Member Since: September 5, 2009
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Last Update: September 6, 2009
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ok so there is this guy at my college..... I really like him and I'm not sure if he likes me. We sit down and watch t.v. all the time and talk and laugh for like hours. He always looks at me in this way that I don't know how to explain it but he's sooo adorable. He makes me laugh like crazy and is a really good listener to. What should I do? (link)
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I'm not sure. My mom always told me to marry my best friend. Now, you don't necessarily have to marry him, but you get the point.
Just get to be better friends, but always try to have there be a tiny, tiny element of love in there, or it could turn into one of those 'I see you more as a sibling' relationships.
You could always ask him to hang out and go to a restaurant or someplace like a park. Sort of like a friend date or something. Maybe he'll catch on. I don't know, that's the best advice I've got.
Good luck!
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So the only guy I truely have feelings for and I now live about 2 hours away from eachother. His name is jason and I went to go hang out with him about 3 days ago and I was supposed to go to my dads at ten pm to stay the night then I would go home the next morning. Well while we were hanging out we drank a bit and I noticed he was spending alot of time with my homegirl mariah and it pissed me off so I made out with his best freind matt. Then like 2 hourse later me and mariah walked to round table to meet this girl that wanted to hang out with us. Her name is leighanne and she is not allowed to chill with me alone so her mom sat in the parking lot of the pizza place, and me and mariah told her if she wanted 2 drink that we would go get the bottle and bring it back 4 her. So when she gave us the money we bought a bottle of vodka and went back to jasons house (ditching leighanne with her money/bottle). Anyways me mariah jason matt and this guy martino all drank the bottle then we went to a place where there was more drink and we drank there then left. We went to this pond where me and jason had a really long talk about our relationship that turned in to a huge fight. Mariah and Matt left and Jason told me he wanted me to stay the night at his house so we could talk some more. Me not caring about my ten pm curfew went back to his house with him and martino. .......Well I guess earlier Leighanne (the girl we ditched/jacked) snuck out the back of the pizza place with her boyfreind and when her dad caught her it was already 12:30 am. My dad was with her dadd and they were looking for us so when they found her since she was obviously mad at me for ditching her she told my dad where jason lived. So My dad shows up at jasons house and is telling his parents im a runaway which is not even close to true. I was simply 2hours late. THEN I see leighanne walk up with her dad and I was unabled to stop myself from putting my hands on her. I guess I hurt her really bad (thats what my dad says). But besides that Jason is so mad all that drama was brought to his house and he refuses my calls and wont reply my myspace messages, He even told mariah he is pissed at me cuz he thinks i was a runaway. I am unabled to explain to him anything plus he was already upset with me that day for making out with matt and our fight. Since im so far away from him also I cant just go find him and talk to him in person. I feel like it may really be over between us and that hurts especially that it ended this way! Plus I really want to call and make sure leighanne is ok and talk to her. I know I was EXTREMELY messed up to her that day but at one time she was my best friend. That day just pretty much fucked up my life! :::My parents dont trust me to come home on time! I lost A best friend! And may have lost the love of my life. (link)
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Ahhh...it sounds like you dug yourself a pretty deep hole. Sorry, but it sounds like you need to find some people who aren't so into drama. Drama is probably one of the dumbest things on the planet, look where it got you and your buddies.
Sorry for your troubles. I'm not you and I don't know the whole situation. If you can't fix this or talk to whoever keeps refusing to talk to you, then what CAN you do? Try, and if that fails, you just have to move on. You'll get along alright. Haha, wouldn't it have been easier if you'd of at least called your parents to tell then you'd be late?
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