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I think I am being pressured into sex.. I have a boyfriend who just wants to have sex sex sex sex sex SEX!! and I am getting tired of telling him no! I am too young I am only 14(8months). we been together only 7 months and all he ever ask about is sex sex and more sex.. what do i do??? I feel he is not going to respect me if do manage to have sex with him after a while....
I NEED HELP !
Im NOT readyy!!!
-Jay Help! (link)
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dump his ass
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My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out? (link)
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Alright I'm a little confused... You're a classy girl but you've had fifteen hookups since your relationship ended?? Okayyy... Well I'm just gonna tell you right now that you can hook up witha thousand guys and it's not going to help you get over your ex. It doesn't matter if it's the sexiest guy on the planet. Shalllllowww... Hahah, nah I'm just playing. Litsen baby, coming from a guy perspective (so this may be a little off) when I want to get over a girl I don't go around to parties and makout with random chicks... althought it's fun and makes you feel better for a night, in the long run it just takes time to get over someone. So I'm not sure how long it's been for you but why don't you try spending time with your friends and not hooking up anymore? It's just gonna hurt you more in the end. Good luck babe.
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me and my boyfriend fool around and stuff and he has given me oral and we've done pretty much everything except intercourse. but the other day he was fingering me and was like "vag is really gross" like he didn't say mine he was just saying in general...this just makes me wonder if he's mature enough because i mean, what kind of girl likes to hear that after being fingered? girls, am i the only one who would get a little offended or turned off? what do you guys thinkk (link)
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hahahaha. yeah, i agree, poor guy just picked the wrong time. but admit it. vag IS gross and so are dicks. thats life babe.
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how to do a split for the first time (link)
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hahaha, I definitely CANNOT do the splits but my girlfriend is a cheerleader and I remember her trying to learn how to do them. You have to work up to them. Do these crazy stetches. One of them you go up to a wall, sit in front of it, facing it. then you spread your legs out across it, and basically try to touch your crotch to the wall. Does that make sense?? It looks crazy painful cuz then your supposed to get another chick to puch your back so it looks like it hurts like hell but my girlfriend says its fine, you just gotta start small and work up to it. Hope I helped.
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Long story short, I talked to this girl everyday for a couple months over the summer, and when she moved back to school I asked her out, only for her to say it was complicated because of an old relationship. She never straight up said "no," but that's basically the jist of what she said. Anyway, our conversations started to dwindle a bit right after that, it was a little awkward. But we kept talking, and we're back to talking nearly everyday now, hanging out on the weekends, etc. I'm nervous to ask her again, but here's my question. Girls, if a guy said he liked you and you didn't like him back, would you keep talking to him? She knows how I feel, and yet if she doesn't feel the same way why would she talk to me? (link)
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yup. girls love attention.
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For halloween I'm dressing up as like 80's style. I have leg warmers and leggings. I'm getting this blue batwing style top at the weekend, just wondered if this would look good?
I also have one of them high waisted skirts but it's dark blue, so I'm not sure if it would really go with the style.
So I've got everything sorted but the skirt so any suggestions would be helpful :)
Also, I'm going to get a thick bright coloured headband and kinda backcomb the back of my hair, or just use sunglasses as a headband?
Thanks :) (link)
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don't wear the skirt. im pretty sure it was the style to just wear leggings and a long t shirt/sweatshirt.
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hi :] im 16/f
to start with there is a boy i really like. we have known eachother for about 6 months now. we were always just friends but we always flirted with eachother and he always said he thought i was hot etc. anyway i realised i really liked him as more than a friend, so i told him. he said he felt the same. after that we just kissed and hugged and stuff. about a month later we had an argument and we fell out (not for long bcos he soon apoligised) ever since then we keep falling out for stupid reasons. he said he really likes me, his friends have said he really likes me, but i still dont think he does. we arent dating, but he still gets so jealous when all i do is talk to another boy. i dont know if hes just being a stupid boy or whether he actually doesnt like me? he argued with me last week because he said i only call/text him when im bored. my friend says she thinks he just thinks i dont like him? he always says that he thinks i dont give a sh*t, which isnt true but i think i might give that impression. since then we havent really spoke, but we go through fall outs like this and then were friends again! should i just give up? (link)
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first off, you dont break up when you get into a fight. you fix it and move on. um sorry that happened to you baby but dont give up.
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16/f
my boyfriend is 17 years old, and i let him go to homecoming with his friend since it was his friend's senior year and including the fact that he already bought him a ticket. i was against it at first, because he lost my trust like... 8 months ago when he flirted with a girl, but ever since i talked to him about it.. it didn't do it ever again. and at first my boyfriend didn't want to go because he knew i would be upset, but i told him to since his friend already got him one... and just not to have anything happen (flirting with girls, cheating) or whatever... even though he doesn't do anything close to that, but you know.. just telling him. So, i was supposed to see him after homecoming at 10:30, and on my way driving back from work he texted me saying "hunnie ima have to see you later" i sent a question mark and i was always wondering how come our plans keep getting canceled. but he never answered. i stayed up til 1 waiting for his phone call since his parents said to be back with the car by 12:30... no answer. i called him a couple of times, but he never answered the phone. so i woke up at 9, and called him it went straight to his voice mail (my guess was that his phone died) so i went on facebook and it said he was on.. at 5 in the morning. which made me mad, because he didn't answer my text or call me and he was up at 5 in the morning... then i tried going back to sleep, but i started having dreams about him and it kind of pissed me off. so when it was 12, that was when he was supposed to be at work. so i called *straight to voice mail again* so when it was 12:30 i called.. IT FINALLY RANG! but it only rang 3 to 4 times, and it went to voice mail *rejected phone call* then i called another 2 times, same thing. then i called again, it went straight to voice mail, so then i called again after waiting for 5 minutes, it rang 3 to 4 times... *rejected*
i thought he was avoiding me and stuff, so i don't really know what to do. i don't really want to end up going to his work place and ask to talk to him. i just really want to know what the heck is going on and why didn't he answer my phone calls or text me back.... help please?! (link)
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maybe he's not answering cuz he's scared half to death about you yelling at him. no offense baby, but you sound a little physco. no big deal though, its hot. look he probably didnt do anything and he just isnt in the mood to get screamed at. so chill.
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okay, so i just turned 15 in late july. i have my period and all other signs of puberty but no breasts at all. and i don't mean small, i mean nothing. i'm kind of small, like 110 pounds and almost 5'4, but all of my weight is in my hips, my thighs, and my butt and it's gross because everywhere else on me is tiny including my non-existant chest. i've posted a lot of questions on here about how i haven't developed boobs and im 15, but all people say is wait. so i'm trying, even though it's really hard considering i already have been waiting for 6 years now (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9). i'm hungry all the time but i don't eat a whole lot because i'm afraid if i gain any weight my body will just be even grosser and i'll still have no chest and a huge butt, thighs, and hips- even if there's a chance that i'll grow boobs in the process i don't want to risk it if my body gets even worse and they still don't come. i don't get any exercise because i can't play sports (i suck and am not athletic at all) and i live in town so i don't want to go for a walk or a run and everyone sees me. i'm not lazy it's just i can't find a way to exercise. i absolutely hate my body and don't know what to do. sorry if this is a lot at once, but if you have any advice at all i would really appreciate it :/ (link)
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get a tread mill(sp)
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Hi. 14/f long im sorry, please read though ;(
Ok, I made a lot of mistakes. I lost a respect from a best friend,(cierra) i told something she told me in confidence to my other best friend(shaila). I shouldn't have and i regret it so much, we are trying to start over again, it's so hard though because both cierra and shaila hate each other. They are fighting, and shaila she is my best friend now because she helped me threw a lot. Threw the fighting with cierra and with a guy who really hurt me(i will get to him soon) I really regret telling Shaila but i could trust shaila, but cierra can't. She never gave shaila a chance though, she's really a good person. I hate her criticizing her, she's also mad that she's my best friend now, but i can't help that. She treated me horrible, i didn't treat her right either though. Now, on to the boy. You see he was the guy i really thought "loved" me. He made me feel good, he told me i was pretty, hot sexy and all of that. He said i love and i want to hold you and stuff.We met last summer and i liked him and he liked me to, i found out that he liked this other girl to. I didn't like the idea of that. He used me, because the other girl lives all the way in Florida. We talked like dirty to each other and all that, he actually got me to do that.I decided to forget about him than he came back, i was stupid enough to take him as my boyfriend. I really thought we would last. Than the thing that i regret the MOST is, i sent him a pic of me nude. Not fully only one breast.He convinced me, by sending me a picture of his.. you know. So, i thought we were the real deal? That we were really together and he really cared about me, but the next day he broke up with me, telling me that i was CHEATING on him?!!! So, we were over. I moved on off of him, i have someone else, but i feel so horrible and i really need some help. I feel sick all the time, i vomit every morning on my way to school because im so stressed because of all of this. I don't eat as much as i use to. I'm so depressed. Please someone help me, how do i forget what i did move on? I know what i did was wrong, i asked god to forgive me of my sins, but i still feel like a horrible person. Shaila tells me that i'm not, im the best thing that ever happend to her, im the only friend who gives her repsect, and she doesnt want to lose me. Please don't criticize me more please, just help alright?
Thanks for listening sorry it's so long. (link)
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hold up baby, whats this guy's name?? not kidding, i think i know this asshole.
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how can i get my boyfriend to dirty text me? like i hint that he should and like try making things dirty and he says that he feels bad and i tried explaining to him that he shouldnt feel bad cause its just for fun lol and he was like okay. but he still doesn't do it...soo how can i get him to lol (link)
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by dirty texting do you mean sending pictures or just saying dirty things? well doesnt really matter. he's obviously not a tool and can see that pictures are skanky and dirty messages are dumb. sorry.
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Now that I am or anything, I swear I'm not that young, but I'm just curious :) (link)
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you know what you feel, who gives a shit what you call it. dont let people tell you what you can and cant feel.
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I know for a fact that Vampires are not supposed to be dating werewolves, but is it ok if the other is rogue? Would the person in charge of the colony/pack kill the two lovers? I would like your help as soon as possible. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN VAMPIRES/WEREWOLVES DO NOT ANSWER!!!
Thanks (link)
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ahhhh damn. i answered one of your craazzy vampire questions before, and you rated me a one... but ill be good this time. well from my knowledge after being whipped into reading twilight by my gf, i have learned that vampires and werewolves dont like eachother a whole lot. sounds like the little clans would get pretty pissed. i dunno if theyd kill the one that was their species tho... if i were a vampire and one of my vampire buddies was dating a werewolf, i would kill the werewolf. why would i wanna kill my bro?
hey but uhhh, can i ask why your asking this??
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Okay I know that when I guy does everything his gilrfriend says, they call him whipped, but what you call a girl that does everything her boyfriend told her to? (link)
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hahahaha. you use the term "good girlfriend"
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so me and my crush were streaking (yeah i know, it's like not right or whatever) but it was in his backyard hahaa. anyways so it was the first time he seen me naked and i don't have the biggest of boobs. i have like a 34b..
and i have a good body, i'm in shape. it's just self-conscious about the boobs thing. well me and him were at our friends house and my friend was like he's talking dirty about you! and then i was standing there in like a tank top and i could hear him doing gestures to his friend about me but i didn't know if it was good or bad.
i'm really self-conscious he thinks i have small boobs. he didnt say anything. i know he wants to get with me and thinks im really hot but my boobs look bigger because i usually wear a push up bra.
i just don't know if hes talking good about me or not!?
by the way i'm 19/f (link)
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The smaller the perkier, baby. Really, big boobs get saggy. Sounds like he liked what he saw. Dude sounds like a creep though... hand gestures?
kyle
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so i'm a nineteen year old female.
i really really like this guy, buuuut he thinks i'm a huge tease! i mean i do tease guys, but i have the intentions of actually going through with it.
he's like you won't do this, you won't do that you're just a tease! and honestly i would do anything sexual with him it's just really.. he tries to do everything at the WRONG time.
and i was with him tonight and he was like i'm soooo tired i'm going home. and he was like you can come over and we can have a sleepover ;) and i was like alright i'll be over and he was like i know you won't. and i was like yahhh i will! and i was being totally serious and then he left and never texted me or anything so i was like ok whatever!
how can i prove to him that i'm not a tease? i've told him i wanted to have sex with him before, he knows i do! it's just actually getting to the point of doing it, like i'm not scared i just don't know how it'll happen.
how can i just get with him, and show him that i'm not a tease and i really do WANT him? (link)
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HAHAHAHAHAHA. Oh God. Like a wild cat...? hahahah I'm sorry. That's hilarious. Okay, I'm done. Hahaha. So yeah, I guess agreee with that "wild cat" girl below me. Ha. He's trying to use reverse pyschology on you. You know, you tell someone they can't do something so they do it just to prove them wrong. Thing is, this tactic usually works better on males as I've noticed. Chicks just don't respond to that as well. Some do, but most just see it as being put down and dissed, so not really a good move on his part. But whatever, point is he wants you, so what I think you should do is this: take charge baby. Tell him what you want. Tell him to come over. Now. And then, hahaha, "attack him like a wild cat". Hahahah. Hell, go all out and buy a costume! Hahaha. Jeez, I'm gonna be laughing about that for days...
kyle
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how can i turn on a guy discreetly without being slutty or nonchalant? Like ways i can do it while still staying a few feet away and without talking to them? (link)
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Try casually tucking your hand into the back pocket of your jeans (if you have a nice ass)it draws attention to it. Or (if you have nice lips) pretend to be pouting at a piece of homework. Also, plaly with your hair. Like tilt your head back and run your fingers through it. The best way though is to look over, and when we look back, look away really quickly. Please only do this if you're attractive.
kyle
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ive been having these weird thoughts latley that i just want to make out with this one guy.
he wants to hang out with me and id think thatd be a great oppurtunity. lol.
but the problem is... im gunna feel like a slut.
or something like that.. you know?
ive never kissed anyone.
but he just seems like the type to kiss.
should i forget about it or just straight up tell him i wanna make out?
nothing slutty tho.
thanks in advance!
i hope its not confusing. (link)
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Hahahahaha. If that's what you call slutty then I'm a total man-whore. Dang baby, just make out with him, I bet he wants to just as much as you do. He say's he wants to "hang out" which is pretty much boy code for I want to get some action. Go for it.
kyle
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ok its a boy that i liked for a long time and his nephew said he liked me but when i asked him he said no then i said o then yesterday he txted me hey friend and hey do i have a boy friend and i said no then he txted me is im gone to a boyfriend then i said maybe or maybe not then he said o then he had to go then i said hold on let ask him a question and he said wat then i said do he hav a girl friend and then he said no and he dont want 1 rite and then i said me too then we said bye now do that mean he like or something PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! (link)
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Wowwww. I could not understand that at all. But what I did understand was that he said he didn't want a girlfriend, and that means he doesn't want a girlfriend. That doesn't mean you can't change is mind though.
kyle
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what kind of north face backpacks do people use?
i definitely want the mesh water bottle holders with either a mesh front or a criss cross pattern. i can't think of the name of them !
help pleasee (: (link)
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I believe you are thinking of jester, but econ is my favorite.
kyle
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