused and eventually you will get what you want just make sure it's when you can take care of the baby and when your with the right guy.
19 female. i like and HAVE liked this guy joe who is 18, for awhile now. we're pretty good friends too, so you wouldnt think it would be hard for me to ask him to hang out right? WRONG.
i'm always so nervous of getting rejected, who isnt? so i never ask him to hangout, i rarely text him first, it's how i am. lately i've been getting better. my friend gave me 4 free tickets to a major league baseball game sunday, so of course i think about asking joe to come. this was our conversation:
me: hey my friend is giving me four tickets for the baseball game friday. i'm going to find two other people to come, but do you want to come?
him: i have a football game.
me: on a sunday? werid. just thought id ask.
him: you said friday!
me: oh sorry i meant sunday.
him: what time?
me: 1:10
him: i have a hockey game.
...REJECTED:( i mean i know he's not lying, i know he does play hockey and football, he wouldnt lie to me but i just feel dumb. and i have these handcuffs and he stole the keys from me so then i was like:
me: will you like leave my keys at your neighbors tomorrow since me and my friend will be over there (i didnt want it to be a hassle and bug him so i said that..)
him: just come get them
me: will you be home?
him: sometime yea
me: ok i'll just text you and see if your home
him: alright
is it me or does he always seem short with me? or is that how boys just are? and now i have to see him tomorrow, i will be embarassed because i asked him to go to the game and he couldnt. maybe its just me overanalyzing but i dont know. what do you guys think?
In this situation you are over analyzing it, he wasn't rejecting you otherwise he wouldn't have tried to correct you. Honestly guys aren't the best talkers and most of the time they don't know what to say. Also he told you to come over to his house instead of dropping them off at the neighbors, if he was purposely blowing you off than he would have just agreed to drop them off instead of asking you to come over. Tomorrow is the perfect time to try to get him to agree to another time to hang out with you. Just say since you can't make it on Sunday do you want to hang out some other time, and ask him when he is free so you don't have to worry about him having a game.
hey im 18/f i've been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year. For the last 4 months everytime we have sex it hurts like i cant continue with sex because it hurts. It burns like it feels like theres a cut at the bottom on the "hole" We are always well lubricated so that isnt the problem. I had a pap smear and the doctor never said anything about it and said that everything was normal. I've talked to a couple friends about it and they said just wait and let it heal. I do but then when we have sex again it gets cut again kind of like "ripping" and i cant continue with sex after that. I dont know whats wrong. But also when i have that cut if he puts even the head inside of me it just burns and hurts. Its never happened with any other boyfriend but him and it just started happening. Like i said i got a check up and they didnt find anything wrong. We usually do the missionary position because thats usually the only comfortable one for me, hes only about 5 inches and not too thick. Can anybody give me any type of advice? Ill rate!
Thanks again!
Honestly Gyno's cant detect everything if you didn't tell them about the pain it is possible that they missed something that could be important. You need to schedule another appointment and you need to tell them the pain your having and what it feels like. I can tell you it's not normal and it could be something serious like endometriosis which is when uterine tissues migrate outside the uterus and grows along your pelvic cavity. Which can cause pain during sex, stronger cramps and can cause infertility. It could also be a severe cut but you need to go to a Gyno and tell them whats going on. Also don't have sex with him until you go to the doctor, you don't want to make it any worse than it already is. It doesn't matter if you had sex a month ago the gyno will be able to tell what the problem is without you going through anymore pain.
15/f.
I have been talking to this boy M since August of last yr. We have never been together. When I first met him I wasn't so interested, and now I'm in love with him. Don't tell me I dont know what love is. I've never in my life felt the way I feel about him about any other boy. As of now he has a girlfriend A. We can't stand eachother at all. M knows how I feel, but the confusion is on how he feels. I know he cares somewhat, I dont know how much, or how little. I feel like he wants me to compete with her or something, and I just wont do that. Um on Monday we had sex for the first time. Right now I'm feeling like I should just give up, he makes no effort to talk to me, or to come see me. And Monday night I feel the only reason he came was to get some. When I tell him that I dont understand why he act's like he cares when he knows he doesn't, he tells me he does care and all this bullshit. I'm just so depressed cause I want to be with him, and I dont want him to be with her, or any other girl. But he seems to not care at all. And it doesn't make it any better that I have to see them all the time at school together. I'm thinking about changing schools or something, Idk how to deal with this, What should I do?
Well it sounds to me like he just wanted sex and honestly do you really want to be with someone that has a history of cheating? If you have told him how you feel and he still doesn't leave his girlfriend than he has no interest in you like you do in him. If you want my advice I would just move on and don't let him take advantage of you. It's either her or you and you need to let him know that. If he does decide to stay with her than you just need to stay away from them all together and don't change schools over some guy. First loves come and go, don't let it get you too down.
I was a teen mom.
My parents got divorced while I was pregnant
Also had to deal with a big move
and some other things
I dont have any college education but I am 18 Is it possible to become a counselor?
You can become a counselor still but your going to have to go to school, its not to late and since your a single mom you can get grants to pay for your college. There are a lot of programs right now that will work around your school and your child so you can get the degree you need. Go for your goal its not to late.
i've been friends with my best guy friend for about 5 years now. we use to be really close but lately we've drifted. the problem is; the things he does to me makes me wonder if he even is a good friend. i need an outsiders view because of course i love him, we're really close so i wouldn't be able to be like "hes not a good friend to me"
if i were to text him when i was drunk and say something like..."i love you best friend" he would never say anything back. whenever we text he's ALWAYS the one to end the conversation by not texting back to something i said. when i tell him my problems, he doesn't even try to help and console me he just says.."that sucks." he doesn't seem to like ANY guy that i talk to, even if i'm just friends with them. he'll be like.. your friends with him!!!? why!! he never calls or texts me to hangout, i'm always the one who has to text him. when we're together with a group of people and there are girls he will flirt with them and try to make me jealous, which just annoys me. it seems like he will only call me "best friend" when he tries to get something out of me, like when he really wants something. i mean just things like that, that makes me think... is he being a true good friend? is this something that typical guys do?
don't get me wrong he does to alot of good things! he accepts me for me. he's seen me with no make-up, my hair not done and scrubbing and he doesn't care. he always can tell when something is wrong. when we're hanging out he can always make me laugh and have a goodtime. seeing him makes my bad days better. he's the only guy who i can truly trust. he's the only one who i will fight with and know that i am mad at and should be mad at, yet i can NEVER stay mad at him. i've talked to him about him seeming like we're not "best friends" anymore and everytime i bring it up he doesn't seem to understand and thinks im crazy for thinking any of that. it's like he doesnt know that hes being like that towards me and that i do overanalyze everything.
am i overanalyzing? should i be worried about our friendship?
It sounds to me like he wants to be a little more than just friends and if not than he might just be very protective of you. I think he is a good friend you just don't understand him. A lot of guys don't know what to talk about and I know all my guy friends just randomly stop talking to me and yea it gets annoying but it's normal. Just send a text message saying "Hello?" or just send a question mark that will let him know you weren't done talking to him. Also him not liking any of the guys you date could be that he is very protective and doesn't want to see you hurt or he actually has feelings for you. Either way he isn't a bad friend he is just a guy.
This requires some background knowledge:
I live with a guy, Tim, who up until a little while ago believed he was gay. My other roommate, Susan, is best friends with me as well as Tim. This other guy, Jeremy, has liked me for 3 months now and it wasn't until about 3 weeks ago that I started returning the feelings. This guy is perfect on paper, but I wasn't attracted to him that way until I basically told myself to be and have come to actually like him.
Now for the actual dilhema that needs solving:
I was drinking socially with Tim and a friend, Nick, one night and he was joking around about the fact that Tim needed to test out his "am i gay" theory and I needed to get laid, so he suggested with get them both out of the way by having sex with eachother. Had we been completely sober I don't think I would have gone along with him, but in the past I had liked him before I found out he was gay, so I agreed to it. We are now in a very complicated situation; I am in a unofficial relationshipwith Jeremy and I had sex with Tim, who I found out the next day, that he's had feelings for me the whole time and that's why he was questioning his sexual preference. I am so lost as to what I should do! I know that I have to tell Jeremy no matter what, I'm just not sure what. Do I tell him, sorry it's not going to work, or do I just tell him I had sex with another guy and let him do what he wants about it? Do I tell him who, because he knows my roommate, or do I just say "some guy" which can sound that much worse. I know if I told him I had sex with Tim when I was drunk to test the theory, yeah it's still stupid but it's better, and he might forgive me. The thing is, I don't know if I want him to.. and that tells me that I'm not sure what I want and that I should end it now rather than later so I don't hurt him more than I already am going to. To make all this worse, my best friend Susan was dissapointed when we told her we had sex, but she was more pissed off about the prospect of us dating. She immediately said she would move out the moment we decided to date. Yet, she says she will be in an awkward position whether we date, or whether we want to but don't for her sake. I have so many important and vital decisions to make, that will change everything, I just don't know what to do.
The first thing you should do is figure out who you want to be with more. Once you do that you need to tell Jeremy what happened. Either you tell him you made a big mistake or you tell him your into another guy. As for you Room Mate yea it would be awkward for her to live there but a lot of people do it. I would just keep the PDA down to a minimum around her so she doesn't feel that way. The only thing you have control over in this situation is which guy you want to be with the other decisions are up to everyone else. If you choose to be with Jeremy it is going to be his decision whether he stays with you. If you want to be with Tim than its up to Susan whether or not she is still going to be your room mate. So make the best choice for you and hope for the best.
hello my name is debbie im 16 and im from washington i have this friend steven hes my x we dated in his 7th and my 8th grade year it was amazing im totaly head over heels in love id kill my self for him well in the middle of the year i moved so we broke up then we stoped talking for a long time well this summer we started talking again we ended up dating for 2 days but hes no alowed to date till hes 16 hes 14 im 16 and he doesnt want to lie to his parents by dating me. well hes going to fort and im going to bay (highschool) so well never get to see eachother plus i just found ou that he loves someone else and he wants to be with her but i want to be with him so much to see him with her would kill me. but i want him to be happy because i love him and all i want is to make him happy.and he keeps saying that some day well be but it seems like everytime we have a little bit of a chance something happends and the more we try to make it happen the more it doesnt and i dont want to wait till hes 16 cause ill be 18 he'll probably meet someone else help pleeze!!!!!
Well it is always hard to have long distance realtionships. If you really care for him than you can drive to see him after school to spend time with him. Don't make it official cause he doesn't want to lie to his parents, but there is nothing wrong with him hanging out with you. This way you can keep his interest and see him at the same time. Also don't try to get him to want you, you need to let him do the chasing. just be yourself and tease him a little bit. Make sure he forgets about that other girl. Don't go see him to much though he might think your desperate, just give him little tastes of what it would be like to be with you. Also don't always believe what you hear if he hasn't told you about it it could just be a rumor.
I was with my ex for 11 months and we split up in march this year. We had our ups and downs to the relationship and decided to split up as we felt it just wasn't working and the romance was gone n we would be better off just friends before it ended badly. My friends and family were supportive of this as they felt that he didn't treat me right anyway. But at the time ididn't notice it and when we split up i was so happy like i felt like myself again.
It's been about 6 months since we split up and we've now started getting really close again and spending alot of time together and we've both admitted we miss each other and want to give it another shot but take it really slow. Only thing is is that my dads opinion means everything to me i'm such a daddy's girl but my dad doesn't like my ex and i'm scared to dissappoint him by telling him we're getting back together, same goes for my friends as they dn't think it's a good idea, and thats fair enough but i still really love him.
Honestly you need to do what feels right to you. I know their opinion matters to you but if they love you than they will stand behind you no matter what decision you make. Trust me I went through the same thing. My dad hated my boyfriend and I was a daddy's girl but I loved my boyfriend. My dad wasn't happy about it but he eventually got over it and were still as close as ever. Your dad just wants the best for you, he may be upset with you but only because he is worried and once he realizes your happy he will be fine with it. As for your friends, if they are true they will always have your back.
ok so there is this guy at my college..... I really like him and I'm not sure if he likes me. We sit down and watch t.v. all the time and talk and laugh for like hours. He always looks at me in this way that I don't know how to explain it but he's sooo adorable. He makes me laugh like crazy and is a really good listener to. What should I do?
You can do simple little tricks to grab his attention like laying your head on his shoulder when your watching tv or giving him a smile and looking away. Simple little things like that let him know your interested.
So the only guy I truely have feelings for and I now live about 2 hours away from eachother. His name is jason and I went to go hang out with him about 3 days ago and I was supposed to go to my dads at ten pm to stay the night then I would go home the next morning. Well while we were hanging out we drank a bit and I noticed he was spending alot of time with my homegirl mariah and it pissed me off so I made out with his best freind matt. Then like 2 hourse later me and mariah walked to round table to meet this girl that wanted to hang out with us. Her name is leighanne and she is not allowed to chill with me alone so her mom sat in the parking lot of the pizza place, and me and mariah told her if she wanted 2 drink that we would go get the bottle and bring it back 4 her. So when she gave us the money we bought a bottle of vodka and went back to jasons house (ditching leighanne with her money/bottle). Anyways me mariah jason matt and this guy martino all drank the bottle then we went to a place where there was more drink and we drank there then left. We went to this pond where me and jason had a really long talk about our relationship that turned in to a huge fight. Mariah and Matt left and Jason told me he wanted me to stay the night at his house so we could talk some more. Me not caring about my ten pm curfew went back to his house with him and martino. .......Well I guess earlier Leighanne (the girl we ditched/jacked) snuck out the back of the pizza place with her boyfreind and when her dad caught her it was already 12:30 am. My dad was with her dadd and they were looking for us so when they found her since she was obviously mad at me for ditching her she told my dad where jason lived. So My dad shows up at jasons house and is telling his parents im a runaway which is not even close to true. I was simply 2hours late. THEN I see leighanne walk up with her dad and I was unabled to stop myself from putting my hands on her. I guess I hurt her really bad (thats what my dad says). But besides that Jason is so mad all that drama was brought to his house and he refuses my calls and wont reply my myspace messages, He even told mariah he is pissed at me cuz he thinks i was a runaway. I am unabled to explain to him anything plus he was already upset with me that day for making out with matt and our fight. Since im so far away from him also I cant just go find him and talk to him in person. I feel like it may really be over between us and that hurts especially that it ended this way! Plus I really want to call and make sure leighanne is ok and talk to her. I know I was EXTREMELY messed up to her that day but at one time she was my best friend. That day just pretty much fucked up my life! :::My parents dont trust me to come home on time! I lost A best friend! And may have lost the love of my life.
The Boy.
First you need to give him a little bit to cool off.
After that send him some short messages that way he cant really ignore what they say. Start with "I'm sorry I was really drunk and i'm not a run away" to " please talk to me I don't want to lose you." Those simple messages will grab his attention and eventually break him. If he doesn't respond within a week though you might be in trouble.
The Friend.
I would start by apologizing like no other and maybe buying her a replacement bottle for the one you took. You need to let her know that you were completely drunk and that you didn't mean for any of that to happen. your just going to have to do a lot of kissing up to try to make that work.
Your parents.
Eventually they will trust you again but your going to have to earn it. It's going to take some time but make sure your on your best behavior.
My father and my husband HATE EACH OTHER. They aren't nasty to one another, they just complain to me. It is a huge emotional burden to carry. Any advice for peace is appreciated.
Just tell them that you are uncomfortable when they talk bad about each other. Let them know that you care about them both so you don't want to hear about how much they hate each other.
Okay. So pretty much, here's the story... I'm fifteen and I'm a girl. So last year I fell hard for a boy (J) that I knew I would never be able to get close to... He moved away. So that kind of sucked for me. He was nice, and sweet, and he liked me too, but we had agreed to not go out because well... he was leaving. And he did, and I cried, but I got over it. Kind of. I was an idiot you know? I was upset about him leaving and threw my self and a complete jerk (M) and I don't even know why. Of course, at the time, he seemed so perfect. He was kind of the complete opposite of J. He snuck out, he did bad things, and always wanted to be making out. I regret ever getting involved with him, because honestly (and I hate admiting this) I liked him. M was so different, the perfect distraction, and he gave me so much attention (not always very positive attention) and I loved it. We weren't dating, but we definitely had a thing, and I thought I was happy. Until he asked me to have sex with him... I told him no (I'm fifteen!) and that I wasn't ready... then he just left. I called him, and he never called back, I texted him and he ignored me... He just didn't care. He only wanted sex, and when I told him no, he didn't care about me anymore. I couldn't give him what he wanted, so he just forgot about me. And it sucks. It hurts so bad. Because it makes you feel like shit. It makes you think "wow, I'm apparently not a cool enough person to even want to try and have a relationship with. The only thing I seem to be good for is sex, and I'm not even worth the time to try to get know me." It just makes you feel horrible about yourself, and girls who have gone through this you know what its like. You know that when you like someone, genuinely like them, and they only want to use you, it sucks. It took awhile for me to get over that. For about two months I just forgot about guys. Decided I didn't need them, and it was good. Annnnd then I met G. And I don't even know what to do now. I met G one day, and gave him my number (he goes to my school, a grade above) and I think I really like him. Ive heard rumors though. That hes a player, that he talks to a lot of girls at once (Ive been talking to him, but I don't know of any other girls that have) and that he's only interested in guess what, ha, sex. Just what I need. Of course, these are just rumors. I don't know. We've been talking for awhile, hanging out quite a bit, but we've done nothing physical, and he doesn't seem like the kind of guys the rumors say he is. Ive just kind of, gotten to know him. And I like what Ive seen. But I'm scared. I don't want to get hurt like that agian, and if these rumors are true, then thats whats going to happen. And I just don't know what to do. J still likes me (we still keep in touch, he's moving back next year... but I don't like him anymore) I totally want to forget about M, and I really like G... I'm so confused... Please someone, give me some help?
Sounds to me like you just need to focus on G. If you don't like J anymore and M just tried to use you your choice is pretty simple. Don't believe rumors but if he asks you to do anything give him the same answer you gave M. Don't get to attached at first and if you don't see anything wrong with him after awhile you can start to get closer to him. For now just enjoy spending time with G and that way if he is a player you wont be as hurt as you would if you got attached right away.
sorry im never done this before and i dont have an account but well i have a message already sent to him talking about this football he wants to play and he cant afford it so i came up with an idea for him but he hasnt read it yet. and when i see him in the hall this morning i faked a yawn and i saw him again but he turn to his locker before i even came close enough to see him plus me and him are the same when we want to get to class we ignore alot of ppl and just go to class we dont stop to say hi. but on friday he said hey to me but i freaked (of course) and walked off without saying anything but i messaged him saying sorry i wasnt paying attention and he said that it was ok. you think i can have your email or something
I'm sorry I don't give out any personal information but I will gladly help you on here.
Sounds to me that your fine I don't think any damage was done by your mom. If he didn't like you he wouldn't talk to you. Next time he says hi to you though make sure you say hi back. It sounds like he is making an effort you just need to give him something to work with.
17/f
youve probably never heard of something like this but neither have i thats why its so hard for me to deal with. me and my bf have been dating for 2 years, and hes schitzophrenic. its not that bad yet because its inthe early stages. but you can still tell because we have ALOT of ups and downs in our relationship mostly caused by his mood swings and paranoia. but lately it has gotten so bad and he is so paranoid about everything. he doesnt believe that i love him and he trusts no1. he says that he just has this feeling that i dont love him and why eould anyone? i was fine with that because we were still close but now he wants to cut me out of his life completely. he says that he needs to stop talking to me because he is too dependant on me and that dependance is weakness. he is trying to make himself stronger or something but all he's doing his making himself completely alone. he has stopped talking to all his friends because he says they only want somthing from him. but he still helps them all when they need something and he still comforts me when im upset but not in a loveing way. he says he has cut out all the lovey dovey stuff because its just making him more dependent on me and hes ready to move on. im not though because im in love with him and hes says he loves me too, which i believe, but the whole him wanting to spend the rest of his life being alone and going into the marines is breaking my heart. i want to be with him so badly and if i thought it was beter to let him go then i would because i want whats best for him but i know he loves me but hes pushing every1 away and i know its not good for him or me. please help
Well I hate to break it to him but you cant go into the marines with that condition they won't even let you in with ADD or ADHD. As for him pushing you away thats not good for him he needs something positive in his life. He doesn't need to be pushing his friends away thats only going to make him depressed. Your just going to have to try harder to show him how much you care for him and try to get him to realize that he means a lot to you. Right now he is in a vulnerable state and you need to be the one that gets him out of it. Take him out, do fun activities with him and try to distract him from himself. If you stay with him your going to have a tough road ahead of you, its going to be hard but if you love him you will make it work. He may be saying he wants to be alone but if that the case he would have already broken up with you. Just stay strong and stay positive cause thats what he needs right now.