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How many hookups does it take to get over a guy?
My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out?
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Hooking up with guys doesn't help you get over your exes. Hooking up with someone random is usually a "I don't really care about this guy, he's not who I want." type of thing. The guy you want is sitting at home or with his friends.
Honestly, if you still like him so much, ask him back out.
But stop calling yourself classy. 15 hookups since September is not classy.
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If you still like him then it shouldnt matter what other people such as your friends; the catty girls; or his dad. Its how you two feel. No1 else matters in yerr guys relation ship. Give it another shot :) Hope i helped!. Let me knoe how it goes!!
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Alright I'm a little confused... You're a classy girl but you've had fifteen hookups since your relationship ended?? Okayyy... Well I'm just gonna tell you right now that you can hook up witha thousand guys and it's not going to help you get over your ex. It doesn't matter if it's the sexiest guy on the planet. Shalllllowww... Hahah, nah I'm just playing. Litsen baby, coming from a guy perspective (so this may be a little off) when I want to get over a girl I don't go around to parties and makout with random chicks... althought it's fun and makes you feel better for a night, in the long run it just takes time to get over someone. So I'm not sure how long it's been for you but why don't you try spending time with your friends and not hooking up anymore? It's just gonna hurt you more in the end. Good luck babe.
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...Hooking up with guys at parties will not help you get over someone you really liked, no matter how many guys. All you're doing is trying to put a band-aid over a wound. I have no idea where you got that idea from but it doesn't work. You honestly think made a mistake by breaking up with him and deep down you know it. You should have stuck it out if he was a great guy. The best thing I can say is maybe talk to him, hopefully it'll make you feel better and give you some closure so you can start to really get over him.
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well sounds to me no matter what guy you hook up the one you broke up with is the one who has your heart sure you may be better looking and stuff but do you really think that personally about someone you cared for and what should it matter what others think your relationship with someone else is sacred and should never be broken by outsiders or family and well sounds to me you have to ask yourself will i keep doing this and see where it leads me or if al find someone else like him or you can just face up to the fact your not over him and hes the one you want to be with ive been in the same situation as you my dear and i understand personally i do but dont make the mistake some others do and leave it to late and he moves on before you have the chance to save what you had and i hope this helps .
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