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Well I'm currently in a relationship but I also still talk to my ex boyfriend who I still have strong feelings for and I know he has them for me too because he tells me...well today we talked on the phone because he texted me saying he needed to talk to me about something important so i called him and he told me that his feelings are getting stronger for me to the point where he can't just be my friend and that he needs to be more than that and he sees us going far together in the future and I've been thinking the same way but I have a bf sooo I dont know what to do but the thing is me and him dont live in the same state because i moved but before i moved we developed feeings for eachother and told eachother and in the current relationship I'm in now I'm bored and I dont wanna be in it but I'm trying to give it a chance...I'm sooo confused...what should I do??? and he acts ike more of my bf than my current bf...plz help me (link)
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well girl, i know how it is. im in true love with my bf rite now and he lives in another state too. i broke up with him because he moved and we never got to see eachother but then i went out with a guy at my school and went to homecoming with him and everything but then i realized i missed my ex( the distant one) i love him so much and i was bored with my current one too so i broke up with him and told him i just wasnt over my ex yet and he understood so now im with the distant bf and its amazing. i know it mite seem hard to let you current one go and be with somone so far away but if you truley love him then i say go for it. try it and see where it takes you. theres no harm in taking chances ;) well good luck with it girl and let me know wat you decide!
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HI i'm 14 and my penis is 6.5 inches when i'm erect is this good or bad??? Please somebody tell me! (link)
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haha well since ur 14, 6.5 is pretty good lol you are probably going to get bigger too
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i'm in highschool, and i've never had a boyfriend. i've never even really had anything close to a boyfriend, like a guy i'm dating or something. i've kissed 6 different guys, but i dont talk to any of them. i barely even have any guys friends. i feel like complete shit about myself every single day because i think i'm so ugly because i never have a guy, and my friends always do. i really don't think i'm ugly, i just have some acne right now. but my friends are gorgeous, every guy is in love with them, they all have had boyfriends/dated and i'm so sick of being the only one different. i'm the kind of girl who is a hopeless romantic and i'm soo into all that mushy stuff, and i'm the one who's never had anything close to it. yes i realize i'm very young and it doesn't matter right now, but i still can't help but feel like i've been waiting sooo long and i feel so alone. ALL i want is to alwyas have a guy to talk to/ be dating someone.but i NEVER have anyone. well, i've had like 2 guys i remotely talked to for a little, and i become OBSESSED with them because they're the only guys that have ever actually acted like they liked me just a little bit, so i became extremely attached even though there wasn't much going on. that's how pathetic i am. i cry myself to sleep every night and i always feel sad, especially when i'm around my friends and they get soo much boys attention and i don't. i really don't think i'm ugly, but i must be, because i don't get what else is wrong with me. i talk normally in front of guys and try to have a personality. but nooo. never even any guy FRIENDS. every second of the day i dream about the love of my life and finding him and falling in love and being sooo happy finally. even though i know it won't be soon. i would be happy just having a boyfriend even if we weren't in love, or always have a guy to talk to, or always having guys want me. thats ALL i want. and i know it sounds so needy and pathetic but i can't help it anymore, i realized that i'm obsessed with boys but i don't have any boys of my own and allll i want is boys boys boys. but i have 0. every day all i think of is trying to find ways to have boys like me and get guys attention. i would seriously be soooo happy if as many guys liked me that like my friends. i always think somethings wrong with me and its soo unfair. i feel so depressed and soemtimes i even drink a lot because i'm upset about never having a boy or being alone. what is wrong with me and what can i do to finally change this? it's my dream and goal to have a boy, even a boy to date and hang out with and talk too not even a completely full out boyfriend, although that would be even better.what can i do to finally get this and to stop being so depressed about it every second of my life? it's all i think about. and i'm soooo jealous when i see girls that have a boy that loves them, or even a boy to talk to. i hate this :( (link)
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i used to be just like u girly. i know EXACTLY how you feel. i remeber when i used to go to the mall with my friends and all the guys hit on them and i was so annoyed and sad about never getting guys attention or being liked. but i found out that i would rather have amazing true friends and a great life then worrying about wat guys thought of me. when i did so guys seemed to be pointless. but now im in true love and it all happened unexpectidly! you cant go around looking for ur love you have to let it find you and dont worry... it ALWAYS does! i know you mite be thinking, "but that could take forever!", but trust me girl it will be worth it! you just have to stick in there and wait for it to come! i hope iv helped and i wish you the best of luck! :)
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wht do you do when you like a guy and the guy knows you like him and he knows you will do anything for him and so when you ask the guy out he says maybe and then for a couple days he keeps saying idk and then a week later he says welll sometimes i do sometimes i dont .... and when you are coming home you pass his house and you dont know it is his house and then you hear him call your name and you turn around and see him and his brother talking and walking at the same time and they were walking toward the house you passed and so you go over to him and say what and he asks youwhy you like him and you say cause hes cute and he says well thts a start and he asks you to come inside and you say yes an so he tells his brother to make sure nobody is in the house and then he tells you to stay outside for a minute and then he tells you to come in and thn you end up going upstairs with him and in to a room and he asks you if you gon let him hit and you want to say no but you end up saying yes and you end up sucking him down and then when your done he tells you not to tell nobdy and then the next day he doesint speak to you or any thing and he doesint even answer your question.. wht does tht mean??? and please help me please i really need help really really bad??
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oh hun well to be honest he is probably just using you because guys are like that :/ im sorry doll but if he didnt talk to you the next day after you did that then thats probably whats goin on. but did you and him talk about anything when you were in his room or did you guys make any kind of connection? if so then MAYBE he could possibly just be shy to talk to you or feel embarresed about what happened and doesnt know how to aproach the situation but most likely he was just being a guy and wanted some action and thought you would give it to him cuz you liked him. im sorry girl :/
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So here's the story...I really just don't know what to think of it all...we are both sophmores in college fyi.
After i broke up with my boyfriend of 6months..because it was a long distance relationship that really wasnt working out anymore...I started hanging out with this new guy. we were hanging out at least 4 nights a week plus seeing eachother & hanging out at parties on the weekend. when we hung out it was just watching movies sitting around..nothing fancy. every once in a while we messed around alittle bit..but not very much. most of the time it was just talking and cuddling..once in awhile we'd spend the night together. after about a month of this he took me to dinner on a friday night. we went to a school basketball game after dinner..saturday I went to his football game & we went out with a bunch of freinds that night. we spent the night together after that & went to lunch the next day. I was really busy on that monday so I didnt get a chance to talk to him..but then when i talked to him on tuesday he had a girlfriend....ummm? what happened? all of his freinds said that they hadnt even been talking and they were all really confused. they have been dating for about 2 weeks now and he continues to call me and text me saying how much he likes me and how much he misses me and how much of a mistake he made....i just dont know what to do now? i was really starting to fall for him and i really wish we could have kept hanging out..he keeps saying hes going to break up with his gf...that hes just waiting for her to give him a reason..idk help? (link)
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ok girl im going to try to help you out with this as much as possible. im sure youve read all the answers people have given you for this qustion. hears wat you do. read them again! when you read them listen to the one you feel is the rite one. i know that when people told you to let him go and move on you didnt want to. if you thought this its because you know hes a good guy and will do the rite thing if he loves you. if u think, well i guess maybe their rite, then its because you think they are and you could live without talking to him again and really move on.it just depends wat you think when people tell you wat to do. but dont listen to them follow ur own heart because your the only one who really knows this guy so your the only one who can make the choice.
i wish you the best of luck on this one girly and dont forget to follow YOUR heart.
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i'm basically in a very confusing situation, which shouldn't even be that hard in the first place! i've never had an actual boyfriend, i've had flings with guys but i've always been the one to break it off. guys are the ones who always text me, i usually don't have to text them which is a good thing for me. that all changed when i met this guy about 4yrs ago. you'd probably think i'd be really comfortable with him by now right? naaahh. he's the only guy that i can't build myself up to even ask him to hang out because i'm scared of rejection. not so much rejection, just the fact that he'd be busy and i'd sound dumb. i could ask any other guy to hang out and wouldn't care if they couldn't it'd be no big deal but not with this guy. he's actually a senior in high schoool; yeah he's even younger than me and i'm STILL intimidated. he plays football hockey and baseball for school so he's always busy with that and then his crazy ex girlfriend of 3yrs is still basically in love with him and begs him to hang out and so he does, because he's a good guys, whatever. i'm always scared he's either going to be with her or the hockey guys. he's going to play for a d1 college next yr for hockey so i want to try and spend as much time with him as i can now, but it's not going too good. he never texts me either, to hang out. i kind of feel like he's afraid to ask me too because when we talked about it like a yr ago i was like you never ask me to hang out and he was like NO you never ask ME, i'm always the one texting you. it's true, when we DO hang out he pretty much asks me. i can't overcome asking him to hang out or even text him first. i always have to have a reason to text him. he's a great guy, i love the kid to death and the weird thing is when we hang out i can tell him anything. it's just the asking him to hang out which is the problem. how can i overcome this? the worst he could say is "sorry i already have plans" but i'd still feel dumb and be like "oohhh...okay" and then if i ran into him somewhere i'd be embarassed? it's sad how every weekend i just wish he'd ask me to do something, but nope. and i can't build up the confidence to ask him. it's just how i am. uhhhh why am i so dumb :( can i overcome this? WHY can't i? (link)
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Girl its ok to just ask him if he wants to hangout! just play it off smooth and TEXT HIM FIRST! just say hey or somethin casual, ask him if he has plans goin on this weekend and if he says nope then say me either wanna hangout and it will go fine i beleive in u girl just go for it and after the first time u will get over it i promise :)
good luck!
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I am angry. I'm sure there are more girls out there who are as angry out there as I am. I am 17. I am so sick of pussy hungry guys. Why does it seem like now days all guys want is sex. They can't stick with one girl for at least a month. Its like, they can't ever get enough pussy at all. I am just sick of it. It's just so selfish and pig like. What is happening? It just seems to get worse every year. I know not all guys are like this, but most of them are...ew...its so irritating! I just want to hear your opinions guys/girls, what you think about what i'm saying. (link)
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Girl i know exactly wat you mean! i have a bf rite now and i swear i love him! im 15 and hes 16. we have been dating for about 7 months and im so scared to have sex with him because i dont wanna get hurt. its true that all teen guys lately just wanna have sex but you just have to watchout for the nice caring ones. not ALL of them are pussy pigs lol well hope you calm down and feel better.
best of luck :)
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I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages form the s-slut saying stuff like good night and sweet dreams (think she likes him because he told me the s-slut was talking about me to him saying why do you like her? shes weird, you should like me. and ohhhh, did that piss me off. we used to be friends but then she talks about me behind my back and its over lol). but even though i hear all of this stuff, i am not jelous at all. do you think maybe its because i dont know him well enough or brcause i dont like him in that way? usually i would be a lil bit jelous of this but not this time. im just wondering if it is a feeling that i would turn out to like him or if i just really dont care. please help with these confusing thoughts!
and by the way...my friend ends upp texting him and says sumthin like y arent you texting her back, unless you like 's-sluts name' now. then he texts me no, i dont like her, i like you. and i was like, yeah right. . . . and this would be my first bf by the way. i've been asked out before but im not desperate to go out with anyone i dont really like so i turned them all down. (link)
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well hun im sorry to say but i cant really help you with this one :/ only you can decided if you like him or not. why dont you try to hangout wit him sometime and see if you like the reall him. you can go wit friends so its more comfortable for ya but youll get to know him better if ur alone lol. i wish i could help more but im sure youll figure it out. i had the SAME exact problem a while ago and i decided to go for it and go out with him and i absolutly fell in love! we have been dating for about 7 months now. hes 16 too and im 15. well i hope it all works out and good luck i say just go for it girl because you never know... he could be the one
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