Member Since: September 7, 2009
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Last Update: September 7, 2009
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just wondering, haha..
how can you give your guy a boner without touching him? (link)
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girl talk sexy to him
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F/21
I'm straight, I mean I'm very much atrracted to men. But I can get off by watching another woman masturbate... Is that normal? I'm not at all atrracted to woman in real life. What could that mean? It's really bothering me. (link)
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girl i am the same way. Its just the things you like to watch. Its totally normal nothing is wrong with that just as long you dont act on lol.
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i'm 19 years old, female.
i've never had sex before, never been fingered, havent done anything really! only made out, and i havent done that in like three years, ohhhh god embarassing! i've been really really horny lately and i really just want to be sexual. now i'm not saying i just want to go have sex with random guys but i would like to get pleasured:)
i'm not into the whole dildo/vibrator thing either...not for me! i just dont know how to go about doing something, and letting my hormones go crazy. i dont even know why i'm like this! i'm on birth control, but probably because i havent really done anything sexal before right??
i hear about my friends having alot of fun and getting frisky haha and no i wouldnt do it because my friends are! i'd do it for ME. i'm 19, i know how to make wise choices, and i think i have so far! but would it be bad to have a guy finger me or to just have some fun with a guy? (link)
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That is totally normal to feel that way. I dont think that it would be a bad thing to have some fun. Yeah step out your box a little not to much though then you might give the guy the wrong impressin. I hope you go have you some fun. Just dont over do it. and you have made wise decisons if you are 19 and never been with anyone. good luck
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My father and my husband HATE EACH OTHER. They aren't nasty to one another, they just complain to me. It is a huge emotional burden to carry. Any advice for peace is appreciated. (link)
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I know how you feel mine do the same thing just get tired of being the mediator. Just see if you can get them to sit down with each other and talk about why they dislike each other. Or you can tell them if they got a problem than take it up with one another and not you. Them talking will most likely do the trick my thing is my dad says no one is good enough for his little girl. Good luck and i hope they start to get along.
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Okay i am dating this guy, and i mean we are doing fine and everything, hes just younger than me and things.. and my ex boyfriend? we haven't been together since probably last valentines day? and the guy i'm dating we have been together for like a week now.. but my ex is telling me he wishes that he could take that part of his life back where he broke my heart, that he still loves me and he always will and he misses me and he wants to be with me and that im the one for him?
-bad part about it is, he has never said anything like that before to me? so i really don't know if i should give him another chance, or what? i mean i still love him & no matter what i would do anything for him, and he has told me he has changed and his mom even said he has? and he cried over me the other night, and he tells me EVERY day that he means that! except last night, he told me that he will always feel the same way about me, but he just doesn't want to hurt me again or anything, and he wants me and him to be friends and he just dont want to date at the moment, but yet he said he still feels the same and always will no matter what? and for a year straight i always wanted him back, and he never would consider it? but now that i have a boyfriend i think he has finally realized what he wants, or maybe he is just telling me that? i dunno..so what should i do? please helpp me =( (link)
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he might have figured out what he wants but it could be he didnt want you but now that someone else does he just wants the challeng of saying i can get her back. If you have went this long then you can live with out him. good luck
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Expressing myself through a computer screen Is very hard to do.So sharing info with random people is something i have never done in my life.But im just screaming for help and I have to be heard in one way or another.And im not here to be told that im just overreacting or that i just have to never give up because i've heard it all before and my pain runs so much deeper then that.So listen and just try to spare me the tough love and just help me by giving me the best advice possibly because that it what i really need right now.
This litte feeling that takes over me has been happening since I was a tyke. I mean i felt like my family has always teamed up on me.I guess you can call me the black sheep of my family.I mean my childhooh has been pretty rough but its not about that.The problem is that I feel like im always beening smothered.Like I can never breath in fresh air.When i was younger i used to live in this house that was huge..but sadly it burned to the ground in a huge house fire.So now i live in this box..literally.I feel like in going crazy.The house is over crowded by immature siblings and grown ups.My mom is 40 and so is my dad and those two argue like five year old kids.Im 17 years old and i still cover my ears everytime they go at.Im just so over the whole thing.Being here doesnt feel like a home and im just really ready to live.I mean what parents would want their kids to be around all this screaming and cursing.Im very disappointed in the both of them.Problem #2.The only person that i really felt close to was my twin sister.Its like I was born with my own best friend.From dressing alike to laughing at each others jokes..she was my rib.But no..when she got her so-called boyfriend things changed big time.She start saying things to me like how i couldnt keep a boyfriend becuase no one liked me and how i had no friends.Things that will scar my heart for life.Things she would have never said to me.And she really put me down when she got a job before me.I gratuated in may of 09 and have been looking for a job to help pay for college out of pocket.Im just so sick of being left out.As for friends..My life asnt been anything but a big competion with me.Why does frinedship have to be about jealousy.I can honestly say I never had true blue friends.Now a day everybody just compete's with everyone.No one's honest anymore.I just wanna go to college and start my life.But since I have no money..I have to work for it.Please dont tell me that there's finacial aid becuase i have recieved that but still its nott enough.Yes..I have applied for scholarships and grants.And no..mom and dad cant help becuase their just as selfish as the next person.All they can think about is buying the next hottest car becuase one of their co-workers have it.I need to find myself spiritually but cant never stay focused do to the negative things people fill my head with.I feel like cyring everyday.I just wanna break out of the walls and start my life they I want to. What can I do..? Please you guys..I feel so alone in this world. (link)
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You are not alone. I get how you feel you feel like all the walls are coming down on you. You keep your head up and if your sister is sayin that stuff than she is the one that is jealose of you. Sounds like you have a bright future just stick to it. Girl i will be your friend if you need one .
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Ok, so my dad called me yesterday and told me he proposed to his girlfriend of a year and I think most kids would be happy but I'm not. This is his FIFTH wife. I think she's cool and all but I know he's gonna end up cheating on her and divorcing her and putting all his kids through this stuff again. What should I do? I tried talking to him about my feelings but he just got mad. Please help me! (link)
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If i were you maybe try taking to the women he is marring and let her know how you feel about it.
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We are planning on getting our Marriage license in Iowa and it's good for 6 mos and I was wondering if we can still have the Ceremony in Michigan where our family is. I know a judge there and I would like to perform it in MI at a family members house and that way our whole family doesn't have to fly to Iowa...can I do this? Thank you. (link)
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you sure can but to be sure contact your court house and ask them but as long as its done with in the 6 months than it should not be a problem
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I (25, female) was recently promoted to manager at my small business company. One of my employees (56, female) that I am responsible for has become an issue. Examples of what she has done include:
- mismanaging client accounts (all small amounts, but it's important)
- badmouthing me behind my back to to other employees and then denying it when confronted (at the same time being super-nice to my face)
- insisting that I have the problem with her
- refusing to complete all the duties as outlined in the job description
- taking longer on client outings, which hold up other clients for hours
- taking a valid criticism (she is always late for work) and turning it into a personal attack (I expect perfection out of her, and she is going through a rough time)
- breaching our client oath of confidentiality.
Clearly, I am a new manager. She is also several years older than I am. I have begun a paper trail of these incidents, but is there anything I can do or say to her that will force her to stop gaslighting on me, and take responsibility for herself and her job?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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well if i were you i would fire that person thats more than just a few mistakes. YOU need a better worker good luck
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17/f
My parents are really being unreasonable. They refuse to approve of my boyfriend because he's not from the same group of people as us. He's puerto rican and my parents dislike him because of the reputation they carry but what upsets me the most is they are judging too quickly.. They haven't even met him in person to be making judgements. And my father refuses to allow me to go out with him anymore. This isn't the only thing they dislike about him.. He's 18 but could pass as a 20 yr old and my parents claim that if I bring him over the house there going to ask for I.d to prove his age its completely nonsense !! I just don't know what to do anymore I refuse to bring him over because I don't want them to scare him away and I don't want to tell him about this because it'll really upset him.. I don't want my parents choosing who I date or telling me who I can go out with ... (link)
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hi, I was about 15 when i got with my husband guess what my parents forbided me to have anything to do with him now we are married and have two little girls. I would most deffintley let your parents meet him get around him. Just talk to your boyfriend let him know how your parents feel and he will be understandin and if he really likes you or loves you than you parents want scare him off he will still be around. Hope that helps and good luck i do know how you feel.
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