ok so there is this guy at my college..... I really like him and I'm not sure if he likes me. We sit down and watch t.v. all the time and talk and laugh for like hours. He always looks at me in this way that I don't know how to explain it but he's sooo adorable. He makes me laugh like crazy and is a really good listener to. What should I do?
Rock_Chick13 answered Sunday September 6 2009, 8:29 pm: You can do simple little tricks to grab his attention like laying your head on his shoulder when your watching tv or giving him a smile and looking away. Simple little things like that let him know your interested. [ Rock_Chick13's advice column | Ask Rock_Chick13 A Question ]
Jaelle answered Sunday September 6 2009, 8:23 pm: Well, if he is an adult, and you are too... what are you waiting for? All signs to point to yes? I say ask him out for something casual.... "hey, I see District 9 is in town, wanna go see it?" If he asks if others can come, then he likes you as a friend and you'll have to accept that. If he agrees to come alone, then you're in the game. Gently begin to flirt with him, and see where it leads.
I am assuming here that you know how to flirt. If not... it's all about conversation and letting him know (gently) that you're attracted and available for him, if he wants to take you up on that offer.
onlyharu answered Sunday September 6 2009, 8:20 pm: I'm not sure. My mom always told me to marry my best friend. Now, you don't necessarily have to marry him, but you get the point.
Just get to be better friends, but always try to have there be a tiny, tiny element of love in there, or it could turn into one of those 'I see you more as a sibling' relationships.
You could always ask him to hang out and go to a restaurant or someplace like a park. Sort of like a friend date or something. Maybe he'll catch on. I don't know, that's the best advice I've got.
Good luck! [ onlyharu's advice column | Ask onlyharu A Question ]
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