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Into strange things
18/f
I've come to realize lately that I'm into having sex in what I'd consider to be a weird way, by being spanked and choked fairly hard. Yes, I know there are people who are into that kind of thing, but I'm just an ordinary girl and I'm extremely embarassed and ashamed of myself. How can I deal with this or change my preferences?
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We're not here to judge people but rather to get them to see their situation in more than one light. My concern is with choking. I think you should stop. A lot of people have been killed by it by partners who didn't know how to stop or applied too much force which turned fatal.
That's very dicey to be involved in. Also, it cuts off oxegyn to your brain temporarily which is not a good thing. You can look it up as it has a name Erotic asphyxiation. The term refers to intentionally cutting off oxygen to the brain for sexual arousal.
I wouldn't be ashamed or embarrassed or feel guilt but rather question anything that could be a dangerous practice. I don't think spanking can damage you psychologically or lead deviant behavior or something terrible occurring later on. Some people would disagree but it doesn't seem to be connected to any kind of abuse you suffered in the past etc. etc.
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There is nothing to be embarrassed about here, Everyone has there own fantasies. I'm also pretty sure that you are not the only person to feel this way or think this way about sex. Different things turn different people on and put them in the mood and this doesn't make you weird. If we were all the same and thought the same then god only knows the world would be boring. If this is something that bothers you then maybe you could try doing something different to lighten the mood.
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