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the one i love loves someone else
hello my name is debbie im 16 and im from washington i have this friend steven hes my x we dated in his 7th and my 8th grade year it was amazing im totaly head over heels in love id kill my self for him well in the middle of the year i moved so we broke up then we stoped talking for a long time well this summer we started talking again we ended up dating for 2 days but hes no alowed to date till hes 16 hes 14 im 16 and he doesnt want to lie to his parents by dating me. well hes going to fort and im going to bay (highschool) so well never get to see eachother plus i just found ou that he loves someone else and he wants to be with her but i want to be with him so much to see him with her would kill me. but i want him to be happy because i love him and all i want is to make him happy.and he keeps saying that some day well be but it seems like everytime we have a little bit of a chance something happends and the more we try to make it happen the more it doesnt and i dont want to wait till hes 16 cause ill be 18 he'll probably meet someone else help pleeze!!!!!
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Well it is always hard to have long distance realtionships. If you really care for him than you can drive to see him after school to spend time with him. Don't make it official cause he doesn't want to lie to his parents, but there is nothing wrong with him hanging out with you. This way you can keep his interest and see him at the same time. Also don't try to get him to want you, you need to let him do the chasing. just be yourself and tease him a little bit. Make sure he forgets about that other girl. Don't go see him to much though he might think your desperate, just give him little tastes of what it would be like to be with you. Also don't always believe what you hear if he hasn't told you about it it could just be a rumor.
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Listen friend, considering you have two things against you in this situation:
#1 - His mother will not allow this for two more years.
#2 - He has found someone whom he believes he loves.
I think it would be best if you let him be happy with whomever he's with right now and let things go until two years from now. And if it is meant to be, then you two will be together when he turns sixteen. Good luck, friend!
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If he wants to wait, let him wait! Somebody else will come along and scoop you right off your feet. He's 14? You're 16? Did you know that's statutory rape? You could go to jail for that. You're over age. Just let it go. Plus, if he loves someone else, doesn't that say something about his feelings towards you? Never love someone completely and wait around for them unless they'll thoroughly do the same for you. And in this case, it doesn't seem as if that'll happen any time soon. Be yourself and you'll find somebody who loves you and WON'T love someone else while loving you!
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