I tell it like it is. First impressions are not everything; judge me on one and I will hate you, get to know me & I will love you. I love comedy and think people without a sense of humor should be slapped. I like to get wild & often get twisted. I love adventures & long island ice teas. I hate moochers & rich assholes. I think way too many people waste precious time. I think you should always have a plan B so if plan A fails your not lost & if your smart you will have a plan C. I believe everything happens for a reason & haven’t completely figured it all out yet. Always forgive, but never forget. Don’t look back, look to the future.
E-mail: sistasvice@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: Business Analyst
Age: 25
Member Since: August 12, 2009
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is it true that it hurts guys to shave down there? my boyfriend said he would start shaving for me but like i dont want himto hurt himself...oh and is it also true that guys don't respect guys who shave down there if they ever find out about it? (link)
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I am not sure about the second part of your question but as far as the first part...My friend and I were chatting about this a few weeks ago and she said her bf shaved down there & they then had sex and it felt great. However a few days later they had sex again and she said it was so painful as he rubbed up against her. So my advice is if hes going to do he has to stay on top of it daily or every other day. He could also try trimming it so when it grows its not stubbly like a cactus! LOL. Or ofcourse he can just let nature run its course!
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I really feel like im going to kill myself because I am never happy anymore. And I'm just a 13 years old girl. I want to change to a online school because I figure I won't get teased as much, but they are already closed for the school year. I can't go to my school and I don't want to run away. Maybe I'm a coward but I really do need help. Can someone tell me where I could find an online school for ninth grade so I won't have to go to my high school Because I know that ending your life is not such a good idea? (link)
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What i do when i get upset & think there’s no way out, i just think to myself "it could always be worse" & then i think of situations that could make it worse & that i am lucky that i am not in that situation. With that said let me tell you how i dealt with teasing & harassment. The first thing i did was always always put on a smile & did not show any emotion even if i wanted to cry & scream. This is what bullies want you to do, they want a reaction! if you don’t give them one they loose! Walk around like you own the world, do not think for a minute that these kids are better then you, these people are getting pleasure out of hurting someone else so obviously there is something very wrong with them! You should apologize to them for being born with such an unfortunate setback! One of the things that is very important is to know how important you are & that you are so much better then these kids. Take it from someone who has been to hell and back…everything happens for a reason, you learn from everything, this will only make you stronger & better equipped for the future. I know you probably hear this a lot but hang in there sweetie, it will get better.
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The one person I have ever loved, who I lost my virginity to (huge mistake), bared my soul to, shared my future goals and dreams with, and who I planned my entire future with, doesn't want me anymore. He broke up with me today after 3 years of dating. I really thought we were going to get married and have a good future life together. This completely came out of the blue. Just yesterday we went out on a little dinner date and he bought me flowers. Today he told me that he's thought about things and just doesn't want me any more. I didn't see this coming. How can I cope? I feel like my entire world has been destroyed.
How can I get through this pain? He told me he doesn't need time to think about it or anything. He is very certain that this is the best decision. I can't stop thinking of what we had together and what we have gone through. I keep thinking about how STUPID I was for losing my virginity to him and trusting him with every ounce of myself. I am so lost. Please help me figure this all out! (link)
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Ok first of all he did you a favor. Get up and go look in the mirror and tell yourself I will not cry over this asshole(even if hes not one) he doesnt deserve a single tear of mine. Do you think he is crying or sititng around being depressed about you, i doubt it! Time is presious & you should not waste it being sad about some guy. Friends are very important & will be key to helping you through this. Do a girls nite out & get lots of phone numbers (not that you should call any back but it will make you feel better. As far as the virginity thing goes, it sounds like the 2 of u had a good relationship & so you shouldnt really regret loosing it to him. And the thing about having regret is you cant change so past so why spend any time wishing you could. My best advice that doesnt just apply to breakups is EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, this guy was clearly not your soul mate, as much as he made you happy there is someone out there that will make you happier! Lastly, when you meet that guy that just sweeps you off your feet, who calls you a princess, whose life revolvs around you & your needs, the guy who you literally could not live without...you will realize that everything does happen for a reason (if you dont already)! Also, after being in a 3yr relationship soudns like you could use some serious single lady time to find yourself & redefine new goals for you & only you!
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I don't really have a certain style at all and I'm sick of it. All my clothes are plain and boring because I have no idea what sort of style to wear because I dont have a style at all. Even my room, has no style or theme. Its just a bit of anything really. My sister for example wears girly clothes, like lace and pale colours, she would enever wear punky sort of stuff. I'm going on a shopping spree and I need some help!! (link)
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First you should have the everyday clothes that for girls your age is the ae/abercrombie/hollister kind of look. But then you have the "girls night out" look where its a bit more sexy & edgy-check out forever21, amazing stuff very cheep!) One thing you should definately invest in are some heels, they can make any pair of jeans hott & can make a casual outfit very sexy. The most important thing about anyones style is that they are comfortable in it! Lastly i am wondeirng if there are any celebrities whose style you admire? I can give you alot more info if you share some more about you & what you like!! & remember its never to late to reinvent yourself!! Goodluck & msg me back if you want some more feedback!
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