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hey i am a normal person like you and every other i go through day to day issues and well i feel like i can dish out some decent advice if needed and would like to help others a wont be harsh il tell you exactly what you need to here but in the way a would myself deal with the problem if i was in the same situation and hopefully this advice may help you i am new to this so just getting into the swing of things and well i hope to recieve your feedback and ratings on my advice and i hope resolve your issues with the advice you recieve on here .
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i like this guy and he likes me but he's really talkative and hyper all the time and im usually talkative around people im comfortable with but around people i havent been around for a while i get shy. for some reason i dont feel comfortable around him so im really quiet and shy around him... what should i do to start talking more and feeling more comfortable around him? a lot of the times i also don't know how to respond to him so theres an awkward silence... what should i do then?
just relax and take it one step at a time i wouldnt force yourself to talk more if your just not comfy with it say to him you like him lots and stuff just that it takes time to settle in with new people and explain how sometimes you dont know what to say to him cause you like him so much and your just a little shy am sure he will understand honesty is the best policy if your wanna get a relationship with this guy just be yourself dont change who you are hope this helps.
17/f
Sometimes It feels like I'm the only one trying in my relationship with my boyfriend. He lacks in calling me & texting me & he often forgets about everything. He says he cares about me , that he wants to make sure I'm happy but instead of being happy I'm upset almost every day & I getting sick of bitting my tounge and prettending like everythings fine when in reality it isn't. He's in college & I understand college is diffrent from highschool but it feels like I'm his sidechick . I know he loves me and I'm certain he's not cheating on me he's just really busy. I've had these conversations with him & have often tried telling him how I feel. But sometimes he makes me feel like he seriously does not care..I just don't know what to do anymore I really don't want to look at leaving him as an option I care a lot for him and I really want to see us work out..how can I express myself more to him in a way that will get him to listen?
take him out of his comfort zone where you would usually comfront him go out make a night of it and then at the end gently break the ice and speak to him and let him know how you feel and explain how you know hes busy and stuff but let him realise hw its affecting you and how much you care for him and tell him hw much little fings like fone calls and stuff make you feel loved and hw you miss them and even if he doesnt do it all the time once and a while would be nice because you love him so dearly and just like to know he s around for you and how he shoodnt forget the little stuff cause it means so much hope this helps.
17/F
When i'm at school, in lunch at the same time everyday I get really blotchy on my chest, the side of my face, sometimes my upper arms, and the back of my neck. I dont know whats causing this but its happened before in other situations like when i went in for my job interview. Im really pale so the blotchy patches are much more noticable. I dont know what to do, but it's so embarassing! It usually happens when i'm nervous, or I feel out of place. My chest gets really hot, and so does my face and then in no time I turn all red and blotchy! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
could be a sweat rash or maybe a fungal infection cause there both blotchy just go and see your dp and get the once over and im sure theyll tell you what it is and what its related to and what causes it and give you some sorta cream or something to help .
what color wrapper represents what condoms out of the box? l got rid of the box to make it easier to hide from my parents. but i dont know which one is which. also what do each of them do or what are they called? i bought the box of twelve and the wrappers are either gray, orange or yellow. please help me as best as you can. l want to know which ones are which before l use them
sounds like a variety pack .
orange - are natural ones just makes it feel a bit more natural to be honest .
gray - just normal ones and does what it says on the pack nothing really special about these ones yet again it could be the sensitive ones for tender people in areas like that always get confused between that but either way thats really all they are hope this helps and next time you buy some get the wrapper from the box and keep it as they will most likey have the use and what there for inside with information .
when putting music on a ipod touch do you have to use itunes or can you just put music from your computer on to it ?
you can do both to be honest but either way you would have to use itunes to transfer the music to the device up to you to be honest which ever way you find easier and i hope this helps.
why wont my msn emotcions ( the smiley faces etc.. ) work its really annoying. any help please ?
well sometimes in msn you have to go to the tools and options bit and click on messages and click on show emotions and show custom emotion boxes and usually that helps fix the problem . good luck and hope this helps .
ok. im lke a 36 d or c or sumthing like that. well on my boobs like around the niple and every were on my boobs are lil hair like things and sometimes a couple are kinda prickly and you can pull them out like with your tweezers and they get a lil red for a few mins. well my question is what is that? is it normal. or wat will guys get turned off by it? thanks in advance
the hair on your nipples is normal and pulling them out with tweezers will maybe cause them to grow in worse maybe that would explain why you have hairy boobs everyones diffrent use scissors and cut the hairs and just dont tweeze them out and maybe use some hair removal cream and no they wont get turned off but i must say it isnt that rare that you find a girl with hairy boobs so im guessin pullin them out with tweezers may be increasing the growth in other areas of your chest hope this helps .
I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages form the s-slut saying stuff like good night and sweet dreams (think she likes him because he told me the s-slut was talking about me to him saying why do you like her? shes weird, you should like me. and ohhhh, did that piss me off. we used to be friends but then she talks about me behind my back and its over lol). but even though i hear all of this stuff, i am not jelous at all. do you think maybe its because i dont know him well enough or brcause i dont like him in that way? usually i would be a lil bit jelous of this but not this time. im just wondering if it is a feeling that i would turn out to like him or if i just really dont care. please help with these confusing thoughts!
and by the way...my friend ends upp texting him and says sumthin like y arent you texting her back, unless you like 's-sluts name' now. then he texts me no, i dont like her, i like you. and i was like, yeah right. . . . and this would be my first bf by the way. i've been asked out before but im not desperate to go out with anyone i dont really like so i turned them all down.
tricky situation .
erm well first of all yeah your right it could be just a feeling but then again you dont know unless you give it a shot erm lifes to short to wonder what if and if shes slagging you off its only cause she wants something she cant have and you can have what she wants thats just bitches for you to be honest , erm well not everyone is so talkitive at the beginning as you say me may be shy everyone is diffrent so i would think it through and then make your decision but dont base it on what your freinds have seen or what theyve read base it on how you feel good luck and hope this helps.
okay so i was at my friend's house and her boyfriend was over and his friend was over too. we were watching a movie and his friend (we'll call him mitch) came and sat by me. halfway thru the movie his put his arm around me and like..rubbed his foot on mine. after the movie he said he had to go to sleep cuz he had to work in the morning. he left and then 5 min. later he came back and asked if i wanted to go lay down with him..and...well the bad thing is i did but nothing happened..we just cuddled. i dont even kno his last name. :/ missa 15/f
i have read your question thoroughly and i shall give you two answers its a tricky one
well he likes you and well if he came back doesnt always mean thats a bad thing means hes intrested the only way to find out if your a booty call is to watch out for signs of him trying to make you one and well if he thinks that of you i would tell him to get lost cause you dont wanna lose yourself respect due to a dumb player who doesnt know a decent girl when he see s one and if he was a gentlemen he would have told you his second name or you should just ask your freind maybe he doesnt fink that matter some men are like rocks clueless and i hope this helps.
I had to write a paper for my english class on Ancient Egyptians. The paper is about everything from their daily lives to gods to pharaohs to schools to just about everything. Please please please help me come up with a creative A+ title. :)
missa
the wonders of the egyptian world
i think that would be a good title .
hope it helps x
Yes, I am aware that the most likely answer is that I am pregnant, but I thought I would ask: is your breasts are making a smell like milk but you aren't expressing any milk and nothing is leaking then could this be a sign of pregnancy?
Thank you!
well it is sign that you may be pregnant unless you have already had a kid then that maybe would explain if not then your best going to see ypur gp there is a possibility you may be pregant .
As you may have guessed I am a redhead. I get teased a LOT mostly by other girls but I never have anything to say to come back with so I either cry or get really mad and walk away.
What are some good comebacks for people who make fun of me just because I am a redhead? You would think it was a crime to have red hair the way they talk to me. :(
Thank you!
hey am a redhead and the best thing to do is reply and agree n say n wit they wont have anything to say or just ignore them and walk away laughin cos there looking for a reaction and if you give them what they are looking for they will just keep giving you greif from one red head to another just ignore them and they should leave you alone .
So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it?
well sounds to me he may be shy or as you say he could be avoiding you but if you have done something wrong only you would know and well you shouldnt comfront him just speak to him politely and ask why he s being like that and well if yous had a good time and stuff you dont understand why hes being like that with you and well he should tell you the truth .
so i like this boy in the year above me in school an he knows i like him but he doesnt no that i love him because i do love him. i really wont to tell him how i feel about him but im scared that he will just laugh an tell all his friends an they will just laugh at me as well. i thiguh about maybe tellin him on msn because i could mever do it face to face, but i just really dont no what to do im scared. please hellp me :'(
well i get what you mean its hard to express feelings but under no circumstances should you do it by msn or any other messaging network as he can save conversations and show others and you fear may become a reality and he would laugh it up with his mates if he doesnt like you back best thing to is get him on his own and speak to him and let him no that you like him a lot but do not mention the word love as that makes some guys run a mile and it would maybe freak him out best possible move is face to face comfrontation and avoid having an audience that way he has no proof what so ever you said a word to him . :)
at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that
there is nothing wrong with dancing your self you just need to pluck up the courage and say wanna dance and then the more confident you get you will notice the more people will dance with you i cant dance a stitch myself and well that doesnt stop me you go girl and you dance with who ever you wanna dance with and if they say no well the loss is theres cause am sure there losing out on a good dance partner .
Hi there my friend has a prescription for "clamovid" in her purse. I saw it while I was looking for her keys. What is it exactly? And what would it be for? I know I am being nosy but we do have sexual relations and that does have the word "clam" in it if you see where my mind went. :)
I need to know if I should get checked out because of what she is taking? Anyone?
i think you should google it i did and it says for mild , moderate , sivere infections doesnt say what though and you should just ask your freind or sexual partner why they had it am sure they wont mind and it will put your mind at rest or otherwise google it yourself and have a little read and see if it helps you see it more clearer.
My question is pretty self explanatory. Long story short I was in an amazing relationship that began in July and ended well in September. I ended it with him because I couldn't all the drama that came from it (not from him but the catty girls and his dad thinking I didn't like him for him because I was so pretty, his brother thinking I'm a ****, etc.) and I still liked him and it killed me to do it and I still miss him a lot. My friends are all like you're too good for him blah blah the usual. I've hooked up with eh about 15 guys so far at parties, mixers, etc and no not like blow-jobs, or having intercourse or any of that. Just you know making out and stuff. I'm by far one of the classiest girls at my school and I still have looks to die for. Anyways yeah and I'm still NOT over him. You'd think after 15 hookups one including an American Apparel model that I'd be totally over it but nope. Can you guys help me out?
well sounds to me no matter what guy you hook up the one you broke up with is the one who has your heart sure you may be better looking and stuff but do you really think that personally about someone you cared for and what should it matter what others think your relationship with someone else is sacred and should never be broken by outsiders or family and well sounds to me you have to ask yourself will i keep doing this and see where it leads me or if al find someone else like him or you can just face up to the fact your not over him and hes the one you want to be with ive been in the same situation as you my dear and i understand personally i do but dont make the mistake some others do and leave it to late and he moves on before you have the chance to save what you had and i hope this helps .
Are there any guys out there that straighten their hair? I want to but I really don't know how to do it.
Can anyone help me? And do you think a guy with straightened hair is sexy?
hi and yes there is other guys out there that straighten there hair i know a few and yeah its sexy and its pretty straight foward just use a comb and straighten into the style you feel comfortable with and finish it off with hair spray or gel to hold it in place and there you go :) hope this helps .
Hi there,
My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and I am looking for a 2 year anniversary gift for him. Do you have any ideas? He like all the usual boy stuff. :)
Thank you!
hi there are many things depends what hes into aftershave , tickets for a gig , football strip , erm a watch , tickets to see his fave football team , clothes , could just give him money and let him pick it out , take him out for a romantic meal and then go to the cinema or something , cd or dvds or if he s a guy who likes to do diffrent styles with his hair get his hair done or a tattoo or something hope this helps you a little and have a good anniversary :) all the best .
Can anyone tell me some jokes that girls like? I want to get to know this one girl but I am the funny guy but I don't think girls would like my usual jokes. So do you have at least one joke to tell girls without offending them somehow?
Thank you!
hi speaking from a girls point of you .. you should just be yourself and stop stressing because if your genuinely the funny guy as you say then they will laugh at the jokes you make just make sure there suitable for girls to here and well you should be fine there isnt much i can say i dont know any jokes but best thing to is ask one of your boy mates and they should help you out :) .