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I went to college in the Philippines and I just did not know how to deal with the reality because I did not know how to speak the national language and I all my classmates made fun of me that's why I dropped out of college in the Philippines in the first place. I've also quit my jobs before that because of the reality. Now just today, I revealed the biggest secret that I've been hiding all my life to my mom and that's that I am gay. I'm beginning to think that hiding this secret all my life ate me on the inside in which I think led to the decisions I've made in life. I just couldn't deal with certain problems with people. Do you think coming out was the answer to all my problems in the past?? I feel like I've been living a lie about myself my whole entire life and I just want to know if things will get better now for me. (link)
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Yes, now follow the yellow brick road and tap your heels together 3 times and say there's no homo's no mo' there's no homo's no mo'....
Seriosly though, be yourself. If you're comfortable being closeted then be closeted. Don't try to force yourself to be something you aren't comfortable with.
Find a companion. That's what is important. Think of being gay as just a fact. All it means is that you know in advance that your future companion will be a man. That's all. And now your mom knows. That's all man. Be yourself...Be true to yourself...
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Okay, so my Dad currently has a new home where he'd be staying there alone. In his apartment, he lived with his room mates. And 1 or 2 years ago, he had a stroke. Now, he's no longer going to be living with them, but alone. I think I should go live with him starting next semester of school, but my Mom is being you know.. motherly about it. She says to go live with him next year, but I'm pretty sure she'll change her mind about it.
I feel it's important for me to stay with me, even if I'm anxious and nervous since I'd have to totally move, and not live with my Mom anymore. I feel that it's really important for me to do so. If anything does happen to my Dad again and if he's alone -- then there will be no one to help him.
What can I do? (link)
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Talk to your dad. I doubt that he wants you to spend your college years taking care of him.
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okay i been searching for a job for a while now and im in desprate need of money i mean like seriously! wats some good ways to make money because it doesnt seem like im ever going to get hired anywhere! pleeeease help!!!!!! (link)
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If you have a high school diploma, then go to college.
If you don't have a HS diploma then get a GED and then go to college.
You can file for financial aid and take student loans.
Or go in the military.
Or get a job as a burger flipper.
Or search online for a job in a different area and relocate.
I highly recommend you just go to school and get a degree in something that will allow you to choose where you work and live.
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I am in a RUT!
I am debating on what I want to do for the rest of my life. I have gone to school for ECE and realised I dont like it at all. I am 20 and do not want to go to school fro long. i found a career counsellor Diploma program that takes 14 mths. My question is to ALL career counsellors or people who know career counsellors? What do they do? What is a day in the life of a career counsellor? What are the hours like? What are the benefits like? What are some challenges?
I found that working as an ECE i hated working from 10-6 becasue in the future if I have a family I would like to be home making dinner by 6 not leaving work. Another thing I didnt like about ECE was the illnesses, children are very germy. Back injuries are VERy likely to happen at daycares. So those are the major problems that made me switc career plans? What do you know that could help me finalise a decision? (link)
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You're not in the rut, yet.
Once you become a Career Counselor, then you'll be in the rut. Half the career counselors out there couldn't decide what they wanted to do, so...
In fact half of the psychologists out there became psychologist because they thought they might fix their own problems.
How do you expect to counsel people on careers when you can't decide for yourself?
I recommend that you examine yourself.
Ask yourself what you want to do?
What is going to be an enjoyable and satisfying day in the life of your career?
The challenge you face now is choosing your career not settling for one that might not take very long to get.
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So when i get erections if im around a girl i find semi attractive i always find myself trying to make it noticable to them. So my question is do girls find it arousing if they can see you have an erection? (link)
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Honestly, if you're trying to show her your hard on then all you must want is sex. If that's the case then horn it up. If she's interested she'll let you know.
But if you want a girl to like you for dating purposes then maybe you should show her some muscles first or open a door or buy her a gift.
You know, do all the courtship stuff that people don't do anymore.
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In your opinion when is the best time to have sex / make love? I guess most people do it at night like I do but i want to do it in the daytime and maybe not in the bedroom but i am afraid my husband will think I am some kind of sex freak.
Any advice? please at least state what time you think is best. (link)
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"I recommend walking around naked in your living room, feel free..."
Alanis Morissette
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Ok My ex and I are talking about getting back to gether, she loves that I can give her orgasms but yesterday when I was being funny I pulled it out and she compared it to her bfs. she was like I thought u were bigger, well u must b fatter and hes longer. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT BIGGER.
its about... 6in but when really turned on and hard its about 6.5in. and diameter is 2 inchs and the circumference is like 6 inchs. I wanna be longer please tellme how (link)
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Okay buddy,
Let's see....
Yeah that's pretty small... NOT
Six inches is commonly known as the average size for a human males penis.
Sounds like you need to tell this girl that she's too loose for you.
I mean after all she had the gaul to tell you that the other guy she's been doing is bigger...
Who cares how big he is. If she does, tell her to go be with him.
But if you are serious about making it bigger then maybe you should look into Penis Enlargement Surgery.
See information here: http://allabout-penis-enlargement.com/penis-enlargement-surgery.htm
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I am a slut. I will admit it. I've had sex with about 20 or so boys from my high school and I don't even know how many I've given head to. I'd had sex in the bathrooms, in the janitor's closet, and behind the school. I've skipped class to do this too. I'm really ashamed of myself and the way I dress on a day to day basis. I feel like I'm growing up and I don't want to be that type of person any more. None of the guys at school have respect for me. The girls hate me because I've slept with a lot of their boyfriends. Basically I can't get a good boyfriend who is really interested in ME because he knows we will have sex and I can't have a best friend because the girls think I'm going to steal their boyfriends or something (I don't blame them though...A LOT of guys have cheated on their girlfriends with me).
I am completely unhappy with myself and I don't know what I was thinking when I did those things. I guess I just wanted some attention because my parents are working alllll the time and I don't feel very loved or that I'm special. ANYWAY, how can I stop being such a slut? I hate it about me...I want to stop...but I just keep...screwing up, for lack of better words. Help, please? It's like, I keep thinking things like, "Yeah, maybe this guy might REALLY be into me! I need to push this forward..." but I KNOW he isn't...ugh...I feel stupid... (link)
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Look, you don't have a problem.
There is nothing wrong with you.
There might be something wrong with your behaviour and you are addressing that now.
My advice is to seek counseling.
You are not a slut, you are a sexually active human being. There's nothing wrong with sex or with having multiple partners. Just make sure you protect yourself from unwanted pregnancy and STD's.
Now make an appointment to talk to a professional counselor.
And make another appointment with your local Health Department and get checked for STD's and get some condoms.
And make some real freinds. Find some people who won't judge you by the rumours they've heard.
After all you didn't get the reputation you have alone. Why should you have to be the one who is bad?
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My dad watches porn.... I know, like how creepy right? he is like old. what do old people want porn for? he is like 35!!
I found his porn and i have been looking at my dads porn. i think it is so gross that he watches porn when he is soooo old why is that? why is it ok for me but not for him?
17/f (link)
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It's more okay for your dad to watch porn than it is you.
Is it even legal for a 17 year old girl to buy porn? I don't think so.
What you are experiencing is normal. No one wants to think of their parents sexually. Am I right...?
Of course I am.
Stop going through daddy's stuff, if you can't handle the truth.
Besides, isn't that invasion of his privacy.
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ok so i said it..... i am addicted to masterbating! how do i break this addiction? I do it all the time and i look forward to it so much that it seems like it it taking over my life.
please help! Help me find a way to stop masterbating so much or stop completely! Please?
if anyone can help me I thank you then! (link)
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Masterbation can be fun....
but you will go blind if you stare at the sun.
As long as you are discreet and you don't start masterbating in public I think you'll be ok.
Masterbation is an integral part of each person's life.
We all do it.
Some of us do it too much and some of us don't do it enough.
Everything falls into the category of preferences.
Of course if you just focus your energy on a hobby like music or exercise or DATING then you might find other ways to expend that sexual energy.
But never feel guilty for pleasing yourself man...
If you don't do it, then who else will...
Am I right?
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hi peeps!
every time i am in class with this one girl I like i get a terrible boner!! I really like her and I am afraid she will see it and hate me or I will creep her out you know? i really do like her like not as in sexually but want to know her like a girlfriend. the boner thing is just that she is really really REALLY pretty. i feel stupid but how can i MAKE myself NOT have a boner?
thank you! (link)
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Don't listen to these people.
Ride the boner out, experience it. It's your body.
Dude all guys get unwanted boners. It's part of being a guy.
Ask her out. Maybe she likes boners....
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I just have to know. I have had nothing but pain with guys who have big dicks so why are all the other girls making such a big deal out of this? (link)
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It's all a matter of preferences, my friend.
It's not just girls that like big ones, gay guys like them too.
And of course there are those who prefer a smaller penis. I mean at least there's you.
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So I was in my room last night and my mom just walked in to bring some towels in and there I was on my bed. :(
She didn't mean anything bad to happen she didn't even think I was there cause I snuck in to do it before I told her I was home. Stupid me!
Anyway, now she is looking at me differently.
What do I do about this?
Has this even happened to anyone else?
I feel terrible! :( (link)
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It's happened to everyone. Even your mom.
It'll be ok, buddy.
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how do you get buttsex to not hurt?
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Anal sex is painful, butt....
...with practise and lubricant it get's better.
You might try a smaller penis, or practise with a sex toy.
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Someone told me that if I gave head and swallowed cum I could get throat cancer! Isd this really true? Please! Could someone with some real knowledge and experience and NO throat cancer answer me? I guess if you have it then you should tell me too. I am SO worried! :( (link)
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There is an STD called HPV, which is now commonly refered to as a type of cancer. It's more commonly known as genetal warts. And although cum cannot cause cancer, genital warts or HPV can cause both cervical and throat cancer.
read about HPV here: http://rdoc.org.uk/hpv.html
Healthy cum causes babies and unhealthy cum causes STD's and unhealthy babies. And genital warts can lead to cancer.
Fortunately many STD's can be cured and you can't get pregnant swallowing a load.
Still you should always use condoms.
After all there are things like HPV.
They have flavored condoms for oral sex, you should check them out.
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Can someone tell me how to make myself tight "down there" again? It used to be hard for him to get in when we started and now he can pretty much just slide it right in with a little lube. I feel bad and I am afraid he will leave me for someone younger and tighter. Please help me! (link)
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See a plastic surgeon for some vaginoplasty.
read about it here: http://www.labiaplastysurgeon.com/vaginoplasty.html
Oh and get the liposuction too if you need it...
Splurge on yourself...
I would...
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HI i'm 14 and my penis is 6.5 inches when i'm erect is this good or bad??? Please somebody tell me! (link)
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I believe that the average length of the human male penis is about 6 inches. So take it how you want to take it. Either you are too big or you are above average. The truth is there are men out there with much longer penis' than yours, so calm down. You're average, brother man.
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So I was masturbating and I noticed there were little white bumps all over my penis. Is this abnormal and what the hell is it, im 14 and 6.5 inches does that have anything to do with it??? (link)
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My my my....
You might consider asking your father, perhaps he is familiar with your condition, if it is genetic.
Of course we should consider STD's too. If you are a virgin then of course it's not an STD.
But you don't say if you are, so I suggest that whether you are a virgin or not that you ask your family doctor to take a look.
If that is too embarrassing then go to the local Health Department.
The important thing is to have a professional determine the prognosis. If it's nothing then "Yay".....
If it's something, then "Yay" you have medical treatment available to you....
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OK so I have to ask. My girlfriend has been crazy for me to cum inside her but I am afraid of making her pregnant. She is on birth control and everything but still I feel like she is trying to trap me with a baby. Why? Because this is what she told me: She said that having cum inside her is a feeling of completeness and is 1000x better than orgasms.
Have any of you ever heard this? Is this for real? Do you really feel like that?
Thank you! (link)
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Look, she has obviously had someone cum inside her before. Let her go back to that guy. He obviously can't get her pregnant, but YOU CAN.
And you WILL. If you don't use a condom.
You have no idea what is in that girl's head. Of course she wants you to cum inside her because she wants a BABY....
Run, and run fast brother man....
You don't want to be trapped, do you???
And no she is lying to you....the actual feeling of female orgasm has got to be much more intense than feeling a guy's baby makers spill into her va jay jay...
Besides you should always use protection....to many many many diseases that you just do do do not want....
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So my friend and i were talking the other day and he said that if guys eat pineapples that their semen tastes better... is this true or is he just messin around??
And he also told me that if girls eat a lot of tomatoes that it makes their vagina smell funny... is this true too???
Thanks in advance for anyone who can answer this =] (link)
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No it's not true.
But you should take him to lunch and buy him some pineapples, then have a girl friend come over eating a tomato and leave with her.
Unless you want to test his theory, then by all means TASTE HIS THEORY...
Enjoy your fruit...
Either way...
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