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they hate each other
My father and my husband HATE EACH OTHER. They aren't nasty to one another, they just complain to me. It is a huge emotional burden to carry. Any advice for peace is appreciated.
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I know how you feel mine do the same thing just get tired of being the mediator. Just see if you can get them to sit down with each other and talk about why they dislike each other. Or you can tell them if they got a problem than take it up with one another and not you. Them talking will most likely do the trick my thing is my dad says no one is good enough for his little girl. Good luck and i hope they start to get along.
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hello, i think in your situation you should seperately tell your husband and father that you love them both and you are switzerland and you refuse to get into their problems and you dont want to hear about how much they hate eachother. and about creating peace, find out why they hate eachother... and make them think diffrently.
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Just tell them that you are uncomfortable when they talk bad about each other. Let them know that you care about them both so you don't want to hear about how much they hate each other.
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Tell them exactly what you said sit them down together and say this is a huge emotional burden to carry, use the guilt trip and say you know if you both cared about me you wouldnt put me through this. and its the truth. Tell your dad that you love you husband and he should be happy for you and support that and tell you husband that this is your father and you love him and if he loves you then he should love everything that comes with you. Make them talk out there problems and if they cant act like adults tell them ok until you two can grow up and talk about things than you wont be talking to me and get up and walk away that will scare them both and you dont deserve that good luck
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my dad and husband were the same way. make them hang out or do a project together and talk.
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