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hey im 18/f i've been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year. For the last 4 months everytime we have sex it hurts like i cant continue with sex because it hurts. It burns like it feels like theres a cut at the bottom on the "hole" We are always well lubricated so that isnt the problem. I had a pap smear and the doctor never said anything about it and said that everything was normal. I've talked to a couple friends about it and they said just wait and let it heal. I do but then when we have sex again it gets cut again kind of like "ripping" and i cant continue with sex after that. I dont know whats wrong. But also when i have that cut if he puts even the head inside of me it just burns and hurts. Its never happened with any other boyfriend but him and it just started happening. Like i said i got a check up and they didnt find anything wrong. We usually do the missionary position because thats usually the only comfortable one for me, hes only about 5 inches and not too thick. Can anybody give me any type of advice? Ill rate!
Thanks again!
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Honestly Gyno's cant detect everything if you didn't tell them about the pain it is possible that they missed something that could be important. You need to schedule another appointment and you need to tell them the pain your having and what it feels like. I can tell you it's not normal and it could be something serious like endometriosis which is when uterine tissues migrate outside the uterus and grows along your pelvic cavity. Which can cause pain during sex, stronger cramps and can cause infertility. It could also be a severe cut but you need to go to a Gyno and tell them whats going on. Also don't have sex with him until you go to the doctor, you don't want to make it any worse than it already is. It doesn't matter if you had sex a month ago the gyno will be able to tell what the problem is without you going through anymore pain.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
Being male I cannot truly understand your question. Logic tells me, given your boyfriends size, that he should not be the cause of any tearing. I would also thing your GYN may not have seen anything during a routine Pap smear as the speculum would be covering the area you are complaining about.
I would suggest you schedule another visit with your GYN. If possible the night before your appointment you have some type of intercourse with your boyfriend, using a condom, so whatever is happening is fresh for the doctor to see. By some type I mean you need not complete the act if it is too painful for you. You need to use a condom to make sure your vagina is clear of any semen should you complete the act.
Make sure you tell the doctor everything you have written here, especially the part that it is only happening with this boyfriend and he is of normal size. Even though it may be embarrassing for you; the doctor needs this information in making a diagnosis.
Only your doctor can truly diagnose what is going on. Those of us on this website are not doctors and should not be offering medical advice. While some of the columnist may have had similar experiences as you are having, nothing says the cause is the same. You need to see your doctor and tell him/her exactly what is bothering you as well as the when, where and how of the problem.
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