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How do i answer him???
I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages form the s-slut saying stuff like good night and sweet dreams (think she likes him because he told me the s-slut was talking about me to him saying why do you like her? shes weird, you should like me. and ohhhh, did that piss me off. we used to be friends but then she talks about me behind my back and its over lol). but even though i hear all of this stuff, i am not jelous at all. do you think maybe its because i dont know him well enough or brcause i dont like him in that way? usually i would be a lil bit jelous of this but not this time. im just wondering if it is a feeling that i would turn out to like him or if i just really dont care. please help with these confusing thoughts!
and by the way...my friend ends upp texting him and says sumthin like y arent you texting her back, unless you like 's-sluts name' now. then he texts me no, i dont like her, i like you. and i was like, yeah right. . . . and this would be my first bf by the way. i've been asked out before but im not desperate to go out with anyone i dont really like so i turned them all down. <---i just dont know about this one.
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Actually ive been thru a texting situation like you.. and im confused like you are. He says he likes me but than he dont. And he never talks to me in school evan though we sit next 2 eachother.
For your advice...Instead of texting him, talk to him on the phone so u will know eachother better. its better than texting because a guy or girl have time to think of a witty comment to tell you.
Take it slow be friends and atleast try talking abit in school.
and if u want to be with him, think of what your heart and mind wants. Then you will find and achieve your answer. Hope I helped.
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well, i think that you should tell him that you would like to chill. Just hang out and get to know each other more. That way you know wether or not you want to be his boyfriend. This way you can really figure out how you feel about him for real.If you go out with him without knowing him then you might not like what you see...so its probably better to just chill with him a few times and see if this is what you want. But anyway. I hope this helped and goodluck!
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tricky situation .
erm well first of all yeah your right it could be just a feeling but then again you dont know unless you give it a shot erm lifes to short to wonder what if and if shes slagging you off its only cause she wants something she cant have and you can have what she wants thats just bitches for you to be honest , erm well not everyone is so talkitive at the beginning as you say me may be shy everyone is diffrent so i would think it through and then make your decision but dont base it on what your freinds have seen or what theyve read base it on how you feel good luck and hope this helps.
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well hun im sorry to say but i cant really help you with this one :/ only you can decided if you like him or not. why dont you try to hangout wit him sometime and see if you like the reall him. you can go wit friends so its more comfortable for ya but youll get to know him better if ur alone lol. i wish i could help more but im sure youll figure it out. i had the SAME exact problem a while ago and i decided to go for it and go out with him and i absolutly fell in love! we have been dating for about 7 months now. hes 16 too and im 15. well i hope it all works out and good luck i say just go for it girl because you never know... he could be the one
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